那样的男生干万不可以要：追求完美，实际上很不可靠!

如何 追求自己喜欢的人 ?知人知面不知心，从一个人的表层始终没法揣摩出他的心里真正念头。最恐怖的并不是当众骂你的那人，最恐怖的是当众心疼你，身后却骂你的人!

 rutongyoudenanshengzhuinvsheng，kanqilaifeichangai，kanqilaihenqinfen，shijishangzuibukekao。ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen?zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?

 nvhaitongchangfeichangrongyibeinanhaizifeichanghaodehuayanqiaoyumengbilesisuo，fenbuqingchuzheiyinanhaizishifouqueshixiai。yixiekanqilaidequehenzhen，shenmejiaozhen?naxiecaisuanshijia?

1、他对谁都好

 youmuyouneiyangdeyigenanhaizi，taduihenhaode，jinishifendedadong。zhenduineiyangdenanhaizi，nvhaiziranburongyitichuzhiyi，sheihuitichuzhiyiyigeduizishenhaoderen?

jiarutabujinshiduiniyigerenneimehaoni?niyaohuiganjuetahaome?

taduishenpangquanbudenvhaidoushifendehao，meigerennengzhaoliaodao，zhenduinvhaideguidingquanshiguangjieshanyuan。

neiyangdenanhaizihuoxushiyigehenfeichanghaodelanyanzhiji，keshijueduibukeyibianchenglianren。

sheixiangyaohetarenyiqigongxiangzishendenanyou?sheixiangyaojiandaozishendenanyouduiqitanvhaiguangjieshanyuan?sheixiangyaogongxiangganqing?

jiayongzhongyangkongdiaobujinnuanniyigeren，tanuanxuduoren。neiyangdenanhaizimeifajinvyouchanshengguishugan，yehenbukekao。

2、他看起来很利害

 yixienanhaiziyibianchengxianzishendenanyouli，jiuhuiyouyidequshengdongrangzishenkanqilaihenlihai。zainvyouyanqianzhuyaobiaoxiandehenlihai，duoyouqingmianshifou?

ninengcongtadezuizhongtingjiantayiqieshidounengbaozheng，suoyourendoubibushangta，zongzhijiushishuomeirenbitagengjiahaole。

 jiarulianqingshuodahuajiunenggou，neimayaoqinfennuliganshenme?shuodahuadelingwai，youmuyouchongfenkaolvqueshipengdaoxuduoshimeifachuligaizenmeban?shijijiushishuozheiban。

 mankoudahuadenanhaiziruguogenniyizhizaiyiqi，yidingyaoshensishulv。huibanshidenanhaizitongchangdouburongyishuoguoduo，yizhishuoxuduodenanhaizi，tongchangshashidouzuobule。

lianqingrutongguoshenghuo，bixudeshishigan，erbingbushichuipeng。shuazuipizi，bibushangduozuoshishilaidekekao。

3、他全都听你的

 youyizhongnanhaizi，quandouxiangyaotingnide。neiyangdenanhaizikanqilaitinghaode，xiangyaojinvyouquanbudefenpeiquan，xuduorenxiaicongmingdenanyouma?

kanqilaifeichanghao，buyidingjiuqueshihao。lianzuijichudezuonanyoudezhipeiquandoububidenanhaizi，yeyaotaganshenme?

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yigejigedenanyouyidingshiyoushangjinxinhedangdande，younandianyidingshijijizhanchuqude，erbingbushiduozainvyoudeshenhoucongming。

 shashidoutingcongbuyidingjiushishuohao，zhaonanyoubingbushiyibianzhaoliaota，zhishiyibianbeizhaoliao。nanhaizihuanshibixudiangexinghua，gainanshengshijiuyingdangnanshengyidian。

meiyounayizhongrenshihao，meiyounayizhongrenshibutaihao。heshiniderenjiushishuohao，buyinidejiushishuobutaihao。

zhinengchuantoubiaocengkanshizhi，zhinengduofangweidequguancha，zhinenghuaxiaodaliangdeshijian，caikeyilejiesheicaisuanshinidezhenmingtianzi。

 pengdaoganqingqueshimeiyouneimafeichangrongyi，yebingbushisheidounenggouqingyijiunengpengdaoxingmingzhongdenageweiyi。jinliangbuyaojiubeibiaocengde“xingfu”mengbi，kanqilaidexingfu，buyidingqueshihao。

ganqingjiushishuo，zhaoyigekekaoderen，guojiandanshenghuo!zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?