女追男隔层纱？女生追求男生确实容易吗？

如何 追求自己喜欢的人 ?需不需要消除一次积极终身普攻的封建迷信呢?要清晰，女性不积极，那麼就缺失决定权，缺失决定权那麼相当于奢侈浪费找对象机遇和時间。

 congmingnvren，zaoyiduiyukaiwu。jiaruoniyaotiaoxuanyigegenniyiyangcengjihezhengtishilideairen，neimayouxiaodefangfajiushishuobicidoufenbiemaikaiyibu，lingyifangjijiyidian，nihaiyaoshidujijiyidian。zhongjiudeairen，yidingshiquanshishijunlidi，fenbuqinggaoaide。ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen?zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?

一、不享有积极的快乐，就没法全身心资金投入

 jiaruoniyizhizailianqingzhong，shiyigebujijideren。neimanideguishuganyeyikaolingyifangchushidaliang，lijizaochengzishenchangchanghusiluanxiang，yehaipazijintouruguoduo，zheidoushixuduonvxingdeshenshangcunyoudequexian。

举例说明：

youyigenvhai，pengdaoyigemanyouhaogandudenansheng。

zheiyinanshengmeitianzhaotaxianliao，youshihouyehuichuanchuyaoqingdeshujuxinhao。kezheiyineishihoutaqueyangzhuanglengmo，yizhituiwei。

 zhihouzheiyinanshengdatuitanggule，zhongjiulveweitounaoguanyongyidiandenansheng，doulejieneiyangxialaiyetaimeiqule，bibushangshiqudianlikai。

 shubuzhizheiyinvhaiquegangkaishihouhuimojile，neixinyiwangebuxiangyao!yiguohenjiu，tahuranxiangjijilianluota，dajiacaiyicaizheiyinanshengneixinhuiruhexiang?

juedaduoshudeniantou，wobuyiyiliejule。

danhenhaowuyiwendeshi，lingyifangyemeifafanhuidangshidereqing。

 yincishuo，haipakaiqizishen，zongshijinishiguanglidelianqingyuelaiyueshifenfawei，niyemeifatishengzishendeganqingxitongruanjiandediaodingtianhuaban，jineryushangdaliangdegailv。

二、找对象并不是运势，只是积极造就机遇

 youyibufennvxingdezaiqianyishizhongli，rengranchedimeiyouchedijiejuezheixiejiusixiangdejushu。tamenjuede，zishenjiushishuobixubeizhengfu2，beitiaoxuan，beijiena。

 erzheizhongnvxing，jiaruzaiqingchunnianshaodeshiguanglipengdaohaoduogehuaxinnan，jiashanghaoduogebushihedemubiao，jichujiuguishuyufeile，ertamendaduoshuyouzaiduzaoyujiehundegongzuoyali，nianjidetongku。

 yinciliangzhezhijianpugongdidenghou，haibibushanghenzaodinadingzhuyizhudongchuji。zhongjiunvxingnianqingshijiushishuoshideqingkuang，jiarubumingbaizhuazhushangtianfurangnideyoudian，neiqueshishihaokexi。

 shijishangzhaoduixiangzishenbujiushishuoshuangxiangjiaoliuma，chuduixiangtaituolaqueshibutaihao，zhudongchujibuyidingjiushishuoyaolikemingqueguanlian。yiwokanlai，haibibushangkuaidianertiejinlixianghuadehouxuanren，ziranqiantitiaojianshiweichishidujianjudechupeng。

 ruguonijijimaikaiqudeneishihou，nijiangqingchunnianshaodemeiyifenmeiyikedouyuelaiyueyoushiyongjiazhierqietianmanjianghui。erzishenqingkuanglejiyu，yejiangwuxiandikuoda，erbingbushizaihuanghuangkongbuankongdedangzhong，tarugudingbudongsuchengdejiehunyunshi。

三、积极非倒追，只是一种积极主动找对象对策

jiji，zaimeiyouxinxindenvxingyanzhong，jiushishuojiangjia。erzaixinxindenvxingyanzhong，zheijiushishuojijizhudongxunzhaoaiqing。

 yibuaiqingpianyeba，huanshiyishizhuxingyeba。liangrenyaoxiangzaochenghuomiao，neimabukehuoquedehuanshizheijuhua：wobujiji，renmenweishenmehuiyoujingdiangushi。

 jiarufenbuqingchushenmejiaodaozhuihejijizhudongzhaoduixiang，neimafeichangrongyihuishenxianyizhongzhishidian：chuduixiangjijishinanrendezeren。

zheibushiwanshandeniantou，feichangshihuaizhezheileiniantoujindaoyiduanzhangqixingguanlian，nigenbenjiaowangbuchulai。

youyigegaoxiaoduanzishineiyangshuode：woxiangwoyigerenzoule99bu，zuizhongyibujiaojiwodezizun。

 jiarunishiyigezaiqingganli，jihujiuweicengxiangyaojiji，neimazhongjiuniyibeiziyecuoguolekaiqizishenxinlidejiyu，yizhiyumeifachediyouzheyuyixingpengyoujiaowangdegongzuonengli。

 worenwei，niyingyongtiaoxuanqugenyigechusedeyixingpengyouxiangchu，shizhishangquanshizaixianghuzhijianshangxi。yaoqingxi，yiqiezhengchangdeyurenxiangchuquanshiyoulaiyouwangde，zaihunyinguanxilitaiguoyizhi，neimazuihouzongshicuoguoledaliangchusedehouxuanren。zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?