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自身展现

ruhe zhuiqiuzijixihuanderen ?changchangzipaizhaohuoshizhanxianxingfudeyimianfazhiweixinpengyouquan，fanyingnixianjieduanguodefeichanghao，quwan，ranghaoguimirangnipaipiaoliangdian。bubiyounanhaizi。duiyuzenyangyazhidizhaoxiangma。

paoniuyaozhuangb，liaomeigengyaozhuangb。nvhaitongchangchuzaibeizhuidebuwei。neimawopingshazhuini?pinwei?rongmao?neihan?zheizhongdounenggougenjuweixinpengyouquandeyouyishineizhuangxiulaifanying。jinribujinxing，zhihounenggoushijiliaoyiliao：zenyangyazhidizaiweixinpengyouquanzhuangb。ruhezhuiqiuzijixihuanderen?zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?

若即若离

weixinpengyouquanyoushihouguanzhuhudongjiaoliu，jiarutabuzenmefapengyouquan，jiuyoushihouwenqiyixienanti，meishierqiujiaoyixiata。dajiazaoyifazhanqushidaoaimei，nenggouzhaotaqingtuyixiegongzuozhongyishizhuxingshangdefannao。

qiantitiaojianjiushinizhaotaxianliaodeneishihou，tajijizhudongdafuni，jiarujiaoweilengmojiufanhuidiyibu，tigaozijineichuwaizai，youzhuangbdezichan。(dangniyudaowozheileiweixinpengyouquanyou4000pengyoudejiusheqiba……)

zaishoujiweixinshang，nikeyihetahudongjiaoliuxianshixinxijiniguanxinta，tahuiliuyinijiqiliuyijiniliuyita，biaodahaiyoujihui。keshibukeyitaijijizhudong，guoduzheyi，nanxinghuijuedesuibiannadaobuaixi。nijiushishuoyaodiaota，youshihoumeilitayiduanshijian。huranyouzhaota。

你情我侬

yuyanzhonggangkaishinuanwei，huiyoushazihuoshidutejiaofachuxianhou，huiyinglijixie，cikenizishenyidinghuichuzaixingfenhebijiaominganqingkuang，kanbujianlingyifanghuiyingjiuxinshenbuan。zheiyihuanjieyaodandingcongrong，kanlingyifanghuiyingdesuduzhitongpinjiukeyi，weichijuecha。shizheliaodeshengengbanye，nenggoushiyixiazhengye。

nengjingchangaoyegoutongjiaoliu，yizebiaodalianggerenhuxiangzaihu，erzebiaomingyouhuatitaolunnenggouliaoyigeyeli，zhihoujiaowangdaxiajichu。zaiyiqihoumeiyouhuashuoshiyizhongduometongdelingwu。

biaozhunrongxuxia，dianhuahuoyuyinliaotiangoutongjiaoliu。shipinyuyinxianenggengzhenzheng，yuyanhuigengyouqinggan，diannaodazihuiyousisuoshijian，huiyanzangguoduowupinle。zhongjiuchuduixianghuanshiyaozhongguishijide。

顺水推舟

aoliusuhou，zhaogejiyuhelingyifangshuo：jinqiyouyigenanhaizimeitianyuenihuoshiyueni，niwenqiyinggaizenmeban?chufeishiqingchanggaoshougaoshouhuoshierlengzi，rangnilaiwai，yibanhuilijihuoshijianjiedezulanni。ranglingyifangzaochengjinzhang。lingwaikanyixialingyifangqingyi，youmuyoujinyibufazhanqushidehanyi。zenmezhidaoni?kanlingyifangjiaolvbuanshuiping，yibannvhaidoudong。

