老婆上班出轨怎么处理

　　laoposhangbanchuguizenmechuli，aiyo，pengyoumen，xiamianzanmendeliaodian“qiangshi”huatitaolun——fajuelaopochuguiyinggaizenmeban?buyaohuang，xianshenxiqi，gexiajianpanhezhuankuai，womenyongzhihuihefengfanlaijiejuewenti。xiamian，womenjiangfengshangyitaobaochilengjingde“wangzha”liucheng，baozhengrangnizaiduidaizheileifanzazhuangkuangshi，jikeyibaochilixing，youkejinzhanlimao。

　　第一步：确定“数据信号”，先别急着“说出”

　　fajuelaopobutaiduijing，lirushoujijiesuomimahuanleyige、changchangshengengbanye“jiabanjiadian”、duiyunideguanzhuyuelaiyuefuyanleshi……cike，henduoxiaohuobankenenghuizhijiezhaqilai，danzandebiezhu!xianpingjingxialai，shoujidian“zhijiezhengju”，biezhikaopanduanli。nikeyishizheguanchatarichanggerenxingwei，liuyizheixieweimiaodebianhua，huocongtabujingyijiandehuayuzhongzhaoxiansuo。jilao，womenzhuiqiudeshiquezaozhengju，bingbushiduanzhangquyidecaice。

　　queding“shujuxinhao”hou，yidingxianbiejizhetiaominghuoshidanaotiankong。xinrenwo，buzhizhewuwei，nizheigeyinao，henyoukenengbianbabenlaikeyiyouyijiejuewenti，chenglemeifadalidecanqi。yinci，shenxiqi，duizijishuo：“wojiushiwanshandenanren，woxiangbaochilengjing。”

　　第二步：自我反省，寻找“奸细”

　　laoposhangbanchuguizenmechuli，tinghaole，zheiyibuhenzhongyao!zaizeguaibierenyiqian，xianwenziji：“woshibushiyouzuodebugouhaodequyu?”hunyinshilianggerendeshiqing，chuguijinguankendingwufarongren，danshiyoushihou，womenyeyaofansiyixiazijizaihunyinzhongderenwu。shifougongzuomang，hushileduifangdeganshou?shifoutaijiumeiyoujitazhizaolangman，rangtagandaoshenghuokuzao?huoshi，shifougoutongjiaoliujianshaole，zaochengxinyuxindejuliyuande?

　　jilao，ziwofanshengbingbushikuijiu，yebushiweitadechuguizhaoliyou。ershiweilegenghaodechuliwenti，xunzhaodajiahunyinlide“jianxi”，ranhouyiqijiangtachechulai，jiejuediao!

　　第三步：坦诚相见，来一场“灵魂对话”

　　haola，neinixianzaizaoyipingjingxialaile，yesikaoguoqule，xianzaishishihoulaiyichangtanchengxiangjiande“linghunduihua”le。zhaoyigeheshideshijian，baozhengdajiadouyouzugoudeshijianyukongjian，burongyibeihenduorendajiao。suihou，dandingdigentashuonideqingxuhefaxian，haijide，yaoyong“worenwei”kaishi，erfei“nijiaowo……”。liru：“wojuededajiajinqideguanlianyouyixieshengshu，wofaxianzheizhong……”

　　zaijiaotanguochengdangzhong，baochilizhihelixingfeichangzhongyao。bubichize、bubiruma，gengbuyaodongshou!jilao，zijidemubiaoshichuliwenti，erfeishengchanzhizaogengduodefenqi。rangtazhidaonidetongkuhedanyou，yejitajiyujieshishuomingbiaodaguandian。jilao，goutongjiaoliushishuangxiangde，lingtingyiyangzhongyao。

　　第四步：决定的，是“修”或是“分”

　　tongguoyichangshencengcideduitanhou，dajiakenenghuigenglejieduifangdexiangfaheganshou。cike，neijiuxuyaoyitonglaiquedingzheiyiduanhunyinweilaidefazhanle。jiushixuanzexiubuzheiduanganqing，huoshijuedingfenshou?zhuyaokannimenbicidexiangfayunuli。

　　ruguoshixiubu，neijiuyaoyiqizhidingjutidejihua。liru，tishengzaiyiqideshijian，duozuoyixielangmandeshi，huoshixunqiuzhuanyedehunyinzixunxiezhu。jilao，xiubushiyiduanxunxujianjindeguocheng，xuyaoshuangfangdenaixinyunuli。neiruguofajuequeshiwufamibu，huozheduifangzaoyimeichengyigenggai，neiyangfenkaihuoxushigenghaodexuanze。zhongjiu，dangduanzeduan，shiba?

　　wulunnimenzuochushenmejueding，douxuyaolijieduifangdetiaoxuan。jilao，ganqingshiziyoude，hunyinxiangduipingdeng。meirenyouzerenyizhiliuzaiyiduanbuxingfudehunyinli。