学会掌握主动权才能挽回爱情

许多人到分手之后急功近利，都期待另一方可以立刻返回自身身旁，分手之后向另一方低声下气，也有死皮赖脸，你将会在这一段关联里边还占据主动权，可是却由于提出分手这件事情你立刻学会放下你的原先的自豪，缺失了自身的主动权。想要 挽回 男友的话应该怎么做?怎样挽回爱情?

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