挽回丈夫的心：为什么丈夫会这般痴迷第三者

如何 挽回丈夫的心 ？第三者是一个很非常的存有，说她是婚姻杀手1也太天真，终究她要以一个不诚实的方面上活生生地进到到一对夫妻的衣食住行之中。妻子会厌恶她不知羞耻，就是要拆开一对原本相爱的夫妇。就算告知丈夫和第三者是不容易有結果的，丈夫都不想要听取意见妻子的提议，還是与第三者再次偷欢。这儿实际上许多女人都是心里十分疑惑，为何第三者会比妻子更可以吸引住丈夫呢?丈夫宁可冒着出轨行为还要外遇图的是啥?

一、老公出轨的缘故是贪婪還是失落?

chuguinanrennenggoufenchengliangdalei，yishitanlan，yuanyizhengfu2daliangdenvrenlaikaolvzishendechongdong;ershishiluo，laiyuanyuduiqiziduijiazhongyizhiyushiduiyishizhuxingdeshiluo，yuanyizaihunyinyiwaixunzhaoyigechukouchu。yuanyijiejiunidehunyin，nihaiyaofenqingxinidelaogongchuguiyouyunayilei，nicaikeyiduizhengzhiliaowanjiutadexin。nilejietashinayangyuanguwaiyu，gaiyaoruhewanjiuma?ruhewanhuinanrenxin?zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?

yintanlanerwaiyu。yigenanrenwuluntashishanrenhuanshihuaidan，jiarujialideqizishiquyouhuoli，zainishoushangshiqulianaideganjue，tadoushitiaoxuanchuqu，genjuzhanjuhezhengfu2qitanvrenlaikaolvtadeyaoqiu。zheizhongleidechuguinanrenlingyibantongchangshinianqingmaomeidelingyiban，chuanzhedabandeshejifenggequanshiheqiziyoutianyuanzhibie。

xuduonvrenzaijiehunhoubaquanbudehuolidouzijintourudaojiazhongzhizhong，jiehunqianjianghuishiyigemeitiandouaichuanzhedabandeshishangnvwang，jiehunhouhuoxujiushishuoyiniandaotouyemeiyoumaiguoyitaoxindeyifu，yigexiaidenvbao。

ruguonigangkaishisheqibazishenchuanzhedabandejingmeideneishihou，tajiuzaoyiduinishiquzhengfu2dechongdong，buxiangyaozaizaicizhuiqiuni，tabiangangkaishibajizhongzhuyiliqianyidaoqitatianmanlianaideganjuedenvrenshoushang。yinciruguonidezhangfuyintanlanerwaiyu，jiubixubazishenchuanzhedabandegengnianqing，gengyoufengcai，shizhehuanbuyiyangdeshejifenggelaitianbutalianaideganjue。

duiqizi、hunyinhuoshishiyishizhuxingzhuyaobiaoxianchushiluoerwaiyu。zheizhongleidechuguinanren，juedaduoshudoulaiyuanyuqizimeiyougaohaorenwujiaosedangdan，zaiganqingshenghuozhonglianggerendefenqidianbuduantisheng，buduanbianda。

dangtazainishoushangkanbujianyougengqiangdejianglaideneishihou，tajiuhuitiaoxuanzaihunyinyiwaixunzhaokaolv。liru：qiziqianquezhujiagongzuonengli，jiehunhoubumingbaijiawulaodonghejiejuejiazhonggongzuorenyuanguanlian;hunyinzhonglianggerenquanshigeguogede，qianquetongbutigao，lianggerenbukeyigoutongjiaoliudaoyikuaiqumeiyouxuduodexianghubingji;yishizhuxinggongzuoyaliheyalidoutingda，qizimeiyoulijijiyulejiehejianrong，zhimingbaikanbushangtachixujihuamaodun。

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二、丈夫痴迷第三者的五个缘故

xuduoqizisukulaogongchuguilebukenliyiyebukenhedisanzheduandiao，tamengaobudongzhangfuweihejiuneimachimidisanzhe，disanzhejiujingnaerbizishenhao?qizimengaobudongyouyuduidainantideguandianbuyiyang，dangniwenzhangfudaziranhuihuodebuyiyangdecankaodaan，tamenjuedeqizihedisanzheshichedibuyiyangde，disanzhejitachanshenglebuyiyangdejuede，tashiqizimensuomeifajiyude。

