如何运用男生分手后不同的心态变化来挽回男友?

 xiangyao wanhui nanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?ruheyunyongnanhaizifenshouhoubutongdexintaibianhuazhudongquchuoduifangdexintairuodianlaiwanhui?nanhaizifenshouhoudadihuiqinshenjinglineiyangsigeshiqi：“paichiqi”、“fangkongqi”、“nianxiangqi”、“fuheqi”。womenxiangyaowanhuiaiqing，doushiyaoxuehaobawozhunanshengzheisigeshiqibutongdexintairuodian，yibubuqugongkeduifangdexintaifangyu，chaoguowanhuidemudi，zheizaiqizhongzuiguanjiandejiushishuoyaozhangwoqianlianggeshiqi，xiangyaowanhuinanyoudehuayinggaizenmezuo?wanhuiaiqingyoushenmemijue?

1、“排斥期”

zheiyishiqiyiban dezhuyaobiaoxianshiduifangdianhuabujie、shoujiweixinbuhuihuoshilijishandiaojiaruheimingdan。

 bicidouhennanao，xiangyaowanhuidelingyifang，chuzaishenshenditongkuhehuailianzhong;erfenshoudelingyifangzhixiangananwenwen，bubeidajiao。

 juedabufenxiangwanhuideren，doudaozaizailezheiyihuanjie，youyuzheishideninengshizhequzhiqian，quchengnuo，nixiangzhenizishendeshangmeiduanqingganshifouneiyangde?danyezhengyouyuduifangbuyuanlejieyiqieyouguannidexinxijiqiyiqieyunixiangguandeshiqing，tidaoniderenhedoushishenshendipaichi(zheizaishehuixintaixueshangnenggouyongjinyinxiaoyingbiaoshu，nenggoufanyifanjiaoshiyiqiandegaozi，dayuehanyijiushishuofenshouhouduifanghuibiandanidequexianjiqixiaojiqingxu，zheidoushisipilailianyiban wanhuibuchenggongdeshehuixintaixueyuangu)，cikenilaizhiqianhuoshifuwuchengnuo，doushibianchengjingongduifangdebuqiangzidan，woxiangwenyixiaduifangweishenmehuijininhaomianse?

neiduifangchuyuzheishiqigairuheqiadangdequwanhuini?

 qiadangdezuofashi：jiangdilianluohuoshishiduduanlian(duanliandedeshijianzheierjiuyibuzhuanshule，henganxingqudepenyounenggoulijifanyifanjiaoshiyiqiandegaozi)，zheidoushiweiziji1gelizhiqi，nenggourangbicichangyoushijianzhengliyixiaxiachanshengguodeshier，bimianxianghuganqingzaiyiciebian。

 zheishidenikeyixiankaolvduifangdeyaoqiu，liru：jienatichufenshoukeguanshishi，zhongzhisaoraoduifang，neiyangnenggoujianshaoduifangdetifangxin，chuangjianguanliandeshushiquan。

 bubidanxinduifanghuiwangdiaoledajiadeqinggan，huoshidanxinyouxinnvyoulaitidaileyingxiangli。youyufenshouhouduifangbutaikenenglikejiuhuixiguanxinggerenmendeshenghuo;xiangfanxiangzhe，duifanggangfenshouhouzongyouxinnvyou，neiyangdenanhaizizuigainizhudongwanhuima?

 jilao，wanhuishizheichangboyi，shizheichangxintaizhanshu，nibixuanweizishen，bingtigaozishendegerensuzhi，zheiyihuanjiepindejiushishuogerensuzhi。ruojiruoli，sunzibingfadengzhanfazaiqingganwanhuizhongyiyangkeyong。2、“fangkongqi”

 zheishiqishiduifangmeiyouganqingqifudehuanjie，danxinliwuyiqiejingtaohailang，bingbushiyiweizhezhetifangxiaochu。xuduowanhuizhehuiwuyiweiduifangkuanrongzishenle，yincigangkaishizaicisaorao、qiufuhe，jieguozhongjiuzongshirangduifangzaicituihaipaichiqi。

zheishiqiqiadangdezuofashi：yunyong“paichiqi”he“fangkongqi”lianggehuanjiedeshijiankaizhanzaiciyingzaozishen：genggaibingtigao。

 liru：chulailvyou，huanyigetouxing，maitaoxinyifukuzi，xuexipeixunzheixiangzishenxiaidedanhaiburongyidezhuanyejinengrumeishuhuihua，paishezheixie。

 zheizhonggerenxingweinenggouxiezhuniqianyijizhongzhuyili，zaicijianqizishendeshenghuo，lingwaiyekeyijiangdiduifangduinidepaichi。shidudeneishihou，ninengzaimeimeidadediqupaiduozhangchumeimeidadexiangpian，fangdaodajiaxianghudeshejiaomeitidongtaixingshangtahuikandao，huoshirangdajiadexianghupengyoukandao。(zhuti，shijianquanshiyouzhuzhong，bukeyitaiyouyihuoshitaipuluyaoqiugan)

