女人出轨后，还敢和自己丈夫“同房”吗？女人为什么会出轨

 bansuizheqianyizhenziribenwaiyudiyinanmingxingdezaiduwaiyushiqingpuchuhou，nvrenweishenmehuichugui？henduorendoubumouerhedechuxianneiyangdenanti：waiyuqueshiyouneimehaome？weihezheixiehunwaiqingrendoukongzhibuzhuzishen？bingqiexiangduiyuyixiezaiwaimianzaoyiyoumengxindeyihunnanreneryan，zhixumeiyouyouyuouranerbeifajue，tamenjiunengjiangzheiyiduanjianbukeguangdeganqingyanzangdefeichanghao，naizhifanhuijialiyekeyixiangpingchangyiyanghelaopotongchitongshui，fangfoshenmeyemeichuxianyiyang，biaocengshangyidianerdoukanbuchuyouyiqiedekuijiugan，neixinyefenhaodebujinghuang，zhenshibianshichubianbujingdedaxinzang。mengjianlaopogenshurenchuguizenmeban？

 jiranhunwaiqingrenzaiwaiyuhounenggoubaozhenghaowufajue，helaopogongchuyishidoubufahuangneijiu，neimanvshengni？chuguinvrenhaigantiaoxuanzaicihelaogong"xingfang"ma？

1.梁女性：老公出轨都能保证没什么心理负担，那麼我也可以

 nvrenweishenmehuichugui？liangnvxingbiaoming，zaizuikaishilianggerenhunyindeqingkuangxia，tayexiangbianchengyigeyouyidehaoqizi，zuihaoshinenggoushineileishangdetingtangxiadezhonglei，rangzishendezhangfuzaimainongshiyekeyibeiyoulianmian。danyejiushitaduiziyilaogongxiaohaidezheileititieruweideguanxinzhaogu，rangzhangfugengjiadetandewuyan，jiangziyidangzuoyigewoguazainie。taxiangbuqingchudeshi，weiheyixiechangchangzaijialifaweipokoudama，xianggemuhuyiyangdelaopo，fandaohainengchangchangzaoshouzishenlaogongdechongniheguanxin。

 erxiangtaneiyangyixinyiyidoushizaiweizheizhongjialitourudenvxing，zuihouhaitashanglebeichuguidelumian。zailejiezhangfuchuguihou，tadediyifanyingbingbingbushinaonuwubi，zhishijuedebuzhide，shenshendidejizijibuzhide。kanjianshuizaiziyishenpangchedimeiyouxinlifudandelaogong，tabianyaoxiangxunzhaoduifu，yexiangrangzishenlaogongjingchangtoushang"dailvmao"deweidao，yineryezaiwaimianzhaolegenansheng，zhujianyitiandaowansatuo。

 zhongjiushilaogongxianwaiyude，yinciyouxiaoxing，tachangchangzaihelaogong"tongfang"deqingkuangxia，bingmeiyousuoyoudekuijiugan，fandaohenshidangran，zhibuguoshitongchuangyimengeryi。

2.徐女性：外遇后的那一周内，我趁着度假旅游的为名住到亲戚家，为此掩盖自身惊慌的心里

 xuxiaojiedelaogongguishuyuchangjiandeshiyenansheng，yincinengshouhoutadeshijianfeichangshao，danweilegenghaoditianbuzheiyifenneijiu，tazaijiehunhourangxunvxingwuxuchumengongzuozhong，meiyigeyuedoushihuizhunshijitashenghuofeiyong，yincitadewuzhishenghuohuoshifeichangyouyide。danneiyangdepeichang，zhenduixunvxingeryan，duanqineineihainengtixuzishendelaogong，ershijianyizhang，bianyourenweizishenshifendegudu，xinliyizhibuzhudebushufu，baoyuanzhelaogongbukeyishichangshouhouzaishenbian，jiulianlibaitianyiqichiyidunfandedeshijianyemeiyou，yinerzaizheiyangdeqingxingxia，rangxuxiaojiedexinlingmanmanyuelaiyueminganbuji，yerangqitananshengyongyouchongjinlaidejiyu。

 gududenvrentongchangshizuifeichangrongyiwaiyude，youyutamengandaogudu，yincijiqiedeqidaishenghuozhongnengyouyigerenshouhou，jiusuanzheigerenbingbushilaogonghaikeyi。yinerxinlifenwaigududexunvxing，zuihouyeshimeibiezhutarulechuguidelumian。

