梦见自己的老婆出轨了，一个女人的婚外情教训有哪些

 hunyinshenghuonenggoushizhangqide，yekenengshiduanzanxingde。zuomengchuguishenmeyisi？fufunenggoushixiangqinxiangyuande，yekenengshixiangyuanxianghende。mengjianzijidelaopochuguileshenmeyisi？

keshiyiqiezhuangkuangxia，zhixubicihaishifuqi，jiubukeyiwaiyu。chuguideren，budanweihailelianren，genghuisunhaizishen。

danshidajiabixurenke，waiyumeiridouhuichansheng。meiridouyouxierenmanzhelingyiban，hehunwailianderenzuozhebiyideshier。

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 zuomengchuguishenmeyisi？shijishang，bujinbeipanbianderenhuinanguo，zheixiechuguiderenyebuhuihaoguo。zuihou，chuguiderenyidinghuiganshoudaobuzhongshijiatinghunyinsuochanshengdecanrenchufa。

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 zheiyishiliyoujinggaoshijiyiyi，kenenggaozhidahuoer，aimeiguanxifeichangrongyizhishiwaiyu，huilingren“yibuxiaoxin”mishangneiren。jiarunizaoyiwanhun，jiaruduiyigerenmeiyouyisi，jiubunengjineirenguoduodehuanxiangkongjian！

 jiarunizaoyiwanhun，jiaruniduiyigerenyouqu，jiuxuyaolineirenyuanyidian！youyixieshieryidanyongyoudiyici，niyejiuwufakongzhile。

 chennvshi，38sui，liyiyinianban，youyigeshangputonggaozhongdehaizi。zaiqitarendediyiyinxiangzhong，chennvshirichangshenghuohenqinjianjieyue，yehenhuiguorizi，jiazhongbeitaqingxidejingranyouxu。

 zaichennvshiwaiyuyiqian，baohantadegonggongpopoyinei，meirenhuijianxinzheiyi“qinjianchijia”dehaolaopojuranhuiwaiyu；zaichennvshizhunbeilihunzhiqian，meirenhuijianxintahuiweilegenghaodiyigelianrenerjueqingpaofuqizi。gengmeirenjianxin，weilegenghaodiliyi，taduizhangfuyisizhuangbi。

陈女士说：再讲任何东西都晚了，我很清晰，我还是深爱着前任老公，但是丢人再讲动了心。如今自己租着房屋住，害怕见爸爸妈妈，害怕见前任老公，成千上万人都是在嘲笑我。

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zhihouxiaohaishangputonggaozhong，bixujisu。congneizhujian，yelijiazhongchangchangzhishengyuziji，wozhiyouyigerenliusu。

yigerendeqingkuangxiabianhuiwujushu，feichangrongyilaoshihusiluanxiangba。

 wojianxinxuduonvhaizidouyuwoyiyang，danyouzhangfudeanquanxing。yedanyouzhangfushifouzaiwaimianpengdaoyigebiwogengqiangdenvxing，shifouhetarenrushui。

陈女士说：有一次我给丈夫通电话，他语调不太好。我内心很别捏，尽管不会发火，但是一想起来他说道得话，我便有一种没有安全感。

yexuwotaiainile，woqueshihendanxintapengdaobiwoxuduonvxing。yiner，wohenzaiyitadeyiyanyixing。

 zaikuaidiwang，youyigezuokuaididepengyouduiwofeichanghao。tabiwoxiaowusui，shililehundenansheng。tachangchangduiyuwoguanxintitie，haijiwomaishuguochi，changchangbangwojiaowaimaidaihuijia。

wojiangtadangzuohaoxiongdi，chukaiqingganwentiyiwai，dajiawuhuabutan。

 yinweizheiceng“youqing”deguanlian，kuaidigongsigangdao，wobianxianjitamenkuaidifenjian，xianbangtazhuanghuo，henguanzhaota。yelixiabanhuijia，tayechangchangjiachesongwodaodamenkou。

 womendeguanxishijishanghendanchunxing，danshikuaidiwanghenduorendoujuededajiayouaimeiguanxi。youyitian，wonongdiuleyijianbaonang，zhangfuzaidianhualiyuwochaoleyijia。zaoyuzhe3000duodefanbeipeifu，yinweiwohenxintong，erwogengbiequ。

zhangfubudanbuanfuwo，haishuowoshizhunaozi，haishuoqulenimababeizihuiqi。

 woneiyitiantongkuyigeduozhongtou，yewujingdacaigongzuozhongle。zhengqiaoneiyigepengyouhuijiale，taanfuwo，zailaozongyanqianbangwojiuchang。

 tashuodaokuaididiushishisuoyoudeyiwu，yingdangzhengtipeifu。tayizhiweiwojianghaotingdehua，tashuodaowoxixin，butaikenengnongdiuneimedadebaonang，yidingshiqitajieduanchulenanti。tahaiduilaozongshuo，jiarunizhifata，wonengdiyigebufuqi，wozheijiulizhi。

 neiyitian，wodiyiciyishidaozheigenanrendeguzhi，guanniandaotaneixinshenchudewennuan。yediyiciganjuewomenliangshiwanaimeideguanlian，diyiciganjuetabizhangfuguanzhuwo。