 weicilaitahuijiandaonidegenggai，nidebutong。nikeyilejie，meiyouzijinanhaizihuihuijuexingfuderenhuoshishiqing，hekuanghuanshizishenyiqianaizheguode。

 chuyu“fangkongqi”deneishihou，nenggoushizhecaozongzaiqitianhuoshibangeyueyihuidepinlv(shijishijianbixukanduifangzuochudefanying，yijuqinggandejutiqingkuangpouxierding)，youshihouchuxianzaiduifangdequanqiu，laikankanduifang，weichishuligan。

 liru：jiaruduifangmeiyoulianluoni，ninengzhaoyuanyinyuduifangzhudongkaizhanlianluo，nenggoufajiju：“jieriyukuaie”，duifanghuiyingshifoudoububiqudanxinhuoshihouhuimoji，buzaihudexintaijiuxing，yebubi“zhuanshenlikai”，jiduifangfa“zaoshanghao、tianqilengduotianyi”zheileidehua，youyudajiarujinbingbushilianrenle，“luren”bale。

这儿也要注重1点：

 zijixianggenggai，wojuedemeiyouzheimejiandan，youyuzheishijieshikecunyouguanxingli，dangnizhiqianshiruhede，zhihouhenjianghuihuanshiruhede，jiaruxianggenggaiyuanlaiguanxingli，nijiubixushifangwailizuoyong。

 lirulianqingzhongdeniyaonideairengenggaimouxiequexian，nidengtazishengaidegailvhendi，youyuguanxinglihuishitabaochibubian。xiangbaituoguanxingli，feichangjiandan，neibianshiyouwailizuoyongtianjia，genggaitayouxiaodefangfashinikeyiquzhengqueyindaota，nidezheiyizhengqueyindaojiushishuotadewailizuoyong。

 erwanhuizhong，henguanjiandeyidianershinizishendoushibixugenggaide，nijiubixurangjiaoshihuoshipenyouzhengqueyindaonizuogenggai，yiyaojianguan，yiyaoduinishuoheshinidedefangshi，shibangongbei。

 xuduowanhuizhezhuguanyiduandejuedewangshangkan2~3piangaozijiukeyiwanhuiqiannvyou，quebuzhidao，yijiushinidegenggaimeiyoujianguanmeifajixuxiaqu;ershiyiqieduidewanhuifangshiquanshiyinrenyousuobutongde，nizijuededuidefangshi，wojuedezaijiaoshihenduoniangongzuojingyanlaikan，quanshizhuguanyiduan，heshinizishende，suanshishidefangshi，zheijiushishuojiaoshidegongxiao。

3、“念想期”

 zheishiqi，duifangzaoyiwangdiaodajiadetichufenshou，tifangxinmanmanjianshao，nengkeguandeduidaidajiadeqinggan，gengnengkeguanxingdeduidaini。

 yinweijinyinxiaoyingdemanmanxiaotui，duifangduinidexiaojiqingxu，fourenxintaigangkaishixiaotui，huizhujianxiangqidajiademeihaoshiguang，huiyouyuniyizhizaidajiaxianghushejiaoquanzidedongtaizhanshidebianhuaerzaicikaolvdajiadeguanlian。

 dajiadeguanlianpianzhongyupengyouhuoshihenjiuweijiandeyixingpengyou，ninengxunzhaotupokou，yuduifangjianyidexianliaoxujiu，tanyitanxiankuang。danliuyizaixianliaozhong，qiewutijidajiayiqiandeqinshenjingli、tichufenshoudefenqi、jiqifuhedeniantou。

 dajiadelianluoyaozhuizhibuzhuiliang，danshiduodajiao，danshimeicidelianluodounengrangduifangtihuidaonibianhua，huoshitahuixiangdaodaoninhaodeyibian。

 zheishiqiduifangyejianghuihuichuxian“buduanzhuangkuang”，liru：qianduanshijianhaiyunishuoshuoxiaoxiaoyikuaieryongcan，keshizuijinjiumeilini，haoxianghaiduozheni。biedanyou，duifangjinjinzaisisuodajiadeguanlian，meilelianrendezhenshishenfen，tayezaidanxin，zaisisuo。buyaoxiangtaiduo，suiyueran，yaoshiduifangbupaichini，niliqudechenggongwanhuijiuzhishengyibule。

4、“复合期”

 ruguoniguanchadaoduifangzaishejiaowangzhanfamouxieganqingleidewentu，huozhehuizhudongyuniyizhizaiweixinpengyouquanhudongjiaoliu，biaomingduifangzaoyijindaole“fuheqi”，cikejiushiniwanhuiqudechenggongdedezuijiashijile。

 jiaruniyaogaozitaiwanhui，cikeninengdengduifangzhudongmingquetichumouxielanmanqienuanweideyaoqing，ninengtongyiyaoqing，danyebubitaipuluyaoqiugan，ruoduifangmingquetichukaifangjiandengjianyi，bixuyaoxuehuijujue。

 jilao，mingbaihuijueduifangcaihuiganjuenigenzhiqianbutong，gengduijinihaogandu，youqiuzhiyu。neiyangnenggouzhengqueyindaoduifangzhudonghuijia，gaozitaiwanhui。