挽回老公并不是靠将就，只是要认真运营

如何 挽回老公的心 ？前几日和盆友一起用餐，大伙儿聊得了婚姻，感情生活好像在大伙儿来看就仅剩茶米盐油了，有些人婚姻两个人在一起久了，连矛盾也没有了，过多的物品懂得了睁一只眼闭一只眼，婚姻里大部分仅剩将就，在许多人来看将就将就着就一辈子了，那样也挺不错，沒有争执沒有苦恼。

 danshiyibeizineimazhang，zaineiyangdehunyinlinikuailema?zaishiduoshaogewanshangniyeshigudanwunai，ninengxianmudefuqixingshenghuoshineimadehemuhexingfukuaile，nixiangquxiangweihetarennengbaozhengdenizishenquemeifazuodao，jiushinizishencunyouzhenantihuanshilianggerenzhongjiancunyouzhenanti。ruhewanhuilaogongdexin?ruhewanhuinanren?

 hunyinlimeiyoujiangjiu，jiangjiuhuodedepingwenjinjinbiaocengdeningjing，shijishangdajialianggerenzhongjianshishifenfengxiande，yidanxuduorenbaituozheiningjing，dajiazhongjianshuobailedeqingganjiujingbuzhuyiqiedeyanlidaji，neimadajiazhongjiandehunyinjiuhuibaideyitahutu。hunyinbingbushikaojiangjiu，zhishikaolianggerenzhongjianquyunying。

一、在婚姻里出現难题一定要沟通交流而并不是挑选隐忍

 taijishirenzaihunyinlidaijiule，zailijinglechixudezhengzhi，chixudezhengtuofengkuangyihou，xuduorendaochanshengnantiyihoujiutiaoxuanleyinren，juedejianmojiushishuoshidejiejuefangan，bulaoshenbufeijing，haoxiangmeiyiciyongneiyangdefangshi doukeyifangzhijijiangdizhengzhi。

 keshizaimeiduojiudeweilai，liangrenzongsuanrenbuxialaideneishihou，jiuhuixianghuoshanshipinbanbaofa，yincinigengweimangranle，weihenilaiyinrenleneimaduoyehuanbudaolingyifangdelejiehebaorong。nikeyilejiedeshi，yinrenjueduibingbushihunyinliliangrenzhongjiandejiaowangfangshi ，yidanjishaochengduo，lingyifangjiuhuijuedezishendegerenxingweishinenggoubeinijienade，neiyangzongshirangliangrenzaochengyulaiyudadejiedi。yincilianggerenchuxiannantiyidingyaolijichuli，yaoburanbanantijilei，caiburongyirangmaodunbaofa。

二、不必一直惦记着去“监控”另一方

 xuduorenyaoyouneiyangbuzhengquedesixiangyishi，zaiwanhunyihoudoushibalingyifangdangzuozishendeduxiangwujian，duilingyifangquanbudeyiqiebixuqubawo，zaizishenbawobushanglingyifanghuoshishishuolingyifangbuxuzishenbawodeneishihou，zishenjiuhuiyongyouxuduocaiji，erzheizhongcaijiquanshizishenpingkongxiangxiangmeiyouyijude。nilaizhiyilingyifangdeneishihou，dajiazhongjiandemaodunjiuhuidaziranzaochengle，bingqiedajiazaizhihoudejiaowangquanguochengzhong，haihuiyouyuhenduozhongduoyangcaijizaochengxuduobuyiyangdemaodun。

 dangquanbudegaoxingbeizheizhongmaodunsuozhegaideneishihou，neimajiuhuichuxianlingyifangganjuenibuyitahuoshijiushiniganjuetabushihenidenantile，lianggerenzhongjiandemaodunyehuichixudejiazhong。yinerzaihunyinlixinlaishihenguanjiande，xinlaishiliangrenzhangqidejiben，xinlaicaikeyirangliangrendehunyinzhangqixingpingwenhemudefazhanqushi。

 hunyinlijiangjiushishuohuijinitongchude，ningjingdebiaocengjiushinishangguoledexin，kanqilaichushibujingdeyishizhuxingbenzhiweijianyong。dongdeyongqiadangdefangfaqubiaoshuzishendeyaoqiujiweiman，dongdequtishengxianghuzijintouru，gongtongfendou，bawoqiehexianghudejiaowangjigoutongmoshi，zheiyiduanhunyincaikeyizhangjiuerpingwen。ruhewanhuinanren?