婚外情毁了我的婚姻，所谓真爱都是笑话吗？出轨的女人有多少能改

 zhihushangyouyigenanti：“fenshouzhihou，duozhangshijiancaihuiwangdiaoneiren？”chuguidenvrenyouduoshaonenggai？shijishangbujinjinshifenkai，jiuliandanliandounenggoushitebienanaode，nixihuanyigeren，huayifensixu，zhixuyonglexin，zenmekenenghuisuibianwangdiaoni？guanyuyifangchuguilihungaizenmechuli？

 zaiyiqideguochengzhongyouduotian，fenshoushijiuhuiyouduomedebuganxin，beifenshouhoubianhuiyouneimedeguzhi，youshidajiabingmeiyoubuzhidaolijisunzhi，bingqieyouyuyiqiandezhuiyiliwufawangjidetianmei，shizheixiechenjinzaixingfukuailezhizhongdeyuyuezongshihuibuziganjuerangziyixiangdaoleyiwang。

 yiqiezhengchangzhuangkuangxia，jiaruliangrenenai，zaifenshouhoudoushihuiyouyiduanquanyuqi，yijumeiyigerendegexingheaidejiaodan，meiyigerenkeyifangxiayigerendeshijianyehuibuyiyang，youderenyeyouhenyoukenengyibeizidoudiaokezaizishendehexinyaodianzhizhong。

 chuguidenvrenyouduoshaonenggai？shijishang，fenshouhou，yebingmeiyoufeidewangjiyigeren，guanjiandeshizaichengrendequanshijieli，aihuobuaidouxuyaoyoulixing，jiaruzishendetanlianaibenlaibianshijianbukeguangde，haijingchangyouyutaduiziyihaoershixian，queshibuzhi，neiyangjiububiyouyutadeliqu，bazijiderichangshenghuonongdeluanqibazao。

 qianjiritingguimishuoleyijianshi，tamenqiyeyinvyuangonggenzhuguanyoubujiuzailianaiguanxi，qiahaobeijianguanjipaidao。lingrenhuisanguandeshisha？tamentongshishihunhouchugui。keshizaizuihoudexiaoguozhijiejuelenvyuangong，nanzhuguanqueanranwushi。

woxunwenhaoguimi：“weihezhijiejuelenvyuangong，nijuedetamenzhongjianyouganqingma？”

 haoguimixiaole：“neinvrenshitingnaikande，yijingjiehunyiyuhaifengyunyoucun，dannantidaodishisheihuiquyigeyijingjiehunhaichuguinvren，nijuedeyoukenengma？yigeyijingjiehunchuguinvrendaduoshushihuilezishen，buguoshibierendewanjubale。tamenliangzhongjiannengyounaxieganqing，neiyigenvyuangongzaoyidaibuqilaile，beicitui，kenenghuijialeyeshiyoutashoude。”

zheiyeshizhenlidekeguanxing，shijizhongchuguinanrenhechuguinvrenshierzhongjiongranbutongdejieguo。

 chuguinanren，nengyounaxieshizhenxinshiyiaide，keshichuguinvrenkebuyiding。buguanshichuguinanren，huoshichuguinvren，woquanshichizede，woxiangshuodeshideshi：

“nengbunengbumengpian，jiaruohunyinshenghuochengbuxiaqu，nenggouliyi，weihefeidewaiyuni？”

chuguinvren，daduoshushiyouyuqing，shijizhonghaizhenyoubennvrenxianlejinlai。

 mingyuebianshiyigeyinhunwailianerlihundenvren，danshibingbushitazhangfuchugui，zhishitazishendehunwailianhuiletadehunyinshenghuo。mingyuejinrisuoshoudaodeyiqie，woyezhinengsuanshitajiuyouziqude，ketalingrenwunaideshisha？juranyeyouyiduanshijianwangbudiaoneiyigepiantadenansheng，nijuedebingbuhaoxiao。

 tahezhouhaodexiangfeng，youdianerxiaogushihua，yeyoudianerjifeng，tabenshenbianshiyigeyoujiandenvxing，danshiqueqingbuzijindiaishanglezhouhao，liangrenzaiyiqihoudetianmideshenghuo，rangtaduibenlaipingfandehunhoushenghuoyongyouxiwang，yebatayinxianglegudi。

 mingyuehelaogongyuanbenshiwangyoujianmianjieshide，meiyoushiduoshaoganqingjichu，neigeshihougangguo30suinianjijiaweideta，yingduibabamamadechixubihun，taqucongle，jianlebabamamaweitajihuadenanpengyou。

