挽回老公：防止“暴力沟通”的交往禁区

怎么挽回婚姻? 婚姻中感觉悲剧，或是感情生活中感觉不足和睦感觉另一方也不足迁就你的那时候，你能刚开始觉得另一方是不是拥有第三者，或是早已不喜欢你吧。

 keshijuedaduoshudejiazhongchuxiannanti，qianyinhouguodoubingbushiyouyuruguobuaile，zhishiyouyutaixiangai，yincifeichangrongyibeilingyifangsunhai。youyubicihuxianggoutongzhongchuxiannanti，qianqueduilingyifangdexixin，yinerjingchangyongdao“baoligoutong”，ranghunyinbiandegengjiawufayunying。zenmewanhuihunyin?laogonghunhouchuguizenmeban?

wanhuixueyuandelaoshishuoguo：“hunyinshiyizhonggongpingdeguanlian，weichihunyinxingfukuaile，shiyaobicidenuli，huxiangqianjiu。”

 erzaihunyinnei，fufubicide“baoligoutong”，queshiweibeilezheiyibiaozhun，niguoduodeguidinglingyifangjininuli，jiarulingyifangmeifazuodao，neimajiugangkaishibaoyuan，gangkaishizhize，gangkaishijiuzheijianshiqingshanggangshangxian，suihouyiyanxiajielunshuolingyifangshiruheruhederen，zheilei“baoligoutong”，zaifufubicideguanlianzhongzhongxialiefeng，tayoumugongdu。

huijuehunyinzhongde“baoligoutong”，bixufufubicizuoshenme?

一、对另一方一些个人行为未满时，先别着急着指责。

 zhangfuwanhuijiale，huijiaxintaibugao，chongzhenidenantinideguanzhuyejiuhuijialeyiliangjujianyidehua，cikeniganjuetabuzhongshini，buzaiyini，nigangkaishimaole，gezhonggeyangzhizeta，yizhiyubawangridewangshidoufanguolaishuoyibian，suihouliangkouzidezhanshijiuyichujifa。shijishangninengduoyidianxixin，yongzhenxinshiyiheguanzhuquzhangwozhangfujiujingpengdaolenaxieshier，zheimoyangdezhangwonanti，yuanyuandibiyiyanbuhejiugangkaishizhizedaolaihaoxie。

二、表达自身的念头和体会时，得用对方法。

 fuqijianduilingyifangbiaodazishendeweimanshi，tongchanghuizaibiaodadeneishihoujiaqiangdaibang，huoshimianlizangzhendeshuo，ranglingyifangganjuezishendexinggeleixingzaoshoulewuru。biruzhangfumeichiniweitatiqianzhunbeidexiaoye，xiaoyefangleyigeyelidouhuaidiao，suihoulaopojiuyaoshuo：“woneimeleisileihuorangnizuodexiaoye，nijiushizheiyangshechilangfeidiao，pingchangyoukanbudaokuaijiwozuo，rujinzheimoyangshizaishuawoma?

 wozhihoudouburongyirangniganle!”neiyangdehuashuochulai，sheihuitingdeshushi?biaodazishendebulingrenmanyi，shiyuanyilingyifangtingjinnideniantou，ranglingyifanggenggai，keshizheileishuohuafangfa，sheiquanshimeifajienade，tongchanghaihuizaochengfuqizhijiande“shijiedazhan”。

三、实际上换一种溫柔一点的方法，沟通都是能够很溫柔的。

 jianshaoduilingyifangdegaoguiding，tishengduilingyifangdexixin，daziranjiuhuibaozhengwenroudefeibaoligoutongfangfa。biruzaizhangfuganjuetaileileermeiyouchinitiqianzhunbeidexiaoyedeneishihou，ninengneiyangshuo：“laogongnixinkule，zuotianwanshangworangnizuodexiaoyeruhechishaoni?doufangsunhuaileduokeshia。”zheimoyangdejiaofa，jibiaodalenidetihui，doumeiyouranglingyifangganjuebushufu，neiyangdegoutongbingbushihenhaome?

 duiairenyaoduoyidianxixinhekuanrong，zhongjiurenfeishengxian;goutongshizaihunyinzhongdebixuzhuanyejineng，youliangdegoutongcaikeyirangdajiazhongjiandehunyinjingyingdebianhao。laogonghunhouchuguizenmeban?