第三者劝退师手记：迅速挽回丈夫要如何做

如何 挽回丈夫的心 ？假如丈夫在外边卖身了第三者，做为他的妻子毫无疑问会十分恼怒，恨他把这一家置之不理，恨他为何那麼绝情杜绝恋人。要了解家中的粉碎，遭受损害的不仅是妻子，小孩缺乏了详细的家中对他的心身生长发育也会造成危害。

 wanjiuzhangfukeburonghuan，keshidisanzhezheiyidirenyebukeyihulve，zaiwanjiuquanguochengzhongyidanqiziyonglepianjifangshi，zhangfudexinlijianghuihuipianzhongyuhedisanzhexiangchu。disanzhebingbushibunengjibai，lejiedisanzhedequedianbiankejiangqijibai，rangzhangfuzhongfanjiazhong。ruhewanhuinanrenxin?zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?

一、挽救丈夫的全过程中最先要防止犯错误

zuipubiandehunyinshenghuobuxing，moguolaogongchuguile。shubuzhiyingduichuguidelaogong，conghuiqizixiyinlezhangfudexin，yumeiqiziquejiangzhangfuyinxiangdisanzhedehuaizhong。neidaodishenmegerenxingweishiwanjiuzhongzuibuzhengquedezuofani?

mohubuqingshilidechaonao。yingduichuguinanren，tebieshizaishizheixiexingzishouhuanyingdeqizi，zaifajueyiqiannagezishihenlaoshibajiaozhangfujuranganlepanbiandeshi，mengrannuhuochongtian，changchanghuichezhumouyijianxiaoshijielidalilaichaonao，ermeiyicidachaodanaozhihou，nanrenyijiuwaiyu，pinciduole，shijianzhangle，nanrenhaihuiyi“hunyinpolie”weiyou，zainidetoudingmomingqimiaokouqilaiyidingmoxuyoude“yashemao”。daoneishihou，niminglejietawaiyuyouwuzaixian，quemeifayingdezhoubianrendelianmin，hailuoxialaiyige“hanfu”dezuixing。

xiangbicilaorenmen“kongsu”。yeyouderendaoyikuernaosandiaosidoumeifadadongzhangfuhehaoruchuyihou，jiuhuijiangzhangfuchuguidezuixinggaozhigongjia、popobabamama、jiedi，xiangdedaozheizhonglaorenmendexiezhu，qidaitamenlaiquandaozhangfuhuigai。kezheileijiduyinsideshieryaoshizailaorenmenzhongjianchuanchuhou，yidinghuishengcheng“dajiazuzhanshi”。

henxianzhu，gongjiayupopozaiduidaichuguinanrenzhizhonghaowuyiwenhuichanshengmaodun，jiusuantamendouhenliangzhi，danquanjiedehuajiaofayedabuyiyang，kezainanrenlaikan，bazishendeyinsibaohugongbule，shuobailedezizun、mianbudoubeisidiaole，tamenjiuhuigengweimingmuzhangdandequzhaodisanzhefalaosaoqu，zailaorenmenyipian“wenhuajiaoyu”shengzhongtanchengxiangdai，dengshengxiangyiguo，haihuidaohuilaifanyaoniyikou。

duidisanzheshiyi“taotianzuixing”。yixieqizizaifajuelaogongchuguile，jiuhuitoutoudizhaoxunyanzangzaizhangfushenhoude“nvren”，suihouzaimotoutadexingzong，zhaoxunzuijiashijiyudisanzhehudui，youdeyizhiyuhaihuisuishenxiedaiqidagu、bayimaqishixiongxiongdeqianqudisanzhechunao。nenggouhaowuyiwen，disanzhehuizaizheiyineishihoufangdefeichangrouruo，tabidinghuibaozhengmabuhaikou、dabuhaiji，jinizhangfujiandaotabeinitongdadeqingkuang，jiqinizhangfudeweihuchongdong，suihouzaichizenidezheileihanfugerenxingwei。

 guohou，nizhangfuhuilikebangtabanxinjia，huanyigediquzangqilai，neishihounibudanzhaobuzhedisanzhe，yexulianzhangfudouzhaobuzhe。