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nanrenyehuixiangnvrenneibanxunzhaoxinxiandejuede，zuishaocongzheiyidianshangkan，nanrencongneibiangengfeichangrongyihuodetamenyuanyidelianaideganjue，sheirangdisanzhezuiguanjiandegongzuozhonghemeirirenwujiushishuotaohaohekaolvnanrenni。

yeyiner，disanzhehuishikeliuyiweihubaoyangzishendejifu，zongrangzishenyishideyimianzhanxianzainanrenyanqian，zheiyidiandoushirangnanrenhenyoulianqingjuededeyigeyuangu。danjialide“renlaozhuhuang”kejiubuyidingneimefeishisixuququyuezhangfule。

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dangtamenjuededisanzhechediyaoyitamenyigerenweiyinsujidideneishihou，shijishangjiazhongdeqiziyeweiyouniyigenanren，jinjinkandaidefangfabuyiyangeryi，yigenvrenxinganqingyuannuliqingchunnianshao，xiangyaoyuniquqishengzijianliyigejiazhong，suihouhaixinganqingyuanzhaodianhaojialiyiqieshiwuguanli，zheiyineishihou，nanrenmenshifougaixiangzhesheisuanshiduinishideren?

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keshidisanzhejueduishiburongyiguidingtamenyidingyaozuozheiyile，yidingyaozuoneigele，daliangdeshihuizaitamenxiabanlehuijiayiqianjiubahenduoshierjiejuewan，suihoujinjinmomodiwenyijuxubuxuyaoyongcan。shijishang，nanrendoushilixingdexiaodongwu，yehuiyiqiyongshi，disanzhejinixianshouzuogeng，nandaoshuoqizijiumeiyoujinizuoguoma?qizibingbushishebei，doushigebixurenguanaidenvren，tamenyaocaolaoyoulvdeshierburongyibinidedisanzheshao。

san、zhangfuweihexiaidisanzhe?tashoushangyounaxie“yuzhongbutong”dedifang

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tongchangzaidisanzheshoushangde“yuzhongbutong”dedifangtongchangjiushinishoushangqianquedewupin，dangnanrenzainishoushangshiquneishihou，feichangrongyijiuhuibeibiededenvrenxiyinzhu，yincizuoweinvren，zuixianyaoyanjiuzishenshoushangbugoudediqu。

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“yaoxiangweichizhangqixingguanlian，zuiguanjiandeshibawolingyifangdeyaoqiu。”nanrenbixubeizhongshihebeiqinpei，ruguonibukeyikaolvnanrendebenzhiyaoqiuneishihou，tajiuhuifeichangrongyichenzuizaiqitanvrendewenrouxiangzhong，zheijiushishuodisanzhede“yuzhongbutong”dedifang，tamenmingbaikaolvnanrendebenzhiyaoqiu。

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disanzhemingbaishikeweichizishendeyouhuoli。zaihunyinzhong，xuduonvrenshijiyiyiweihunyinkeyikunzhuzhangfuyibeizi，zishenyouyizhangzhangqifanpiao，dangfajuelaogongchuguiyihou，jiubaoyuanzhangfubuhuishoudaofuwuchengnuo，dangshishuoyibeizizhiainiyige，keshi

nanrenshiganxingdongwu，tadangshidefuwuchengnuotongchangyouyunineishihouyouchongzudeyouhuoli，neishihouwoxianzairenpingzishenzimingqinggao、zhuiroujiansheng，nengyijiawuhuojianjuweiyoubuxiangqutigaoziji，shijianyizhang，bianchengzhangfufanganderenlaozhuhuang，dangzhangfujiangnihewaibianxingganmirenhaokandedisanzheduibi，jiufeichangrongyizaochengwaiyuzhiqing。

zheishiqizijiuyingdanggaoqingchudao，laogongchuguibujinjinshitayigerendenanti，lingyiban——yejiushishuozishenyecunyouyibufenyuangu。

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