女生追求男生失败了？怎么再进行再次追求？

如何 追求自己喜欢的人 ?我近期在老人的分配下来相亲约会，本认为这次仍然会像前几次那般不可靠，可是哪知道，我居然对这一相亲约会男一见钟情。相亲约会男叫范漳，比我大三岁，在政府机构工作中。那时候见他第一面的那时候，他帮我的印像就是说现如今非常受欢迎的一个词——退休干部。

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