不愿接受出轨回归的妻子，发现妻子“出轨”后，就别妄想她回头

 chuguibeifaxiandenvrenyibanzenmexuanze？doushuonanrendexinshizhanju，wenroudenvrenshimanzu。zhangfuweihebuyuanjieshouchuguihuiguideqizi？

 yincinanshengyidanwaiyu，jiazhongdenvxingxiangyaokuanrong、jienalingyifanghuiguotoudeqingxingxuduo；ernvxingyidanwaiyu，nanshengyibanfeichangshaonengkuanrong，jieguodaduoshubianshitiaoxuanliyi。

keshiyiqieyezonghuiyouchuwai，bukeyiduanzhangquyi。

qingtingyiweilihunnanrendezisu：fajueqizichuguihou，jiubuyaoyixiangtahuiguotou！

01.女性的外遇，通常全是有蓄谋的

倾诉人：老毛

 chuguibeifaxiandenvrenyibanzenmexuanze？mingchengjiuxinxibaomile，zhongjiuzheileishichanshengzaiwodeshenshang，yetingdiurende，meiyixiangpuchuzhenshishenfen，buxiangyingduiqitarendequxiaoyujifeng。

 worenwei，nvxingdewaiyu，tongchangquanshiyouxumoude。huanjuhuashuo，tamenyouyuyishizhituxinxiancijixingerqugaohunwailiandegailvmeiyounanshengda，keshiduihunwailianzijintourudezixixingyuzaiyidu，henyoukenengyuanyuandichaoguonansheng，yibanlingyifangdeshenshangdoushiyoutamenyouqiqipanyuxiangwangdewupin。

 nawodelaopoeryanba，wofaxianledeqingkuangxia，tazaoyigenneigerenweichilechaoguobannianzhishangdeguanlian。lingyifangyeshigeyouqishidenansheng，yingxiangligenshilicengmianbiwogaoyutaiduole，wonengrenkezishenbuhaore。

wodelaopoxiangcongbierendeshenshanghuodenaxie？dayuedahuoeryejiudongle，qiancai、huaxuewuzhi、wojibushangdeyouworichangshenghuo。

 wobingmeiyouneileihunhuneedenansheng，keshirengenrenzhongjianhuoshimeifaduibide，wozhiyoujitajinyiyushi，dantashigetebieyou“zhuiqiuwanmei”denvxing，yaoxiangdafudagui，zaizheiyifangmianwomeifadadao。

 worenweijincongzheiyidiankanlai，dangshitayebuyingdangyinweiaierxuanzewo，lijiquneilileinengdadaotaxinlichongdongdenanshengdeshenshangquxunzhaogailvhaixuyaoqiangdeduo！

zheiyejiushiwokantoubicizhijiandechabie，yebuqidaitawaiyuhounenghuiguotoudeyuangu。

02.应对躁动不安的女性，别尝试真心实意去寻回，你的挽回只能让别人贪得无厌

 qiciworenwei，zhenzhenzhengzhengyoushiminggan、youxiuchizhixin、zhenzhenzhengzhengzaiyilaogong、zaiyijiazhongdenvxing，burongyiqingyiwaiyu，yidanwaiyu，jiuyiweizheneixieshiwuzaitayaoxiangzhenzhenzhengzhengxiangwangdewupinyanqianbuzhiyiti。

 tuiyiwanbueryan，yeshiyouyutabenxingyouyibuding、xinlizaodongbuandaozhide，zheiyeshiyizhongxingqingshangdeziranquedian，yebushihoutianxingkeyiwenhuajiaoyuyugenggaide。

 tarenruhexiangwoyebuzhidao，danworenwei，yingduizaodongbuandenvxing，biechangshizhenxinshiyiquxunhui，nidewanhuizhinengrangbierentandewuyan。

 woshinansheng，youziyidezihaogenzizunxin，shitaxianfourenlewodeshiyongjiazhi，ranqiezuochulesunhaihunyinshenghuobenzhideshier，tameiyoujuedebaoqianwo，meiyouqiqiuwokuanrong，meiyouduiyuwozuochuyiqiequebao。

 zaizheiyangdeqingxingxia，wodouyouyubuyuanhunyinshenghuowajieerquqiutadehuiguotou，zheileizuofazishenbianhuirangtagengweixinlipengzhang，jishilinshihuiguotou，weilaiyeduiyuwoshilejupayuzunjing，zhinengxiguanchengziran，neibanwozhihuibuduantongchu。