爸爸妈妈一直都说：

“qingganzheileishiwunenggouzhujiansuzao，zhixutaxintengni，niguodehaojiukeyile。”

 mingyuejiuzaibabamamadequangaoxia，heqianrenlaogongfangweijiehunle，fangweiqueshishisuandeshangyigebiaozhunhenhaodenanpengyou，youfangyouche，meiyigeyuexinchoufengfu，bingqietazheigerenyouzhonghoulaoshi，zairenherenlaikandousuandeshangshiliangpeile。

 tamenjiehunyihou，riziguodeyizhidouhenpingpingdandan，fangweiduitaqueshifeichanghao，jingjifazhanshiquanyoutabawo，jiawuhuoyehuijijititafentan，danshimingyuebianshiganjueneiyangderizisuoranwuwei，taiguodupingpingdandan，meiyouyisiyihaodereqing。fangweideshenshang，youyigeyanzhongdequexian，jiushitazheigerenbuzhidaolanman，kaibushangwanxiaohua，danshirenyuganqingyemeiyoushiquanshimeide，mingyuejiuzhinengcouhexialai。

 zhihou，mingyuehuailexiaohai，fangweijidongdebuhao，jiuyaotazaijialiganqilejiatingfunv，mingyuezhidaozishenrentigongdicha，yebuyuanjifangweizhaomafan，yincitingleyishidetiyi，shuxinzaijialiantai。zhizhixiaohai2suiduo，tahuoshiyigejiatingfunv，zheijiniantahefangweideqingganhuoshipingpingchangchang，meiyoushenmexiwang，zhizhitapengdaolezhouhao，zhouhaohefangweishiyousuobutongdezhonglei。

 zhouhaobimingyuexiao2sui，xingqingkailang，henhuijianghua，youmofengqu，henhuihongnvhaigaoxing，mingyuepengdaotashizaidaxingshangchang，neishihouyouyiduinvshengweizhutajijizhazhadejianghua。mingyueyikaishidoumeiyouzaihu，shizhouhaojijixunzhaomingyuedeyanqianjieshaozijideshangpin，neishihoumingyuebingmeiyouduoshiduoshaosixutingtajianghua。

 danshi，zhouhaoqueyizhixiangqiancou，kanjianzhouhaoneimeyounaixin，mingyuecaizhujiankaishiyongxinditingtaxiangxijieshao，shangpinbeizhouhaoshuodaofeichanghao，mingyueganjuedoubugui，biangoumaile，neishihouzhouhaojiejiyaolemingyuedeshoujiweixin，mingyuemeixiangtaiduojiujitamenle。

 mingyuemeiyouxiangqizhouhaohuijijixunzhaozijixianliao，gengmeiyouxiangqiguozishenhuizaihezhouhaozaixianliao、gongchuzhizhong，jianjiandidexiaizheiyifengqutaiyangdenanhaier。mingyuezidayushangtayihou，richangshenghuoquanfashengbianhua，tacongciwuxuyigerenguangjiegouwu，taderichangshenghuoliyeyongyouyiwaijingxi，taganjuezhouhaobianshitapingdandeshenghuodeyidaotaiyang，tademeiyitiandoushihuiyouyuyoutaeryuelaiyuebuyiyang，tamingbaianweiziji，mingbaiguanzhuzishen，weizijishengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxi。

 danshi，hunyinshenghuozhiwaideqinggandaduoshubukekao，tazhiheshiyuanguan，liangrenyidankaodejinle，jiufeichangrongyichunanti，mingyueshizhenduizhouhaoxindongle，ganyuansheqizigedehunyinshenghuoquzhuiqiuzheiyiduanqinggan。

zhouhaoquezaizheishihouduitatidaolefenkai，fenshoudeyuanyinrangmingyuejuedehaoxiao：

