挽回感情=求他留有，这类观念害苦了是多少人

如何挽回丈夫 ？她的老公出轨了，在她发觉的第三天，丈夫向她明确提出了离异。殊不知，她早已不可或缺她的丈夫了，她爱着他，因此她挑选了挽回，在她来看，挽回就是说不屈不挠，就是说要竭尽全力取悦丈夫，随后让丈夫体会到自身的好，那样丈夫就会舍弃离异的念头了。

keshizhangfuquebingbibushangtaxiangxiangdeyibanfanhuitadeshenpang，haiduitalengchaorefeng，yulaiyuyanfanta，yizhiyuhaiduitashuo：ruhewanhuilaogong?ruhewanhuizhangfu?

“nibubirenweiwoxianzaizuozheizhongshi，woyehuihuijia，nixiangzheniguoqushiruhewomende，xianzaiwoshiburongyihuijiale。”

最终，她总算受不了了，来要我诉苦：

“jiaoshi，xiangtingtarenshuolaogongchuguiyihou，yaoxianziwofansi，kanyixiazishenyoumuyounanti，jiaruyou，yaoqugaizaozishen，jiuzhengcuowu。woyejushuonvxingbubitaiqianghan，wozheizaoyibingbushigaizaozishenlemeiyou，xianzaiwozaoyiduitabaiyibaishunle，weihehuanshiwanhuibushangtadexin?”

tashixuduowanhuizhedequexian，yidanfajueyouyuzishendebuzhengqueerzaochengfenshouhou，tamenjiuhuilikekaizhanmeiyoudixiandedequyue，duilingyifangbaiyibaishun，qidainenggoudadonglingyifang。zheileifangfajiarufangdaopingshizhengzhi，huoshiyinnixingtichufenshoudangzhong，jianghuihuijuyouyidingdegongxiao，keshifangdaobinglixingfenshoushang，zheileifangshi shizuibukeyongde。

renmenjiunasuoshudeshilieryan，shilizhongdelaopozaihuozhilaogongchuguiyihou，duizhangfubaiyibaishun，meiyouzizun、meiyoudaodedixiandiququyueyigeren，daozhidejieguobidingshizheiyirenduinimiaoshiheyanfan。zaizheileiqingkuangzhizhong，shiwuyijianghuiduinizaicizaochengqingyide。yuanyinhenjiandan，ganqingzhijianghuizaochengyu2geduidengdeshengmingzhongjian，sheiyeburongyiquaiyigenupu。

zaiwanhuideneishihou，niwubiyaogaoqingchuyigedadaoli：

wanhui，budengyuqiqiu;wenrou，budengyurouruo;gaizaozishen，budengyuduizishendechedifouding;buyuansheqihunyinshenghuo，budengyujinbaoyigehunyinshenghuodekongqiaoziquqiru。

dajiadehunyinshenghuowangwanghuichuxiannanti，yidingshidajiabicizhongjianjiaowangchuxianlenanti，zheizaiqizhongjuyounideyiwu，yeshiyingduideyiwu。bubishuowaiyudeshilingyifang，yingduiyaofuguanjianyiwu，yunihegan，qingganbingbushiyichangdujiaoxi，burongyiyouyuzaiqizhongyifangdenantierwanquanranghunyinpolie，baqingganyinxiangliekaidejihuquanshidajiabici。

yinci，wobuyingdangtaobinideyiwu，zhishiyaohaohaofansiziji，gaidiaozishendebuzhengque，keshiqishiyiweizhenicihoujiuditayidengle，wanhuibingbushiyiweizhejiuyouqiuyutale。dajiadeqingganshangshizhongshigongpingde。

yidanbaniwanhuiheqiqiuhuaxialedenghao，niyizhizaiwanhuizhongjiuhuiweishouweiwei，haipadizhilingyifang，dangdajiadeqingganyulaiyubugongping，dajiadehunyinpoliesulvjiuhuibiankuai。

yinciyuanyiwanhuideni，yingdanghaohaodigaizaozishen，nigaizaozishen，huoxushiqidaikeyiwanhuita，nengzaicihuodetawoduinideai，dangengdadequdongliyingshilaiyuanyuyu：wogaizaozishen，youyuxiangzuoyigehaolaopohaomama、yigegengjianquandenvxing，erbingbushizhishishiyibianwanhuierwanhui。

jiarubanichufadianfangdaozheiyishangbian，jiuburongyihusiluanxiang、xintaibeitaqianzhebizizou，nidexinlijiuhuipingjingheshiran，nidaziranjiuhuishouhaowanhuiheqiqiudejiexian，yehuishouhaozishendezizunhebiaozhun——cikeniquanburenzhanxianchudeqingkuang，bingbushinuoruodefali，zhishiwangshangdehuihuang。shijishangyezhinengneiyang，nicaijianghuizaicihuodelingyifangdeai。

导师寄语：

wanhuibingbushiqiqiu，zhinengzizhongziaideyouxiurencainengdedaobierendezhongshi，caikeyidedaobierendeai。zheijiushishuoweishayizhizhuzhongrenmenwanhuidefangshi shi“ercixiyin”，erbingbushi“erciwanhui”。ruhewanhuizhangfu?