03.与其说痛苦纠缠不清，比不上离去让自已难受的根本原因，更能获得一片新的天

zhangtenghaiburuduantong，jiaodadecongming，zhibuguobianshikanchuanyigerendetianxing，duiyiduanguanliansilexin。

 dangwodongdelehetazaiyiqimeiyouxingfukuailedaolaodehenyoukeneng，yejiudangrandongleyigefeichangjianyidedadaoli：yuqishuotongkujiuchanbuqing，bibushangliqurangziyinanshoudegenbenyuanyin，fandaozaiweilaigengnenghuodexindeyipianqiankun，zaicixunzhaozhenzhenzhengzhengheshiwodeqingrengenhunyinshenghuo。

 jishizheiyiquanguochengtingyouzhang，yebishouzaitashenpang，renshoutadekanbushang、sanxineryi、buzhongshijixingweibujianbangwotigongdesunhaiyutongchuyaohaodeduole。

 wobingbushiyigeyouqijilingdenansheng，danyinweiwokendingbusha！zhenduineileibingqunzixiadeyeshouduiyuwo、bingbuaiwogengbuzaihuwodeganshoudenvshengmeiyouyaoxiangweiquqiuquanyibeizidezhunbei。zhangfuweihebuyuanjieshouchuguihuiguideqizi？

 hunyinshenghuodanshibianshixunzhaoyigeshenaideren，yaoxiangbicizhijianbaitouxielaoyishengeryi，jiaruzheiqizhongyifangdeaiyuzhongchengmeile，neimatayejiudangranshuailuole。

 tabuyuanyihuiguotou，woshanyufangkaishou，neiyang，dajiadourengeyouzhi。jianglailingyifangzenyang，zailihunhoujiubicizhijianbuxiangganle，zuishaoneiyangdejieguowokeyijiena。

实际上男孩和女孩针对情感与婚姻生活层面的意见与规定基本上是一样的，全是希望另一方能尊重自己的爱人、忠实于这一段婚姻生活。

 keshirendebenxingzhizhongcunyouzisidechengfen，xingqingcengmianyedougeyouquexianyurouruozhichu，zheizhongquanshizailihunzhizhongyouyupingpingdandan、youyujianjudequeshizaochengzhengzhi、chanshengmaodun、qingganfashengshuipinggaodideqingkuangyihou，youyixienanhaihenvhaineimafeichangrongyiwaiyudeyuangu。zhangfuweihebuyuanjieshouchuguihuiguideqizi？

 ziran，yeyouyixiebianshiyouyuairenmeiyoubanfadadaozishenduiqiancai、huaxuewuzhi、zhipeiquan、yingxianglicengmiandexiangwangerzaipengdaozaineixiecengmiankeyidailaideyixingpengyouzhishi，youyujingbuzhuyinyouerzuochusunhaihunyinshenghuodaodedixianshierderen。

 yingduirucideyizhongbenxing，congmingderenhuimashanggaoqingchu，zishenjishizhuyaobiaoxianzaimiaoxiaoyeyushiwubu，lingyifangxinlizhizhongzuizaihudeyibufenyuanchaonidegongnengyiwai，shiyizhongkeguanshishierbushiyizhongweiqueding！

 chuguibeifaxiandenvrenyibanzenmexuanze？yincilixingfangkaishou，biqianxinwankuchiaiyaohaodeduo。youyuneixiewupinchuguideren，nanyizhenzhenzhengzhenghuiguotou！