割腕、哭闹能挽回男友吗？

 naorennengwanhuinanpengyouma？gewannengwanhuinanpengyouma？buguanshisheipengdaoqingganwentidoushishouzuwucuo，tebieshizaiyingduifenshoushi，buqingchuyingbuyinggaifenshouhouyaowanliu，wanhuidehuayougaizenyangzuoni？chulaijiangxiayouguannanpengyouchuguihouwanliuma,nanpengyouwanliuyaotongyimadehaoduogetiyiba。

一、果断不搞协同战

 zaishuangfangchanshengfenqishi，congmingnvrendoushibazhanzhengcaozongzaizuishaofanchou，neipachidakuidoubuzhaozengyuan。naorennengwanhuinanpengyouma，buzhaohaoguimisuku、buxiangqinrenxunqiubangzhu，yeburongyisuiyixiangpenyouqingtu，huitiaoxuanliangrendeshiliangrendulichulibuxubierencanyu。kuozhangjingjichangdezuofa，huibajiatingjiufenfuza，youshihounaizhimeifashouwei，neishihouzaixiangwanhuiaiqing，wanhuinanpengyoujiumeibanfale。nvxingneiyangzuobujinbaoquanlenanshengshuobailedeqingmian，yefangzhilebamaodunjihua，jianshaonantigengfeichangrongyiwanliunanrenxin、wanliudajiasangshideganqing。

二、挑选有益于自身的战法

 gewannengwanhuinanpengyouma，yuanyiwanliunanrenxinduizheganhaowuyiwenshibuhaode，naorenxiazhetengdenvxingzuizhongdoubukeyiwanhuinanpengyou，congmingnvrendoumingbaiyongshihedefangshiquwanhuiganqing。youyuxiazhetengweihaizishendepinpaixingxiangbuyongshuo，haihuirangnanshenggengyanjuan。zainanshengyanzhiyoulishinvxingdoushizhenxinshiyiqugongpo，zainvxingyanzhiyoulishiyemingbaiyoufencun，jinansheng1geloutineiyangnenggouqudechenggongwanliunanrenxinbingjinjinbawozhunanrenxin。fenshoububimangmugenfengquwanliu，xuanezuiyouyiyuzishendefangfaquwanliuqudechenggongdegailvhuidaxuduo。

三、制订有效的挽留标准

 nanrenhenvrendeduizhan，kanshangqunvxingshinuoruo，nanpengyouchuguihouwanliuma，zaizhidingbiaozhunshinvxingtongchanghuibananshengjiaqilai，shibiaozhunyouyiyunvxinglingyifang，bananrenshentishangdeyoudianguanjinbiaozhundetielongbananshengjiaqilaida，yongyuyanbananshengjiaqilaitahuishushouwuce。xiaoyiganjuenvxingzaiwanhuinanpengyouyiqian，bixuyaoxiannonggaoqingchunaxienengganshenmebukeyizuo，bubihaowuyuanzebuwenbuwenquwanliu，yaoburanhenjianghuiyixiashoujiubuchenggongle。

 suoyourenyingduiqingganwentidoushitiaoxuanbuyiyangdeyingduifangshi，tichufenshoujiujingyingbuyinggaiwanliu，nanpengyouwanliuyaotongyima，zuiguanjiandehuanshikanliangrendeqinggan，kanzishenneixinruhexiang。