婚姻中争执持续，你没搞好这件事情很难挽回感情

如何挽回丈夫 ？在婚姻中，一些夫妇把婚姻维持得美满幸福，而一些夫妇在交往中却一直争执持续，婚姻频临裂开的边沿，实际上挺大的缘故由于相互不明白有效沟通，相互不想跟另一方表述而又觉得另一方会了解，时间一长使夫妻间的芥蒂愈来愈深。

 ganqingshenghuoli，goutongshilaoguliangrenzhangqixingguanliandeguanjianquebao。buguanjiniduomang，buguanjinipijuan，lijidegoutongshiwubide，jiashibifengtang，bingbushijiangdaolisuo，yincibuguanniyizhizaiwaibianqinshenjinglilenaxie，bubijiangnidexintaidaihuiqu，gengbubijiangnidexintaidailailingyifang。ruhewanhuilaogong?ruhewanhuizhangfu?

 dangniqueshishilei，yebubibanantimenzaixinli，banantilijihelingyifangshuochuqu，nenggouhelingyifangshuoxianzaiwotinglei，yaowoxiexiyixia，shaohouzaishangyi。ruguonineiyanghelingyifangshuochuqudeneishihou，lingyifangjiuburongyijuededaonibuzaiyita，yexiangquqianjiuni，neiyangbicidoushijuedehenshushi，liangrenzhongjiandeqingganyehuibuduantiwen。

 neima，zaihunyingoutongzhongniyingdangliuyizheixiediqu，youyoushenmelingqinggantiwendejiaoliujiqiaoni?xiabianwolaigendahuoerxiangjinxushuhunyinzhongjiaoliujiqiao：

一、婚姻中沟通的常见问题有什么

 yixierendaoyingduibierenshihenkoucaihao，eryingduishenpangdeairen，yiqiandehuayanqiaoyuyiyakouwuyan，erdaozhizheileibuliangyingxiangdekongxuelaifengjiushishuo——goutong。goutongshishihunyinbiciqingganweichidegongluqiaoliang，meiyougoutong，hunyinfeichangrongyihuipolie。

zuixian，yaoquelibiaoshuxinlihanyi

 goutongshiyaoqueli、shijidibiaoshuxinlihanyi，bubiranglingyifangyouyisidewuhui。tangruoyijianshierlingyifangshiminglejiede，niqueyongzheihuabiaoxianchulai：“zheihaiyaowojiangma”。zheihuajirentingqilaishifouhenqianghandejuede，buqingchudehuahairenweiduilingyifanghenxinbuzaiyan。yinerbiaoshuyaoqingxi，liruqizixiangzhangfuzaodianhuijia，lijigaozhizhangfushijidianhuijiale，neiyangshijixiaoguobingbushigengqiangma?

cizhi，yaoqiuzhenwushi，bukeyikuadaqiciyanyu

 zaigenzhangfujianglishi，bukeyikuadaqiciyanyu，birushuozhangfucongbuxichuangdan，congbuzhufanzheixie。neiyangzongshizaochengzhengzhi，youyuzhangfuyaoshuo：“nayoucongbuxi，nayoucongbuzuo”，huiyiyibazishenzuoguodepincifanguolai，bujinburenkechize，fandaoshuoqizimanbujiangli，zaochengleduoyudemaodunzaocheng。

zuizhong，dongdekuajianglingyifang

 chixujiyulingyifangzanyanghekuajiang，doushiyoulianggoutongdeyizhongfangfa。tangruofuqizhijiandechengzanchaoguochize，birannengtigaoxianghudeqinggan。biruqizihuijialehoukandaozhangfuzaibangzhuxichuangdan，jinguannanshengjiaoweicuxindayi，binvxingxidemeineimazhengjie，dantadoushihenzhudongdiganle，qiziyingdangyaokuajiangyixiashuoju“qinaidede，nixinku”，zheibiyaozeguaizhangfuxidebuzhengjieyaohaohenduo。jiaruqiziyidingyaozeguaizhangfu，zhangfudaoshihouhaowuyiwenburongyizaibangzhuxichuangdanle。

二、婚姻交往中的交流技巧

 xuduoneishihou，zheixiezishidezhangwojinjinyichangwujie，yincizhenduifufueryan，youliangdeyuyanbiaodanenglikeyixiezhuxianghuqingchuwujie、tishengxinlai。yuanyihunyingengpingwenhaiyaobawokexueyanjiudejiaoliujiqiao：

diyizhao：goutongquanguochengzhong，xuxiantingdedong

 xuduopenyoushifenwukenaihedeshuo，wogentameifagoutong，wozenmeshuohuatadoutingbumingbai。shishishangchuxianzheileiqingkuangyouyubiciyemeiyouquzhangwolingyifangchangshuode，zhishizhiliyuxiangranglingyifanglejiezishenniantou。dangdajiaxianghudoubujiasisuodeqingsuzishendeyaoqiushi，lizudianquanshilizaizishendeguandianshang，zeguaizhelingyifang，zhuyaobiaoxianzishendeyaoqiu，zheileineishihouzaoyibukeyisuanzuogoutongle，zhiyousuanzuodajiafenbiede“yanshuo”。

 yiner，zaiyuanyihelingyifanggoutongdeneishihou，bazishendexuqiuxianfangyifang，yongxinyongxintinglingyifangdexinlihua。ruguoniduowenduolejielingyifangdeniantoudeneishihou，zheijiangbianchengyigekaixindetanhuaneirong。

dierzhao：kaizhan“jingzijichulilun”shigoutong

rujinwomenyiqieryanshuoshenmejiao“jingzijichulilun”degoutong。

 zuixian，yao“guanxin”lingyifang，ruhelejieni?dangnikanjianjingzilimiandeneishihou，haowuyiwenhuijiandaojingzizhongdezishen，suihourenmenhuiguanxinzishendemeiyigeguanjiandian，neimarenmenbixuzuodejiushishuobalingyifangdangzuoshijingzizhongdezishen，yongxinquguanxinlingyifangdemeiyijuhua。

 cizhi，yaoduilingyifangzuochu“tixian”。dangjingzhongdezishenmouyigezishibixugengweiweixiaodeguanchashi，neima，renmenbixuzuoyixiediaojie，caikeyijiandaojingzilidezishenteshudezhuangkuang。yincishuorenmenzailingyifangyixiebiaoshubuzuqingxideneishihou，yaoshanyulejieheyanjiu，neiyangjiunengquebaotingzhelejiedeqiadangheqiehe。

 zuizhongshi“xianghulijie”。jingzhongdenishini，dajiadebuwei、xiaobiaoqing、zishiquanshitongyangde。neima，dangnizaigoutongzhong，baozhengxianghulijie，niduilingyifangzuochuleyouliangdeyijianfankui，neimayiyanglingyifangyehuiduinihuifuchuyouliangdeyijianfankui。cikenidexuqiucaikeyiyongxindejindaodaolingyifangdeerduolimian，didaneixin。

导师寄语：

 liangrenjiaowangzaitongyigewuyan，baizhimaxiaodeshierdoushiyoubuyiyangdejianyi，yincihuiyouxuduodemaodun。maodunbukongbu，yaoshiliangrendounenglizhijiejue，yongqiadangdefangshi jiejuemaodun，neimaliangrendeyishizhuxingzongshibianhao。ruhewanhuizhangfu?