聊天也是一门艺术：追求女生必备聊天技巧是什么

 xianliaodoushizheixiangjishuxing。zairichangshenghuozhong，zheixiehuixianliaoderendaonadounenghetarenliaoqilai，bulunshihenantonghuanshiyixingpengyou，erzaizhirenyuanchangzhong，neiyangderentongchangyehuihuodegaoduzhongshi。liaotianyeshiyimenyishu，zhuiqiunvshengbibeiliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?

一、聊天也是一门艺术：追求女生必备聊天技巧是什么

 zhangxiangfeichanghaokebuhuiliaotiandenanhaizishenpangdeyixingpengyou，douhaimeidongdeshuohuakezhangxiangbingbushihengaodenanhaizishenpangdeyixingpengyouduo。liaotianyeshiyimenyishu，zhuiqiunvshengbibeiliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?

 yiqiantingjiannvviphuiyuanmaiyuanshuonanyouhuoshishilaogongbuxiangyaohetashuohua，wonengwenta：“youyongguojijihelaogonggoutongjiaoliuma?” tashuo：“you，dantajiushishuobukenzhangkou。” woyouwen：“niyeshiruhehetaxianliaodea?” tashuo：“jiuyiqiezhengchangxianliaoa。”

 jianxinxuduoyouzheiyikunhuodenvhai，zhuangkuangdayuedouhezheimingviphuiyuanxiangjin。weiheliaobuxialai?yejiushishuoweihetabuyuanmeiyouxiangyingni?youyunibenzhijiubuqingchushenmejiaoxianliao，xianliaobingbushinizuichuanchulexiangsheng，huchejiujiaoxianliao。

 liaotianyeshiyimenyishu，zhuiqiunvshengbibeiliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?cheng2gehuanjie——diyigehuanjie：keyiyiqiezhengchanggoutongjiaoliuxialai，yejiushishuotanenggeyuniliaoxialai。diergehuanjie：yougehuatitaolun，chixutuokuankuozhan，liaodaogaoxing。

 zhinenglaidaodiergehuanjie，dajiadeguanliannenggougengweiqinmijiechu。 haodeliaotianfangshi，jiushishuozaiyibicidexintai，neirenmenyaozenyanggaijinzishendeliaotianfangshini?

1.明白聆听

 zailingyifangshuohuashi，yongxinting，tahuiganjuenihenzhongshita，tadaziranjiuxiangyaoyunishuohua。tingdeneishihourentiqianshen，biaodaguanxin，rentiwanghouyang，biaodalejie。haiyaoyoubixudexiaobiaoqingzhuanbian，ganjuezishenshenyoutihui。

2.引到荒谬或是发觉积极主动面

 lijijulishuomingba：nv：“nikanqilaibugaoa。”nan：“duia，zhangxiangyade。”nan：“wojuedewoxiongdoubinida。”nv：“woxiaowojiaoao!hainengpingtianxia!”

3.称赞

 liuyiguanjiandian，shijitihui，yeyaozuochubizhao。“nijinrineijianshenhuiseyifukuzihefenhongsexueziqueshidadetaibangle，linjuzhangtangtangjiumeinichuandeneimepiaoliang。”“pei!”“wanxiaoma!danshiqueshipiaoliang!wohaijinbuzhuduokanyueduleliangyan。”

4.无赖式歪曲

yanzhelingyifangdehua，kaimouxieyansedewanxiaohua。“jinwanchishenme?”“chisha!?”

 changchangtingjianxuduorengantan，haokandepinangyichengbubian，youqudelinghun**tiaoyi。danshinikeyilejie，yuanyiquwei，jiunenggouxiancongdajiadexianliaogangkaishigenggai，yuelaiyuegengyoumeili，bubizongshiqujiaozhener!

 liaotianyeshiyimenyishu，zhuiqiunvshengbibeiliaotianjiqiaoshishenme?niruguoxuehaozheizhongliaotiandejiqiao，jiunengyuanmanjindaoxianliaodediergehuanjie，neidajiadeqinggan，jiuhuitiwen!