挽回前男友聊什么好呢

 wanhuinanyoushuweiburongyi，bixucaiyongyilianchuanduice，nenggoucongtoukaishi。neima，wanhuinanyouliaonaxie？wanhuinanpengyougaizenmeshuohua？naxiehuanengwanhuinanpengyou？wanhuinanpengyouyingshuonaxie？jiexiaqu，youwangbianduinishuoba！

一、多倾听，少张口

 wanhuinanpengyouyingshuonaxie？youxierenyuyanshichanshengmaodundegenyuan，zheijuhuayoudianershengdong，keshibingbushimeiyoudadaoli。zhengshuobaileyanduobishi，yanduobishi，dedaohenanyouzaicijiaowangdejiyu，hebuyongxintingtashuohua，zaibixudeneishihouzaizuochudedangdehuifu。neiyangjiburongyitahuijuededaobeipaijiyeburongyitahuijuedeyanjuan。danshibixuliuyideshi，shaoshuohuabingbushimeihuazhuangyanv。gaishuodehuahuanshiyingshuo，gaibiaoshudejianjiehaiyaobiaoshu，gaichengrencuowuzhiqiande，yeshijijubukeyishao，jinjinbukeyiyouguoduogankaidemeiyongkonghuahuoshinuanxinqinghua。jilao1gekeguanshishi，dajiazaoyifenshou，xianjieduanbingweizhenshicongtoukaishi。

二、迁移话题讨论，不温昔日恋人

 wanhuinanyouliaonaxie？ciqingbuyishiwanliuquanguochengzhongdeyizhengjihui，tebieshizaishizhenduinanshenglaijiang，zheiyidianerfanyingdegengxianzhu。nanshengdaduoshujiaoweikeguan，buxiangyaorangzishenhuozaijiyizhong，yibianyizhixinshang，tatongchanghuiyoukexuanzexingdewangdiao。yiqiandetianmei，douzaoyibeitazangyuneixinnaizhikexuanzexingwangque。ruguonitidaowangrizhuduo，yexutaxiangqidejiubingbushiwangridetianmeijiaowang，zhishigezhonggeyangbukaixin。yinci，zaiwanliuquanguochengzhongjiaowangzhiji，nengbutijiushide，jinliangbuyaoti。jishitayoushihoutidao，nihaiyaojinkenengbawomouxieqianyihuatitaolundefangfa，shidudeqianyihuatitaolun。buyaozairangwangridebukaixin，tahuihushilenidegenggai，yinerqiangongjinqi。

三、留意說話的语调，心态及其传送的动能

 wanhuinanpengyougaizenmeshuohua？shuohuadeyudiaoyaopingjingweiwan。pengdaonanpengyou，yexunineixinzaoyiyayigandeganqingyouzaicifanyong，jiarupengdaozheizhongqingkuang，bixuyaobiezhu。xixinxiangzhedajiadewangri，xiangzhezishenyibianwanliuzuochudeqinfen，caozonghaozishendexintai，bierangzishendesanjijuhua，jiangrenheqinfenhuaweishuiliu。yiyangde，zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，niyebukeyitaiguoxinji，zhejichibushangxishidoufu。niyuefaxinji，yueduofeichangrongyicuoshi。wanliujiushinijijiqubawozhuta，erbingbushidisanxiasiquyaoqiutashourongni。yincizaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，shuohuadeyudiao，jinkenengfangpingjing，bubeibuhang，caiburongyitahuidichu，yeburongyiyinerbeitakanbuqi。lingwai，wulunshichengrencuowuzhiqianhuanshiwanliu，yudiaobixujiejinquanlifangwanzhuan，bubitaiguoliji，neibanhenjianghuiyouyutaiguohurantahuimeiyouguanniantiqianzhunbei，yejianghuiyouyutaiguolijibeitawanquanhuijue。ruguoneileizhuangkuangchansheng，nijianghuihuimeishenmeyudi，chedishenxianpugong。

四、說話的心态要真心实意

 naxiehuanengwanhuinanpengyou？zhenxinshiyijizhenzhengchengzhi，chengxinchengyi，yichengxiangdai，congxinlidadongbierenerzuihoudedaobierendexinlai。baozhengzheiyidianermeibanfa，zuixianshuohuadeneishihoushuangyanyaojinkenengrenqinglingyifangerbukeyibikai;cizhijiangchudeyujuyaozhenzheng，bukeyiranglingyifangganjuenixuqingjiayi，zaidubiaoshudehanyiyaoxianzhu，bukeyiraowanzi，zuizhongjiushishuoshuohuayaorenzhen，bukeyiyuwulunci。xiangduilaishuo，renzhengengjiazhongyao，youyuweiyounirenzhen，lingyifangcainengzuodaozhenzhengtihuidaonidezhencheng。

五、语句要积极主动开朗，不可以消沉沦落

 wanhuinanpengyougairuhezuo？xuduonvshifeichangrongyishenxian1gecuowuguannian，ganjuezishenzhuangkelingbanlunluo，nengjifalingyifangdelianmin。wojuede，zheileiniantoubulunshizailianqingjiaowanghuanshiwanliuquanguochengzhong，quanshibutaiqiadangde。lianqinghewanliu，doubingbushishishe。keshiruguonineimazuodeneishihou，jiubianxiangxiangdangyuzaixunzhaolingyifangdeshishe。yuanbenzaifenshouhou，lingyifangduinideyinxiang，yexujiuzaoyiyuelaiyuehenhuai，cikezaizhuangkelingbanlunluo，tongchanghuitahuigengjiaqiaobuqini。jishibingbushizheiban，nijijuhuayixiagankai，wujuhuayilvleishui，yehuitahuijingtouquanwu，tanhuaneirongwufaweichi。yinci，zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，zaicixiangfengyihou，jinkenengtiaoxuanmouxiejijizhudongkailang，nengchuanbozhengnengliangdeyujueryan，tiaoxuandehuatitaolun，nengzaochengbicigongmingdiande。duotanxieheqingganbuxianggan，quenengtahuiyunidouhenkaixindehua，neibanbudannengrangdajiajiaowanggengkaixin，yekeyijinizishenkanqilaigengyoufengcaihefengcai。

六、初次相遇，谈话内容時间宜短不适合长

 wanhuinanpengyougaizenmeshuohua？shangwenyeshuoguo，yanduobishi，nengzaochengdajiagongmingdiandehuatitaolun，buyidinghuiyouxuduo。shuohuadeshijianguozhang，feichangrongyibuzhudongdejiushuoqiyiwangzhuduo，huoshifanfuyiqiandehuatitaolun。xiyansancimeiyourenkan，laohuasancimeiyourenting，zainengchanshenggongmingdehuatitaolun，ruguofanfu，yehuitahuijuedenifan。

 juedaduoshunanshengzuikunaodeshier，wojuedebingbushinvxingguangjiegouwu，yebingbushinvxinghuluanhuaqianhuoshimanbujiangli，zhishinvxingdouyindexutao。jiaruzaidupengmian，woyezhuazhetaxutaogebuduan，taifeichangrongyitahuixiangdaoyiwangneilei‘canzhong’deqinshenjingli。

yinci，zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，tebieshizaishichucixiangyudeneishihou，tanhuaneirongjinliangbuyaoguozhang。

tichufenshouzheimeduonianle，haiwanliubushang？