一个中年女人的心声，出轨回归后幸福的占多少呢

 zaiyibenshushangkandaoguoneiyangyijuhua：chuguihuiguihouxingfudezhanduoshao？“wanhunyuliyishijishangshiyicihetongdekaishiyujieshu，zaojiuzishencaisuanshiyongbuzhibudefaxianzhilvdemudi。wulunzuiaiderenlailahuoshilaidao，yongyouhuoshimeile，shizhongmeiyoupaokaideneiren，bianshinizishen。zheiyeshimeiyigenvxingyingdangzaixinzhonghezishenqianshudehetong。”wushisuinvrenchuguilvyouduoshao？

 huashineiyangshuo，dadaolisheidougaoqingchu，keshishierqueshichuxianzaiziyideshenshang，ninengfajuenanyishihuai。youxieshixiangxuehuifangxiameiyouneiyangfeichangrongyi，niweineiyiduanhunyinshenghuotourulexuduo，keshineirenyishengbuhangjiulikaile。tazhituzishendehuanlehesatuo，ernilei，queyaofuzequanbudeyiqie。ninengshebudewangji，ninanzaoshoubuhaoshiyehuiyangtianzhangtan：weihelaotianyehuineiyangkandaini？keshiwenlaiwenqudoumeiyoudaan，chukaiwanqiangdehuozhu，chukairangshijianlaiqingxiliyidailainidetongku，niyushiwubu。

 37suideguantong，tidaomianqianfudeshirengranshiborandanu，tahenqianrenlaogongdejueqing、houyanwuchi、lengdan。shishangweishenmehuiyouzheizhongdenansheng，nigentadejiatashuodaobubijiubuyongle，danshiniweizheiyijiachengshouleshiduoshao，weiheyiqiedoudeniqudanfu？meidaoxiangqizheier，guantongyiranhuibuchengqideluolei，zhenduitalaijiang，xinqueshihaoteng，hunyinshenghuolibeicuoguofushiletadexinli，rangtatongchudaowufaziba。

 chuguihuiguihouxingfudezhanduoshao？haojihuiguantongdoushizaixiang，gancuijiushizheiyanglaidao，tarenbaoqianninisuoxing“poguanposhuaiba”，danzheileisixiangzainaoziliyejinjinshaozongjishi，guantongyixiangqi2geweimanshibasuideguinv，tadexinyouruanle。nengzenmebanni？tamendefuqinzaoyibubitamenle，nandaowozheigedangniangdeyebubima？ruhedongde？zheixienian，haofeileneimeduojinglijinzhijinzedishouzhezheizhongjia，haohaodidemianduixiaohai，danshiruhedongdewulunbutanni？

nanguodaowanmeiyihou，guantonghuoshiyongyixiucalecayanlei，taanzixiajuexin：

 buguanzenyang，doushihuirangzishenzhanliqilai。zheixieyiwangdexinshangzhenduitalaijiangbuguoshiyizhongxiaosunhai，rangtarenqinglelihundeshiqing，tawozhongyumingbai，niyongyuandoudadongbushangyigebuzaihunideren。

suiranqianrenlaogongwaiyuhoujijilihunbulijia，keshiguantongrengranhenta，tajiang：

 “woshibuhuiyuanliang，youyutazuoweiyigenanren，lianzuijibendezerenganyemeiyou。tayinweizishenhunwailianzhongmishangdeneinvren，deleshixinfeng。ganjuelihunbulijiajiuduiyuwomeiyoushenmeneijiu，keshinirengranbaoqianwo，gengbaoqianlianggehaizi。tahenzisi，neiyangbeipanhunyinnengyounaxiebudeshanzhong，woshibuhuizhuyuanta，shizhongdouburongyi，gengburongyiyuanliang。”

管彤面前夫唐勇是网友见面结识的，27岁那一年她爸爸妈妈一直都心急她找不到男朋友，碰到唐勇后感觉这个男人蛮听话的，工作中也平稳，管彤惦记着“就是他了”，两人就甚为匆忙的把婚给会结。完婚太快过早都并不是一件好事，你为了更好地婚姻而完婚，也常常会由于婚姻生活所烦恼，你觉得结婚了万事如意，却不知道婚姻生活里有大量风险性等你。

hunhoudiyinian，errendegongchubunengjiaozuoduolanmanxingfukuaile，keshihaisuanwennuan，meishenmedadezhengchao。

 hunhoudiernian，tangyongyouyuzuoyedeyuangubeidiaozhiyidi，erguantongpobudeyiyigerenbianzhaoliaojiabiandengtahuijia。guantongshigehenchuantongshidehaolaopo，tapingdingjiranzishenjiehunlejiudehaohaojinyigelaopodegangweizhize，taganjuezuoweifufujiudeweilegenghaodizheiyijiaerqinfen。guantongxiangdemeiyoucuo，keshitayushangderenbudui。