二、四种不一样段位的第三者解决手册

youxuduozaoshoudaozhangfuchuguideqizidangfajueledisanzhedecunyoushi，genjugezhonggeyangduoyidefangshiquzhaodisanzhe“jichulilun”，suihouhebaquanbudebiequheweimanyitiandaowangenzhangfuzhengchao。

 zheileizaoshoudaozhangfuhunhouchuguihounvrendezhuyaobiaoxianhenpubian，erjuedaduoshudenanrenlijingneimeyixiazhetengyihou，juedewaiyushiduide，zaoyiheqizihuodehaolei，disanzhecaishitazuiyuanyideren。meiyigerendezaoyuheqinshenjinglidoubuyiyang，yiner，disanzheyeshibuyiyangdeduanwei，nizhangwoma?younasizhongduanweidedisanzhe?

diduanweidedisanzhezhihuikutianqiangdi，yonggezhonggeyangduoyidefangshi shuayouyuegan，binanrenlihun。zhongdengshuipingduanweidedisanzhechuchukelian，mingbaigennanrenzhuangruo。gaoduanweidedisanzhebuchaobunao，buduantishengzijidefengcaibinggaozhinanrennidexifufeichanghao，quantazhongguijiazhong。zuiduodengdedisanzhe，chukaiyouchongzudeyouhuoli，yeyouconghuidenaozi，bulushengseditishengtamendetichufenshouchengbenfei，rangnanrenbukehuoqueta，yizhiyuyeyouqingshanggaohezhishanggaoqianyidajiadezichan。sizhongduanweidedisanzhejiejueshouce

diduanweidedisanzheshizuizhebuzhude，wobuzhaotayizhiyutadoushijijiquyueni，zheiyiduanduanweidedisanzhenizhibixulizhi。zheileixingqingdedisanzhedangnanrenpengdaodeneishihou，huiganjuehencijixing，yuanyichanshengdiannaxie，shijianzhanglezaochengleqingganjiuzaochengleduzhanyu。tamenrutongyigedingshizhadanyiyang，genjugezhonggeyangfangshi xunzhaoni，gaosudajia，nidezhangfuzuiaiderenshita，quannifangkaishou。dangnitongmayizhiyuzheshoudata，neimajiuzhengzhongxiahuai。youyurenaoni，gengshitadeyuanyi。niyidanneimeganle，nanrenbianyaoduita“chengdan”le。

zhongdengshuipingduanweidedisanzheyibanquanshidonglezhenxinshiyi，benshendeqinshenjinglichushengdourangnanrenganjuetahenkeling，xiangjitaduoyidiandeshijianheqiancailaitengxita。cike，nanrenyibanshixianwenkong，zaishensishulv。dangtasixiangyishidaoliyidechengbenfei，tahuibuduanchengrencuowu，yibiaodajijizhongguijiazhong，waiyujinjinyishifancuowu。

gaoduanweidedisanzhehenlixinglizhi，youyutamenlejietayaodeshiren，youchongzudexixin。wenweneryazhushitinanrenweitarenzhexiang，jiyunanrenchongzudeguanzhu、tiexin。niyuechaoyuenaogengshikanqilaitagudaju。pengdaozheileiduanweidedisanzhe，nizuixianyaozuode，jiushishuojitamenchongzudesimikongjian，butiyouguandisanzhedeyiqieshier，bazishendeyishizhuxingguodefengfuduocai，zaishiduquzuodishuipinghelixinggaodeyixingpengyoucijixing。shijianyidanjiule，neiyangdedisanzhedengbule。

zuizhongyizhongzuiduoduanweidedisanzhe，shizuilihaiderenwujiaose，guangpingjiegushenyirenmeibanfajiejuezheileidisanzhe。tamenyaodebujinshiren，huanshidajiadezichan，dangtakeyiyouzishen qianyidajiadezichan，nanrenjingshenchuhuyelihun。jiaruyaodazheicizhang，yidingyaolejiedao，zheiyibushikoushuizhan，qingganzhang，zhishiziyuanzhang、naozizhanghefalvfaguizhangle。

