老公出轨，面对离婚是放下或挽回？

 laogongchugui，yingduiliyishixuehuifangxiahuowanhui？yixienvrendanglejielaogongchuguidexinxiyihou，bachibuzhuxingfendexintai，chixuduizhangfuchizetuoma，yitiandaowanyifuchoudideliankongyingduizhezhangfu，yizhiyuzhaodisanzhehetan，zheizhonggerenxingweizongshishinigennanpengyouzhongjiandefenqidianshangsheng，shiqinggandiezhibingdu，zuizhongmaixiangliyi。yingduiliyibixubawo wanjiuhunyin defangshi ，jijiangliyihainengwanhuixiangyaonizhaoduifangshi 。

一、应对离异是学会放下或挽回

 weihewaiyutongchanghuiyiliyijieshu？youyuzheileineishihouxuduonvxingdouaibubujinbi，yizhiyuhuiyiliyiweixie。suihougongkuiyikui，zaochengfuqiganqingpolie。nvrentongchangkoushixinfei，buxianglihun，keshidoubujitahaomiansekan，danshixinliyouyaoxianglaogonglaihong。qingjilao，yueneiyang，yuemengliededikang，zongshibatabazerentuixiedeyuelaiyueyuanle。

 yincizailaogongchuguiyihou，zishenqueshihaiaizhezhangfu，buxianglihundehua，nijiubixufanshengziji，zaicisikaohunyinshenghuo，lizaizishenfajuehezishenchengcaideshijiao，quduidaichuguinanren，zhaodaozishendebugou，ziwowanshan。yingduiliyishixuehuifangxiahuowanhui，zhongyaohuanshiyaozunxunnizishenxinlizhenshideniantou。

二、应对离异必须把握挽救婚姻的方式

1、ruhekandaizhangfudewaiyu

1.1、buyaosipolianpi。

1.2、buyaoyoukuyounao，yizhiyuxiangxunduanjian。

1.3、gengxingaizaoyishizhuxing，gaibianxianzhuang。

2、jijiangliyihainengwanhuidefangshi 。

2.1、bubixianggeyuanfuyiyang，yaojitayigechuandizhengnengliangdexifu

 xuduohuozhizishendelaogongchuguideren，yibanfanyingquanshibacuodoutuidaozishendezhangfushoushang，ganjuezishendelaogongchuguizaixian，zuoshenmegongzuoquanshitadecuozaixian，congbuhuiziwofansi，weihezishendezhangfuhuiwaiyu？yinci，fajuedelaogongchuguile，bubibaquanbudeshiermaotoudoupianxiangta，bubiyikuernaosandiaosi，yaodongdesikaobenshencunzaidebuzu。wenyiwenzishenyiqianshibushijitadejuedejiushishuotayifanhuijiajiukandaonixiangyigeyuanfuyiyanggezhonggeyangbaoyuan，taxiabanlewanleyoushuotachulaiguihunle，zhuyaobiaoxianyifuxinqingbuhaodemoyangzheixie。>> laogongchugui!hunyinpolie!zenmecainengzhengjiuhunyin?

2.2、yaodongdekaidaobieren，jitayigetongqingdalidexifu

 dangtaxiabanlefanhuijia，juedetingleideneishihou，juedegongzuobushunxindeneishihou，taxiangnishushuodeneishihou，bumingbaideren，diyifanyingyaoshuo，“nideshierwobumingbai，niruheneimewonangfei，zishendegongzuozhongdoujiejuebuxing，dajiaquanjiarenhaikaoniquyangni，nizheimoyang，woyemeiyouzixinxinguoxialaile！”，yuanlaiqidaizainiyanqianhuodekuanwei，huodekaidao，niquebaoyuan，niquegezhonggeyangweiman„neimayidantazaiwaibianyounenggoukaidaoderen，tawaiyudeyuanyinbiandeyuelaiyuehelixingle，yinci，xiangdedaozhangfudeyongdai，haiyaomingbaizenyangyongdaitaren。

2.3、yaojitayouxingfudeganjue，bubitahuiganjuexianglaofang

 yitiandaowandakaitadeshoujishangshibushiyounuanweixinxineirong，chaxuntadecheliangshibushiyounvrenxiufa，chaxuntadeyifukuzishibushiyouchungaozheixie，shijishang，bieyiweidenizaiyita，zaiweihuzheiyijia，jianyanzhi，haibingbushinijianliwangyi，haibingbushiniguoduodebuzixin，niganjuewaibianyiqieyigerennenggoubatajixiyin，quebuzhidaojitadejuede，tarutongyigefanren，beinijianjinzailaofangli，meiyousuiyi，nizaoyiyouxinghuawuxingzhongdejitachenzhelengjingdegongzuoyali，zheilixiangdedaoxingfudeganjue，xiangdedaowennuan，jiudangzaibinglengdelaofanglisangshisuiyi。