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 zhihouderizi，womenliangyulaiyuqinmiwujian。zhixuzhangfuyunhuo，womenliangrutonggongbuleaimeiyiyang，henduorendouganjuewomenliangyoujihui。henduorenchangchangnawomenliangdeguanlianwanxiao，shuowomenlianglaishinengzuofufu。

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erwomeixiangguo，buyiweizhetameixiangguo。

陈女士说：也许他感觉我对他有意思吧，就算他知道我爱老公，或是逐渐靠近你。现在我终于观念到，恰好是我的个人行为，给了他想象的室内空间。

 laogongbuzaishenbiandeyeli，womenliangyoushihouqukandianying。youyicitashuodaoxihuanwo，zaichelibianshuoxiangbaobaowo。wohendadong，erwoneixinyeshiyoudaodedixian。yemeiyoushitachenggong，woduitashuo，shiwozhangfule，jiushiwodejiejie，nibunengneiyang。

 neiwanhuidaojia，worenweihenwennuan，rutongzhonghuiletanlianaideguangyinzhong。wobuduanzhuiyizhetashuodaodezheijuhua，buduanganshouzheneiyikedewennuan。

 neiyicishierbudanmeiyouweihaiwomenliangdeguanlian，woduitafandaozaochengleyikao。youyiciwomenliangzaiwaimianchiguofan，tianzaoyiheile。woneixinyoudianerxiwang，danshitarenhedongxidoumeishuolijisongwohuijiale，woganjuedaoshiwang。

 zhihoudajiahuoshixiangguoquyiyangguangjiegouwu、yongcan、kandianshiju。dajiabenlainenggougengjinyibu，danshitadetixianqueyicicihewoyuliaozhongde“wennuan”cashenerguo。

 tahaipaduiyuwomingquetichufeifendeguiding，zheishiwobukeyijinxingde。nvrendoushimiantiande，nihaolaiyaowohuijueyixiaa。wodangchubianshizheiyangxiangde，bianshixianghuijuetaba。

 zhizhiyouyitian，woliangkanwanyingpian，tayouyicishuoxiangbaobaowo。wokouzhongshuozhebuhao，neixinquehenxiwang，zheiyeshiwoxiwanglehenduoyuedejiemian。

 neiyitiantameitingwodehua，buguanbuguwodezulan，jiangwolaolaodibaozailehuaizhong。womingbaizijizuodebudui，danshineileichangsuoxiawowufakongzhizishen，woxianghupeiheleta。

jiushizheiyang，woliangyongyoudiyiciguanlian。congzheiyikeqi，woduitagengweiyikao，tayuqitanvxingjianghua，wodoushihuifapiqi。

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 woshisuanle，bansuizheyouhuidepinlvzengjia，wofaxianlezhujianaishangleta。zuihouzaochengwoshiquhunyinshenghuo，shiquduijianglaidezixinxin。

当陈女士爱上了恋人以后，就忘记了自身的真实身份。每一次和丈夫争吵，她都是有离异的念头。离异的信仰愈来愈强，最后她丈夫看到了她外遇的事儿。

 chennvshishuo：zhangfufajuewomenliangdeguanlianyihou，ganjuedoumeiyouzizunzaikuaidiwangshangbanle，lijilizhile。keshiwoni，juranganjuetalizhishihaoshier，zhongyufangzhiletayuwolianren“ditoubujiantaitoujian”degangale。

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 zaiwojiandaotajiqizidexinxihou，wodexinsile。tajuranhaishenaizheqizi，tajuranyizhijiangwodangzuolejiqizishengchanzhizaogongzuoyalidezhuanyonggongju！

 tadeqizibiwohaokan，biwomiaotiao，biwobai。woweihea，woqueshixinsile。jirantajiaocailiangzhichuan，wozhiyouhetamingquetichufenkai。

 tabuyuanyifenkai，fandaochizewomengpiantadeqinggan。tachizewoliangqiziyiyang，shiyigezhilejiewaiyudefeiqiwunvxing，haishuowowuzhuowubi。

wobeitongyujue，zheiyeshiwoshenaiderenma？woweilegenghaoditashiquhunyinshenghuo，tajuranneimehuibaowo！

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 zuomengchuguishenmeyisi？pengyoutamenhendui，keshiluojixingshuocuole。bingbushihunyinshenghuofanzaerwaiyu，zhishiyouyuwaiyuerzhishihunyinshenghuofanza！