 yidihunyindeqianliangnian，tangyonghaihuijixugesanchawuchangchanghuijia。shijishangtamengedesuanbushangyuan，jiacheyejiusansigezhongtoudelutu，tangyongyikaishihuiyigexingqihuijiayitang，keshidaohoubianhuiyouyuzuoyemangweituoci，yigeyuehuijialiangtang，zaizhihoujiusuoxingyigeyueyitang，naizhihaoduogeyuehuijiayitang。

guantongyouyutahuijialedeshinaoguo，keshimeifazi，naoguodangricouxiao，yihoutangyonghuoshirengrandulaiduwang。

 guantongmeixiangguotangyonghuiwaiyu，zenmekeneng，neimadaishadeyigenanren，sheihuixiaishangtani？yebushiduoyoubenshi，gongzuozhongsuipingwendanyezhengbushangyixieqian，xiaishangneiyangdelaogongyouyoushenmeyong？

 keshiguantongguoyuzhuguanyiduanle，youdenanshengzhibuguoshizainiyanqiankanqilailaoshibajiao，shijishangtasixialiyidianyebulaoshibajiao。tangyongzaiguantongyanqianshiyigehendaishadenansheng，keshinimeibanfaxiangxiangtazaiqitanvxingyanqianjuranhaikeyitianyanmiyu。youshiniyingduiderenbuyiyang，nideguannianyehuiyesuizhiergenggai。zhibuguoshiguantongbingmeiyouyishidaozheiyidian。guantongyouyushimihun，yikaishiduitangyongzhangwojiucunyoumangqu，hunhoumangqurengranmeiyouxiaochuzhishibukedongyao，rangtameiyoufajuehunyinshenghuodebuquedingxingfengxianxing。

guantongduitangyongdeqingganzenmejiang？

 yikaishimeishiduoshaoai，keshizhihoubansuizheguinvdechushi，zaijiazhiweilegenghaodizheiyijiaweilebaobaofengxianleneimeduo，tayejiujianjiandiaishangle。zenmekenengmeiyouyidianjuedeni？tazhongjiudoushinidelaogong，ninengzhuguanyiduanganjue“aitaweitatourushiyingdangde”。

 nvxingyizhineiyang，jiusuanniyizhizaijiehunqianmeiyouainineigeren，keshizaijiehunhouyehuijingchangyouyuzishendetouruerwufaziba。youqishiruguoninulideyulaiyuduo，nideguishugandoushizaihunyinshenghuoli，nijianghunyinshenghuodangzuoshizishenzuixiangzuodeshiqing，niyejiuyulaiyulibulele。

以后的好多年，她们的婚姻生活仍然很平平淡淡，可是管彤仿佛看到了期待，由于她们又拥有第二个闺女。女儿的出现并沒有让唐勇感觉意外惊喜，管彤也猜到，很有可能唐勇是需要个孩子吧。管彤有点儿怨恨，可是感觉他对自身的小孩子应当会养吧，总不会太绝情。

 yizhiyilai，tamenliangshichuzaiwaidifufudeqingkuang，guantonggenjiapozaijialidaizhe，jiapobangtadailianggenver，ertazishenhaidegongzuozhong。guantongpanwangtangyongyouyitiangongzuozhongnengdiaohuiqu，youyutameiyicitanjitangyongdegongzuozhong，tayidinghuishuo“nizaidengdeng，neijiushiwomendejia，wozongshihuihuilaide”。

neijiushitadejia，danshitaqueshiyoubajiachanchengjialiyema？

 “wonianfuyiniandiquzhelianggehaizibiangongzuozhong，wopantadengtashibaochizheizhongjiasuoyoudequdongli。yiqiedouhenningjing，woyiweiwomenyijiadehaoriziyaolaidaole。xiangbudaoqueshilaila，danwodengnilaideshiyigeshengshunvshengdedianhua。”

 guantongshoudaoshoujideguochengzhongdoumengle，dianhuali，neinvrengentajiang“huaiyunle，nimengaililehun”。guantongtingjianhou，muranlehaoyihuier，tashenmeyemeishuojiuguadiaodianhua。yuanxiantangyongyehuiwaiyu，yuanxianzailaoshibajiaodenanshengbuguoshiyizhongxianxianggencuojue，niyinciweidedaishayouhechangbushiyanzangchulaide？

 guantongtongkuhaozhangshijian，tabugandangzhelianggenverdemianku，zhinengzaiguinvrushuiyihouduojinxishoujianlidunzuozailinyushidedizhuanshang，biequdediaozheleishui。tayibianmandihuiyizishenzheixieniandetouru，danshiyuexiangyuebuzhide。zheixienian，jinzhijinze，nandaotongtongbeicuoguoma？guantongbumingbai，weishenmehuiyouxierenqueshineimajueqing，nandaomeiyouleaijiushenmedoubushilemeiyou？

