挽回男人心成功守住婚姻的女人，都保证了这2件事

如何 挽回丈夫的心 ？近期有许多咨询者都问来到一个难题：“是否完婚以后，男人就一定会外遇呢，守住婚姻为何那么难呢?”的确，在婚姻中，你努力了许多，可是最终却换得了老公的外遇，在其中的忧伤和恼怒是显而易见的。

 rendeyibeizishihenzhangde，renmenmeifayiliaojianglaihuichanshengnaxieyiwaishigu，keshirenmennenggouzaiyiwaishigulaiyiqianjiuchongfenzhunbei。yiyang，zaiyingduilaogongchuguizheijianshiqing，renmennenggouzuodejiushishuofangzhizheiyishierdechansheng，hunyinbaoleichuangjiandehao，tarendaziranjiumeiyoujiyudisanzhechazunidehunyinle。

erzheixiequdechenggongshouzhuhunyindenvren，doubaozhenglexialiede2jianshi：ruhewanhuinanrenxin?zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?

一、始终不必让自身“降价”

 xuduonvrenzaijiehunhou，doujuedezishenmeilelianaishidemingxianganqing，tamenganjuejiehunhoudeyishizhuxingjiushishuofaweide，jielehunjiumeiyoubixuzuoyixielianaizuodeshierle，jianjiandijiuhuizhangchuleyizhongqingganshangdekesuxing，qishilingyifangshiburongyiliquzishende。

 liruguoquninengyibianyicipengmian，huaxiaoyilianggezhongtouquchuanzhedaban，keshirujinniyizhiyulianyigeziranzhuangdoubuxianghuale，jiuneimewaichulaidao。

keshikeguanshishiqueshishineiyangma?

 nikeyilejie，buguanrendebenxingshiyaoqiuhaier，nibubigaosuwonidelaogongyizhidouxiaineiyangdeni，jiarujiushini，ninengxiangyaogenyigezimingqinggaodenanrenzaiyiqima?cankaodaanshixianeryijiande。

 hunyinshiyichanggaojiqitalianai，yinci，jiusuanzaijiehunhou，niyebubizongrongzishen，rangzishenjiangjia。nifandaoshiyaoquchubilianaishigengdadejiqing，rangzishengengyoushiyongjiazhi。zhinengneiyang，nidehunyinbaoleicaikeyihuodejinyibujiegoujiagu，zheidoushifangfandisanzhedeshifangfa。

二、维持有效的沟通，创建夫妻共同性

 yixiefuqihuibalaidaohunyinpoliedeyuanguzongzhizaisanguanbuheshang，keshizheishijishangtingdashuipingshiyizhongtuoci，hekuangquanshijieshimeiyouxingqingwanquanyizhideren，erhunyin，jiushishuofuqibicichixumoheqi，huxiangzhaogufazhandeyigequanguocheng，zheiyiquanguochengzhong，tamenquanshidulitongfenbudegeren。

 tangruoniyizhizaihunyinzhonggenlingyifangdegoutongjiaoliuzhong，zongganjuelingyifangzenmeshuohua，zuoquandoubingbushiniyuanyide，niyoumeiyouqugenlingyifanggoutongjiaoliuchuli，zongshibaoyuanlingyifang，banantikuodahua，dajiadehunyinyouruhebuchuxiannantini?

huoxuniyaoshuodajiajiehunhoumeibanfajiaowangzaiyiqi，neimawojuedexunwenni，dajiazailianaideneishihoujiaowangnanbuhuitainanni?

 jinguanfuqibicishidandudegeren，keshihunyinzhongdegongtongxingshinenggouzaojiude。ninengcongpingshideyouxiaodegoutongzhongxunzhaodajiadexianghuzongtimubiao，suihouyiqichaozhezheiyixianghuzongtimubiaoquqinfen。neiyangjiuhuifajue，dajiazhongjiandehuatitaolunhenduo，guanliandaziranyejiuyulaiyumibukefenle。

导师寄语：

 hunyinshichangxiuxi，bubiyizhidengnihunyinchuxiannantilezaiquganjuebuzhidehebaoyuan，haohaodiyunyingyingdaoli。zhinengbanizishendehunyinjingyinghaola，tarenyemeiyoujiyudisanzhechazunidejiazhong，dajiadehunyindaziranjiujianbukecuile。zenmewanhuizhangfudexin?