三、挽回老公之变成比第三者更出色的女人

xuduonvrenzaihuozhizishenzhangfuchuguideneiyike，xinliyidingshihenbenkuide，nixiangbudaozishenjingranhuiyushangzheizhongshiqing。yixienvrenjianghuihuixintaishiling、niantouxiangfangshefaquzhuaxianxingbiaozhun、yikuernaosandiaosi、chixudechizezhangfude“zuixing”zheixie。ruguoniganlezheizhonggerenxingweihou，jiyoukenengdajiadehunyinshenghuoshiwufabuduanxialaile。

yingduichuguidelaogong，nibuxianglihun、buyuanrangzishendexiaohaibianweidanqinjiatingdexiaohai。niyuanyiwanhuilaogong，neimanibixuruhezuoni?rutongzhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnachangshuo：“duiyubuyiyangdedisanzhezhonglei，zishenzuochuxiangduideduice。

yingduihaokandedisanzhe，nvrenyaowaiguanshejigengxingaizao;yingduiwenrouxingdedisanzhe，nvrenyaodongdeshengchanzhizaoyinyou。”shijishang，nihaikeyihuanyigeshijiaoxiangzhe，weihezhangfuxiangquzhaodisanzhe，zenmehuixiaidisanzhe，tingdashuipingshangnanrenxiaidisanzhedediqushinibixugaishandediqu。

zhaodaozishendebugou。ruguonilejiezhangfuchuguideneiyike，nijianghuihuixiangtaruheneimameiyouzerengan，buzhongchengjiazhong，bazishenfangdaoyigeshouhairendeshenfenshang。nizongshibayuangutongtongtuizailingyifangshoushang，juedetongtongshilingyifangdecuo，jihumeiyousikaoguozishen，zishenshibushiyecunyouzheyidingdenanti。nanrenwangwanghuiwaiyu，nvrendoushicunyouyidingdeyiwude，youyuwenxindejiashiwaiyudejiaodachengbenfei。jiarudajiadehunyinshenghuomeiyounanti，nidezhangfuyeburongyichumenlieyan，disanzheyeburongyichenxuerru。nikeyimingbaizhaodaobenshendenanti，xunzhaohunyinshenghuochuxiannantidegenbenyuanyin，caikeyiduizhengzhiliao，wanhuilaogong。

tigaozishen。ruguonizouruhunyinshenghuozhihou，nijianghuihuiganjuedajiazhongjianyongyouyizhihunshu，dajiazaoyibianchengfalvfaguishijiyiyishangdefufule，lingyifangyidingburongyizailiquzishen，yincinigangkaishibuxiangzhenglizishen，renpingzishenzimingqinggao，yeyibutigaoziji，renpingzishenbianchengyige“renlaozhuhuang”。youneimeyijuhua，rongmaojuecezaimayiqi,neihanjuecezaiyiqiduozhangshijian。

ruguonierzhedouqueshaodeneishihou，nixiyinzhunidenanrenma?disanzheweihenengxiyinzhunidenanren?jiushishuohuoxushuhuduibenshendeguanlifangfa，bumingbaiweichijiqitigaobenshendefengcai，jiushinizishendewuzuoweijinerbazhangfutuidaodisanzhedeshenpang。

doudisanzhedequanguochengzhongzuizhongshishizhidoudisanzhe，tadechuxianshichaikaidajialiangzhongjiandehunyinshenghuoqinggandejiaodaquedian。raokaiwanjiudeleiqu，xuanzhundisanzhedezhonglei，neimawanjiuzhangfudegousijiuhenqingchule。huoxuzaoyilejiedisanzhexiyinzhuzhangfudaodishinajidianneirong，conghongguanjingjideshijiaolaikannizaoyilejiedisanzhedequedianle。

dangnikeyizuodebidisanzhegengqiang、gengjizhi，neimazhangfuweihehaihuiliudaolingyifangdeshenpang，nizaoyishizhangfuxinzhongzhongzuibangdeqizile，disanzheduitazaoyizaochengbushangyiqieyouhuoli，jiazhongyejiuzhongguidaoqingkuangle。zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?