如果你喜爱上一个人,如何追求自己喜欢的人？

 ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen？zhuiqiuxihuanyigeren，zuilijidefangfabianshiyaoxianghuodeta。zheihuameiwenti，zhuiqiuwanmeizhongjiuaiquanshizisizilide，xiaishangyigeren，douxiangyaorangxiaideneirenbianchengzishendeduxiangwujian。

neima，yingdangzenyangzhuidaozishenaiderenni?shijishangyeshiyoufangshi hezhaoshukexunde。

一、坚定不移自身的信心

ruguonixiaishangyigerenerqiebianchengjijixiashouzhuibudeneiyifangshi，yidingyaojiandingbuyixiafeitabukedexinxin。

 yishiyouyuzainizhuiqiuwanmeilingyifangdelumianshang，huichuxianhenduozhongduoyangxiangsheng，youxierenhuijilini，jinijiandingbuyizishendetiaoxuan，yingyongdezhuiqiuwanmeilingyifangjiujing。eryouxierenhuiyanlidajini，jianniqiuzhibudedeqingkuangxia，quandaonisheqi。jiarunidexinxinbujiandingbuyidehua，bianhuizaizheilierzhongxiangshengzhongyaobaibuding。

 ershiyouyumeiyigerendoushiyougerenyoudianhebugou，niyidingshiyouyuyigerendeyoudianerxiailingyifangde，danjiaowangleyiduanshijianhou，tadequexianyehuizainiyanqianpuluxuduo ，jiarubunenggourenshoutadequexian，jiandingbuyibuguanyouliedoufeitabuke，guoduozhuiqiuwanmeiwanmeizhuyizhe，dajiananyilaidaoyiqi。

二、要和另一方有拖累

 ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen？yaoxiangheyigerenzaiyiqi，neimajiuyidingyaozailingyifangdequanqiulibiannushuacunzaigan，erbushibuzhiyiti，ranglingyifangganjueyoumuyounidoubuzaihu。zheibiranyaohelingyifangchuangjianqiyidingdelianluo，zaigecengmiandouyouyidingdekuijiu，liangrenpobudeyipengmian，danqiantitiaojianyidingbingbushikuijiuqiancai。

 ninengxianglingyifanggesanchawudijiegeshenme，lirushudengshengmingzhongbingbushifeichangguanjiandanlingyifanghaijiaoweigaoduzhongshidewupin;nenggouyizhizhaolingyifanglaibangzhu，suihouqingchifanxielingyifang。jiushizheiyanglaiquzirudeyibuyiburangguanlianyuelaiyuegengweiqinmiwujian。

三、死皮赖脸点，但心态状态端正

 nixuyaolejie，zaixiailingyifang，lingyifangyeshiyigedandudegeren，yongyouzishendeganqingzhuiqiuwanmeiheluojisiweifenbian。zhuiqiuwanmeitayouzhipeiquantiaoxuanquxiaishei，ziranyejiuhuiyouzhipeiquantiaoxuanhuijueni。xintaizhuangtaiyaofangzheng，lingyifangjienanideqingkuangxia，nenggougaoxing，danlingyifanghuijueniyujienanidejilvshiyiyangde，beijujueshiyebubixincunzenghen，xiaiyichang，yeshiyizhongyuanfen。

 jijiquzhuiyigerenzishenbianshibixudanliangdeshier，shuonantingdian，bianshiyidingyaosipilailian，bubiyouyuyicibiaobaibuchenggongjiuganjuezishenqueshilequanbudejiyu，yaoshibingbushihuijuelaidaonidedaodedixian，jiukeyidishengxiaqidesipilailian，ziranyedezhuzhongfangshi 。

四、要和他的盆友处好关联

 buqingchunifajuemeiyou，yigerenduinideyinxiangyoulie，feichangdashuipinghaizaiyutashenbianderenduinidedianping。jinkenengyaohetashenbianderendouchuhaoguanlian，neiyangtarenzaitayanqiantidaonideqingkuangxia，huishiyipianzanyangdexiangsheng，nenggoutishenglingyifangduinidehaoyinxiang。

 tadepenyouyoudeqingkuangxiayejiushinidezhugong，dangniyongyuanbuzhidaoyingdangzenyanghelingyifangchuangjianqilianluodeqingkuangxia，chedinenggouxinghuitadedepengyou，shitadepenyoubangzhuyueju，jidajiagoujianpengmianjiaowangdejiyu。

 ruguonixiaishangyigerendeqingkuangxia，jiububimanbaozishendexin，yingyongdequzhuiqiu，quyingdui。huoxulingyifangyezaixiaizheni，sheidoubuqingchuqinfenzhihouhuishiruheyifanchangjing，jishimeiyouhuode，zuishaoyebuhuihouhui。kejiaruodouweidanshizhe，neijieguozongshiyouwufadedaozheiyige。