 zhiqianzongganjuewenroudenvrenhendiankuang，rujinlaikannanrendexincaifengkuang，yidanmishang，“beipanhunyin”，lianzuizhuyaodewenlianggongjianrangdoumeile。

 guantonggentangyongshangyiliyideshier，rangguantongdadieyanjingdeshisha？yanxiadezheiyigenzishenxianzaideshenghuolejinshiniandenansheng，juranyidianneijiuxinyemeiyou。tabudanduiguantongmeiyouneijiuxin，bingqiedoumeiyoutijilianggenver，fangfotazijigentamenzheiyijiabuxianggan。

tamendeliyifeichangjiandan，meiyouzhenghaizifuyangquan，meiyouzhengzichan，tangyongjinjindandandishuozhe：

“jirannizaoyilejie，qiangenfangwudouguini，wolihunbulijia，xiaohaiyeguini，wojieranyishenjiuxing。”

管彤大怒：

 “nijieranyishen，shuodedaoqingqingsongsong，nandaoneimezhangqidajiazheizhongjiaduinieryanshifulei。niyoumeiyouyidianliangzhi，xiaohaishiwomendaide，zheiyijiadeyiqiedoushiwotourude，nijuedebubijiubuyongle。nilihunbulijiayouzenyang？shiyouyunilejiezheiyijiameiyaoduoshaoqian，yincicailihunbulijia？lianggehaizinijuedebubijiububi，kuaijiwodengdai，lianggenverzaoyouyitianhuihentouleni。ershiniyejiumeibaoguotamen，biandayemeiruheguanguo。nizuihaojidenijinridegerenxingwei，tariruguozaiquzhaodajia，xiuguaiwoshili。”wushisuinvrenchuguilvyouduoshao？

keshitangyongmeiyoushenmefanying，huoshihenanjingdelikai。

尘世间基本上任何的分离出来，都好像干了一次起伏不定的手术治疗，离异也一样。嘴边说成很安静的离了婚，可是你的心里没办法实现真正意义上的宁静，你所得到的损害得必须好长一段时间来慰藉，不清楚什么时候才可以确实云淡风轻。

 fangshishangliquyigerenhenrongyi，keshizaiqingxushangzhenzhenzhengzhengliquyigerennanyi，zhongjiunijiangtadangshangshiniandejiaren，nijuedetashixiaohaidefuqin，keshitashuodaobuaixiyebuaixile。

 fangwuxiaohaiqianquanshiguantongde，tangyonghensatuodelihunbulijia，guantongxiangjiapoxunqiubangzhushi，bierenzhituzhechaozhezishendehaizi。xinhuiyilengxia，guantongmianqianjiapojiqiqianrenlaogongduanjueyiqielaiwang。guantongbeibidehendiqi，shinimenguoduansipozheiyifenzhenqingheqinzigoutong，zhihouyebunengguaidajia“liuqinburen”。

 guantongzhiqianmaiyuanguoshuci，weihetasatuodelihunbulijia，danshijiaojiwodezeshibensidenianjihe2geweimanshibasuideguinv？wozuihaodenianhuadoudenghouzhetahuijiale，danshidenglaidequeshineiyangdejieguo。henweiciqican，neileitongkuganbingbushiyinian2nianjiunengyiwangde。

richangshenghuonanyi，keshiguantongzaitongguoyihouhuorankailang：wushisuinvrenchuguilvyouduoshao？

wokeyizuodejinyoudaishanglianggenverhaohaohuozhe，wulunruhe，zhiyouhaohaohuozhe，cainenggouduifuneiyixieweihainideren。

 henduorenquanguantongxuehuifangxia，keshiguantongxiaoyixiaobuyan，youyutaneixinhenqingxi，tayibeizidoubukenengtiaoxuankuanrong，qianrenlaogonglihunbulijiayebukeyitianbujitajiqilianggehaizisuochanshengdesunhai，tarengranhenta，jinjintabunazheileihencuicanbenshen，zhishihuabeishangweinengliang，rangzishenyitianbiyitianguodegengqiang。

 chuguihuiguihouxingfudezhanduoshao？meigerendoulijingshengmingzhongzheixiebolanqifu，meigerendouyouxianweirenzhidexinsuanyutongku，meiyigerenyehuilijingheiyinheguji，zhiyuannibiewangleyaozhengyikouqi，nixuyaoyinweizishenweiniaidezhenzhengainiderenhaohaohuozhe，meishenmehaikeyijidaoni，nizhongjiangmairuwulukezouhoudefenghuiluzhuan，huibiyuliaodegengjingcaifencheng，ninengyoumeihaoderensheng。