 zaichuguizhihou，xunvxingbianzhujianyuelaiyuejinghuangzaodongbuan，tadanyouzheiyiduanjianbukeguangdeshierbeilaogongfajue，yedanyouyinerbeineigechuguinanrenweixie，jinguanjinjinyaoxiangjianqingneixindegudu，danzheizhongheyouyidewuzhitiaojianduibi，zhenshibuzhiyiti。yincikaolvdaozaisan，gerenxinlisuzhijiaoruodexunvxingbianhelaogongdawandianhua，duitashuozishenyaoheguimichumenlvyouyizhou，yinerzheiyizhoubuzaijia。

 shuochenglvyou，shijishangshixunvxingduodaoxiaohuobandejiali，zaineilizhuleyizhouxintaidiaozheng。zhidaojiangzheijianshiqingjianjiandixuehuifangxiahou，tacaitiaoxuanhuijiale，suihouzaicihezhangfurichangshenghuo，jiufangfoyiqianshenmeyemeichuxianyiyang，queshijinjinquwanleyici。

3.赵女性：外遇后装作发烧感冒，和丈夫分离睡了几晚

 zhaonvxinghezhangfuzhongjianchanshengzhengzhizaoyishiyijianhenpubiandeshier，bingqiehebiedenanshengbuyiyang，meiyicilianggerenchaowanjiayihou，quanshitadezhangfuzailengbaoli，yidingyaozhidaozhaonvxingjijidixiatouhongtacaikenchengrencuowu，kanshangqujiufangfonanrenhenvrenxuanzhuanleyiyang。

 yinciyeyouyuzhangqideqianrang，rangxinlinaonukucunjiyalehenjiudezhaonvxingzongsuanjinbuzhubaofachuqu，zaiyitianyelichenzhejiujingtouzuochulebulixingdegerenxingwei。mengjianlaopogenshurenchuguizenmeban？

 youyuyouyidingdebulizhixintaizailimian，yinerbaochiqingxingguohoudezhaonvxingfenwaihouhuimoji，jinguanhelaogongzhangqibuhe，danyebuhuiyidingyaozuochuzheileipanbiandeshierlai。yincizaizheijianshiqingchanshengyihou，tabianhaipahezhangfu"xingfang"，haipawanshangyigeyibuxiaoxinbianjiangzhixinhuajianglechuqu，bianzhinengchenzhefashaoganmaodeyuanyin，hetafenlishuilejiwan，yerangzishenhaohaodilizhiyifan。

 buhuitainanfajue，nvxingzaiwaiyuhoudegerenxinlisuzhi，binanrenyaochashangxuduo。henyoukenengyeyouyutamenyouyidabansixudoujilejiazhong，yinermeiyouhenhaodexinlijianshezuoweiwaiyu。yincixiangbijiaoyuhunyinchuguihoumeishenmeyiqiegaibiandenanshengeryan，keyishizhongbaochizhezheileiqiangjingxinlizhuangtaidenvshengshijishaode。

 yaobujiuhaosiliangnvxingyiyang，shiyouyulaogongxianwaiyu，tacainenggoumeishenmexinlifudandezaiwaimianzhaoqingren，yaobubianshigongzuohenyougongxiandenvshi。zhongjiunvhaizidejiatingzerenganyaobinanshengzhongxuduo，tamenbuyuanyishiyinweizishensuozuochudeguoshi，weihaidaoquanbujialidehemu，yinciwaiyudebiliyexuyaobinanshengxiaoshangxuduo。mengjianlaopogenshurenchuguizenmeban？

 bingqiezhenduihunwailianbeipuchudebuliangyingxiang，nvxingyeshiyaobinanshengbijiaoyanzhongxuduode。youyuyouyixienvhaizizaiyingduilaogongchuguiyuehuilianrendeqingkuangxia，youshihouweilebaobaoweilegenghaodijiazhongshinenggouliangjiede，naizhijiusuanlejielaogongzaiwaimianyongyoufeihunshengzinv，dangulvdaoyixiejingjifazhanhuaxuewuzhishangdenanti，tamendaduoshuhuoshixiangyaorenrang，neiyangdejutiqingkuangzaixianshishenghuozhongbingxuduojian。

 nvrenweishenmehuichugui？danjiaruhuanzuoshichuguinvrendehua，neimaruguoyoujiejin90%zhishangdelaogongdoushihuitiaoxuanwoyaolihun，youyuduitamenlaijiangzuizhongyaodejiushilianmianhezizun，yidanbeitiaozhandehua，neimabuguanlaopozenyangyaoqiu，quanshiyushiwubumeishenmewanliukongjiande。