一个女人的自述，女朋友出轨后的心理学有哪些

 wogenwolaogongshidaxuetongxue，wanhundoushiyousannianle，xiaohaiziyisuiduo，yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？dajiayiqiandeaiqingfeichanghao，jinjinyongyouxiaohaizihou，tajiudaoyidiqugongzuozhongle。nvpengyouchuguihoudexinlixueyounaxie？

yigeyuecaihuijiayici，meiritadourangwotongdianhua，wenwoyuxiaohaidezhuangkuang，woyizhijuedezijitingmeihaode。

 danshi，youyici，tahuijiayihou，fangdaochuangjushangdeshoujishangbujingyijianyibuxiaoxinjiandaoyouyitiaoxinxijinqu，jiandaoneiyitiaoneirong，wodeshijieshouyouyixiazijiukuatale，neinvrenjiaotazhangfu。

 guaibudetameiyicihuijiadouxiangyouxinsiyiyang，yuanlaishiwaibianyounvhaizile。wojiuyongdenglumimajinlaikanguotadeshoujishang，liaotianneirongqueshihencusu，tazaoyiwaiyu2geduoyuele，neinvrenshitadepengyou。

 yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？yingduiwodezhiyi，tahuangleyixiayihoujiuxiaguiqiuwoyuanliang，shuotashiguducaimeiyoukongzhizhuziji。

wohenxianglihun，kewomingbaiwohaiaita，wojiangwoxiangkaolvdaojiri。

 yemeiyouchaonao，zaoyimeiyouliqiqunao，gengbuxieyigugentanao，bukenengderenbenlaishita，woxubuxuyaobazijiyejipeijinlai。

xiabianbianshiwoyaofenxiangdesanbuqu：

 qiantitiaojian：wanliuchuguinanren，bingbingbushiyijianhenrongyideshi。yidingyaoyousiweitiqianzhunbei，bubihushileziyineixinshenchudetihui，xianwenmingbaizishenweihequwanjiuta，shiyouyuaihuoshiyouyubugan，quelizheilianggefangmianyihou，haixuyaogaohaochongfenzhunbei，kanzheigenanrenzhibuzhiwanliu，kantawaiyuhoushifouyouweizhongguijiazhongzuochuhuiguodegerenxingwei？

liqingxizheizhongyihou，jiarutafeichangzhidewanliu，neimejiuyongyixiajigefangmianqushitazhongguijiazhong。

最先，要平稳自个的心态。

 xuduonvhaizizailejiechuguinanrenhouhuiqingxushikong，rangxintaizhuzaizhezishen，zuochuyikuernaosandiaosidegerenxingwei，renweinenggouwanliuta。daliangdenvshenghaihuijixuqudadisanzhe，bachuguinanrendecuodouguizuidaodisanzhededeshenshang，zheiyeshizuilandezuofa。nidezema，zhinenggengweijiqinanshengduidisanzhedebaohuyu，tahuizaixinzhonggengweidebishini。

 neiyangzuochangchangyinxiaoshida，chuguinanrendeshihuizainichaonaodeguochengzhongnongdezhongrenjiezhi，shitamianbuquanshi，tajiuhenyounenggouhuipoguanposhuai，congcizaihunwaiqingdedaolushangyiqubuhuitou。nvpengyouchuguihoudexinlixueyounaxie？

 zaidiaozhengqingxuhou，ninengleiyanmenglongdegentashuodao，nilejietachuguile，zishenmeiyoubanfayixiazijienazheiyikeguanshishi，yaoyidianshijianxiaohuaxishou。

 yihou，zhixutabutiniyejiuqianwanbietizheishi，yunyongzheiduanshijianqupouxinimenzhongjiandenanti，shifouyouchulidefangfa，suihou，zaizhidingyigefangan。

次之，用拖延战术

 chuguinanrenzhenzhenzhengzhengweidisanzheliyidefeichangshao，erdisanzhexuduodouxiangshangtai。zheishihou，nijiangshijiantuodeyuezhang，jiuduiniyueyouyi。

 zaizheiqijian，nibuyaoyouyiququyueta，zhuyaobiaoxiandegenpingshiyiyangjiukeyile，danxiaohaizeshinenggoubangnideguanjianbaowu，rangxiaohaiquzhaotafudaozuoye，gentawanle，yongzhenqingqulalongtawaiyudexin。nvpengyouchuguihoudexinlixueyounaxie？

 disanzhezaishizhangshangshihaobuqide，tahuigentadachaodanao，bitaliyi，danninenggoujiazhuangshenmeyebuqingchu，gaiganshenmerengjiuquzuo，jitamenkanshangqushisuiyideshineikongjian。

zaizhenqinghenijidewenroujingongxia，nanzaikaoliangquanyiyihou，yibandoushitiaoxuanhuidaojiazhong。

最终，要工于心计

 wanliuchuguinanren，bubiyiweiderennai，yaogongyuxinji，shitalejiegenniliyidechengben，shitalejienishiyouxierenzhuiqiuwanmei，shitamingbainishisuishisuididounenggouliquta，wangwangmeiyoulikai，huoshiyinweiaiqingta、aixiaohai、aizheiyijia。

shitamingbainidexintai，jiarutabuxiaodeaixi，neizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoyejiumeiyoujianchixiaqudebixu。

 yibannvrenchuguidoubuchengrenma？yaoshoujitawaiyudezhijiezhengju，bingbushiyinweiliyi，yebushiweilegenghaodiweixieta，zhishirangzishenduoyitiaotuilu。