表白失败 怎么办?我认为绝大多数的弟兄和女性交往,把不上妹纸挺大的缘故是自身的情商低的男人,今日就为大伙儿聊一聊有关情商智商的难题,一般要是高情商的男生絕對是不容易缺乏女性的,情商智商也就是我平常说的社交媒体的工作能力,今日关键而言说什么情商低的表现:
1、shuoqitabutaihaohuoshichizetaren
guoshideyiweiyingguoshengren,shuoguo:“zeguairenshizuiyumeidegerenxingwei。”jiaru,renmenzishenfanlenaxiedebuzhengque,cuodaohezhongchengdu,yejibenshangshiburongyizhizezishende(zheiyidahuoernenggouzishenxiangyixiang)。zhizetarenshimeiyongde,budanshidajiatishenglefangyuli,bingqiehaihuijizijibianjie。lingwaizhizeshifengxiande,tahuijueqingdesunhaitarendezizunxin,jifabierendedikang。biaobaishibaizenmeban?biaobaixinzenmexie?
zaixuduodedaqiyehebudui,yixieyuedingsuchengdeyaoqiu,jiarupengdaoshashi,bukeyichizelingyifanghezhengzhi。zheilibianhaowuyiwenshiyouyidingdeyuangude。
zaijidahuoshuoyigegengfeichangrongyilejiedeshili:yixiexiongfan,niwenqiweiheweifafanzui,tamendoushijizijizhaoyuanyin,shuozishenweiweihuzishencaineimezuode。yigelaofangdejingchashuo,juedaduoshudezuifandoushijizijizhaoyuanyin,naizhiganjuezishenmeishenmecuo。tashirendebenxing,fancuoshashi,zongshizhizebieren,juebunengzhizezishen。
yinci,nixiangyixiangjiulianfanneimedadezuideren,douganjuezishenmeiyoushenmecuo,neimayibanderen,zuodeyibandeshigengburongyiganjuezishendebuzhengquele,nizaiquzhizechizetamen,zongshizaoshoudiyu,jibianzuibianbuyongshuo,xinlidoushihuidiyunide。linkenqicheshuodewozuiaideyijuhua:“woconglaibutaolunbieren,miandebeibierensuotaolun”。
niyizhizaizhizechizebierendeneishihou,jinguantashuodeshiduide,keshi,ganwanbiewangjirenbingbushikeguandexiaodongwu,zhishiqinggandexiaodongwu。
2、不容易调节情绪
renshiyizhongxintaidexiaodongwu,yibanderenshimeibanfacaozongzhuzishenxintaide,zhongyaoshirenyaoshiyilaixintaijiuhuifanxuduodebuzhengque,zaicikenizuodefenbianjichuquanshibuzhengquede。feichangjiandandeshili,nanrennvrenzaizhengchaodeneishihou,sheidouburongyiguanniandaozishendebuzhengque,douganjuezishendui,keshi,daolianggerendoupingjingxialai,jiuyaoshuozishennaernaerbutaihao,tashiguifandebeixintaishangxiadeshili。
yeyou,jiushishuozaidahuoergouwudeneishihou,beixuduodedianshizhixiaodepingtaishuodexintaishifendeshangzhangganjuezheiyishangpinjiushishuohao,zheihuijiulaixintaile,mashangdezheshoumailai,zhihoupingjingxialai,fajuehouhuimojile。
yinci,zainifahuo,jiaolvbuan,jidongdeneishihou,zaizishendexinliquanzishencikebiezuochunaxiefenbian,jichuquanshibuzhengquede,youyucikedezaiyebuhuilizhidejiexi(yiqiedeshiquanshineiyangde)。
shuohuirenmenpaomeizi,zainibeinvxingxiyinzhudeneishihou(xiyinzhudoushiyizhongxintai),yehuifanxuduodebuzhengque,benlaiweixiaogeshuobubiquyizhidebiwennvxing,bubiyizhidezhaoqingrenliaotian,bubigaobaizheixie,keshidixiongmenjiushishuocaozongbule,jiushishuobeizishendexintaisuoweihaiquganle,jieguojiuhuibaolutaiqiangdeyaoqiugan,zaochengmeizhipassdiaoni。
zheiquanshinixintaixiazuodejuece,neimaweixiaogeyouyigehaodetiyi:dangnicaozongbulenidexintai,huoshiniganjuerujinzishenxintaihenshangzhangdeneishihou,quandoubiezuo,dengwendingqingxule,zaizuojuece。
3、bumingbaideweibierenkaolvdao
zongshijizijikaolvdaoderenworenweijueduishidiqingshangzhishangderen,meirenhuixiaide。zairenmenchuidiaodeneishihou,nibutaikenengyixiangqingyuandebazishenxiaichideshiwufangdaoyugoushangba?neimayuqunhaowuyiwenburongyidiaoshang,nibixukaolvdaodeshiyuqunxiaichisha,nifangruyuqunxiaidechongzi,tadangranhuidiaoshang。
shijishangrenmen“diao”rendoushiyiyangde,nibixukaolvdaodeshirenxiainaxiecaisuanshinenggoude,taoluntayaoxiangde,erqieduitashuozenyangnenghuodeta,tashiquanshijieweiyinengweihairendefangshi(ziran,nijuqiangweixierenzuomoujianshishilingyizhongbaolijiaofa)。
liru,niyizhizaisonglingdaoliwudeneishihou,bukeyizhuguanyiduandequsong,zuiqiadangdefangfashi:zhangwolingdaoganbuxiainaxiedewupinhuozhetantingdaotaxianjieduanbixunaxie,zaiqusong,jibiansongdebingbushitebeizhongdewupinyehuichaoguoshijixiaoguode。
keshi,renmenrendebenxingdangzhongquanshizisizilide,xuduodeneishihouzongshikaolvdaozishen,youyigezhimingrenshishuoguo:“renmen90%deren,zai90%deshijianzhihuizhanzaizishendeguandiansisuo”。jiarunikeyibaozhenglizaitarendeguandiansisuonijiushishuoshengzheqiangyujuedaduoshuderen。
renmenrujindeshehuifazhan,zenmehuineimedequeshaoxinlai,jiushishuoyouyujuedaduoshudejinjinzaikaolvdaozishendequanyi,zhiguanxinzishenshibushikuidiao,zaiqukaolvdaobieren,naizhiburongyikaolvdaotaren。
rujindexuduofandian,yiyuanmenzhenquanshixianfufei,xiannaqianzailiao,nengfoufuwuzhoudaowulun。mayunbabadetaobaowangnenggouqudechenggong,zuixianshichuangjianlegerenxinyongdeguanlitixi,hailizaigukehedianjiadebicideshijiaokaolvdaonanti。
youguanyurenjiaowang,qingshangzhishangdenantiyeyouxuduo,jinrijinjinjiangguojigedianzhongyaodedian,jiarudahuoerganjuehaodehua,nenggoubangwoliuyanbanliuyan,zaizhihoudehaowenzhangwonenggengduodegongxiangyouguanshejiaomeiti,qingshangzhishangdenanti。erqiezheiyiwupinkeyongzaiyiqiedechangsuo(budanzailiaomei),yaoshiyurenxiangchu,jiuwubihuiweirenchushi。biaobaixinzenmexie?
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