刻舟求剑

mingquelingyifangqingyile，jiushengchuopozuizhongyizhangzhi。biezheji，denghoudutedeshirixiangjinqixijieshengdanjienaxiede，jiarulingyifangyouxin，nidongdede。jiaruqueshidaigua，ninengjijidian，shuo：qixijiebuyuanyigeren，renmendangyitianlianrenzenyang?huoshishengdanjieyinnixinggaobai。

queshipengbushangshiri，jiuzaidajiashipinyuyindeneishihou，ranghaoguimizaihuawaiyinshanfengdianhuo：chuduixiangla?shixxnanyouma?renmenxxkehaole，qianwanbieqiyata。jiarulingyifangqueshilijiebushang，nikeyikaolvdaoshibushihuanduile。

确立你的闲聊总体目标

niweishenmehuijiaxiaoxianroumingxingdeshoujiweixin?zhishishiwuquxiangzhaorenliaoliaotian，huanshixiangtanyichanglianqing，huoshilijiqingmiyiluannghengyici?

quelilenidexianliaozongtimubiao，dajiajiubutaiaishenxianmeirihudaozaozhongwanandejiongjing。chucizhiwai，dangniyizhibuyuetachulai，zuizhongdajiahuibianweixiangjinbiyoudecunyou，nuanweiyehuiyouyuanwufen。yinci，dandadihetaliaotianba!

怎样打开话题讨论

feichangjiandandefangfa，shuoshenghai、jiandanziwojieshaoyixia，liru“wojiushilinjuban、linjudanweidexxx，yiqianyizhizaigongjiaocheshangjiandaoniye”。dangxianghujianyilejieyihou，haiyaolikeshuoyixiehezishenhuoshiyubicidouxiangguandeshier，buranhuihuafeichangrongyitingzhibuqian。

问一个敞开式的难题

shuobailechangkaishidenanti，jiushishuolingyifangbutaikenengzhineng“shi”huo“fou”laihuiyingdenanti。liru，niganjuexxxyingpianzenmeyang，zheijiaofengbishiwenti;zuixihuankanshazhongleideyingpian，jinqiyoushenmehenganxingqude，zheijiaokaifangshiwenti。

yigehaodekaifangshiwenti，buyongranglingyifangdongnaojinxiangzhangshijian，yeburongyiranglingyifangtiaoxuansuiyihuiying，zhongyaojiushishuoyaojianyi、qingxi、meiyouzhengquedaan。

找寻共同语言

congdajialianggerendexianghuzhenshishenfenshangbianzhaoxungongtongyuyanshifeichangjiandande。jiarudajiashilaotongxue，yiqieyuyuanxiaoxiangguandewupindounenggoushidajiadehuatitaolun;jiadingdajiazaiyichangzaoxingyishushalonghuodongshanglejie，neimashalonghuodongzishenjiqibiedexiangjinzhutihuodongjiushishuogongtongyuyan;jiarudajiadouzhutongyipiandiqu，neidajiadeyishizhuxinghaikeyibianchenggongtongyuyan。

适度变换话题讨论

meirenhuixiailiaolejishijuhaiyaoliaotongyijianshide。tongyigehuatitaolunbubiliaozhangshijian，zhaozhunshijiantuidong、bianhuanhuatitaolun，haohaodibawo，neiyanghuikanqilaizishengengquwei，lingyifangyehuigengxiangyunihaohaodixianliao。

liru，dangdajiazaidiaokangongzuozhongdeneishihou，ninengzhuanhuanhuatitaolundao“nichangchangjiabanjiadianma”，zaibianhuandao“neimeniwanfanyibanruhechulia”，zuizhongsuiyuerandibianwei“xubuxuyaoyuefan”。

灵活运用表情图

biaoqingtuyibanshidakaihuihuadeyigehaofangshi ，yitaohaodebiaoqingbaogengkeyiyishunjianchaorefenwei。keshi，jinyongbiaoqingtu、wuxuwenbende“xiaobiaoqingduijue”yibanhuizaochenggaliao，jinjibiaoqingtushizhongshiwenbendechentuo，bubishebenzhumo;chucizhiwai，yixietaijie、sichukandejiandebiaoqingtudoushijinliangshaoweimiao，yikanlaiduolefawei，erlaikanqilainipinweiyibanbanya。zenmezhuiqiuwanmeideren?