“wojinguanduiniyouhaogan，keshiwojueduibuhuiquyigeerhunnvren，hekuangshiyigewaiyudeerhunnvren。”

 hezhouhaoduanlelianxi，mingyuexiangchimileyiban，taganjueziyiyeshixiaita，chixudejitamentongdianhua、faxinxi，yaoxianghuodetadehuifu，naizhiqueshilihunle，paoxialexiaohai，danshidianhuaneitouzhouhaozishizhizhongyemeiyoutiexindehuiying，naizhilengdandigentajiang：“jiarunizaifazheizhongwupin，dajialianhaopengyouyezuobukele，wodouhuibatajiaodaonidepengyou，rangtamenkankanninaxie。”

 mingyuecikecaidongdezishendewangbudiao，zhenduizhouhaoeryanbianshiyichangchaoxiao，hunyinshenghuoyiwaideganqing，yagenjiumeiyouzhenzhengdeaiqing，doumeiyoushiduoshaochenghuolv，liangrenzheiyishidetianmei，zhibuguotouhuilaidecijixing，yagenburongyiweichitaijiudeshijian。

lihunhou，mingyuehouhuile，tatanyanzishentaitianzhenle：

yichanghunwailianhuilewodehunyinshenghuo，shuobailezhenzhengdeaiqingquanshichaoxiao。

yiqianzaizhihushangyeyouguanyuzheiyihuatitaolundetantao：

“jiarujinimubiao，zhihouzaipengdaodiergedongxinderen，aiqingbaoweizhan？”

 henduorendoushitiaoxuandierge，yourenshuojiarunichongzuaiyigeren，neimejiubukenengyoudiergerenfasheng，danniyoumeiyouxiangguo，henyoukenengnidemubiaobinigengzaopengdaozheizhongdenanti，tamenhuoshitiaoxuanleni，shijishangyiqingbielianshiyizhongbennengfanying，zhongshishiyizhongtiaoxuan。guanyuyifangchuguilihungaizenmechuli？

 wulunshinanxinghuanshinvxing，zhenduihunneichuguideqinggan，mingbailijitingshoudecaisuanshilixingdetiaoxuan，yaolejiejiusuanshiqueshixiai，hunwailianyeshiyouwentideguanlian，zheiyeshiduijialihebanlvdejiqibuchengdan。

 ciwai，wulunshizaihunyinshenghuozhizhonghuoshitanlianaizhizhong，dajiadouyingdangweilezijideqingshenchengdan，bierangzishendehaobianchengtarenmiaoshizishendeyuanyin，jiranfenshou，doumeiyoubixuwanhui，gengmeiyoubixusipilailian，youqishizheileibenshenjiujianbukeguangdeqinggan，gengweimeiyoubixuwangshangtie。

 mingyuewangwanglaidaojinrizheiyibu，youyibufendeyuanguyezhuyaoshiyinweidangshizuichudeqingkuangxiajiumeiyouxuanduirenhui，jiarucongyikaishizishenxuanderenshiziyizhendeganxingqude，youweishenmehuiganjuerichangshenghuopingpingdandan？

 hunyinshenghuolimeiyouganqing，keshijiaruolingyifangduinihaibucuo，niyinggaidakaixinfeigentazengjinganqing，erbushi“hongxingchuqiang”，fouzedehua，zheihundangshiyebuyingdangjie。

jiehunleyouwaiyu，zheiyeshiduihunyinshenghuodebuchengdan，yeshiduizishendebuchengdan。guanyuyifangchuguilihungaizenmechuli？

 waiyu，zairenheshikequanshihunyinshenghuodedaodedixian。buxihuan，zhenchengbuxiaqunenggouliyi，renheshikedoubunengyongwaiyudefangfalaichuli。

aiqingbaoweizhanyoujuhuashuodehenheli：

 “quanbuzheixieyiqianpengranxindongdeyishunjian，zheixieyixiangbuguyiqiedebulizhi，zaishijianhesuiyuedemolianli，doushihuikanqilaihaiziqierhaoxiao。”

xianshishenghuozhong，shiduoshaoyouyujiehunhoupengdaosuoshuodezhenzhengdeaiqingeryulianrenjiejueliyi，zheiyangderenyeduobanhuihouhuimoji。

chuguidenvrenyouduoshaonenggai？qiebukemishifangxiang，buranhouhuimojiyewanle。