妻子出轨，丈夫会选择原谅吗？妻子出轨可以原谅吗

 zairujinzheizhongshehuifazhan，waiyubuhuizaishishaxinxianhuatitaolunle。qizichuguikeyiyuanliangma？zaigongchushenjiudehunhoushenghuozhong，meiyouledangniandexinxianhereqing，henduorendouganjuewaimianderenyaobishenbianderenhaoxie，yineryidanmeiyoukongzhizhuzishenjiuchuguile。laopochuguidebiaoxianyounaxie？

 danshijishangzaihunyinshenghuozhong，dajiatangruobeizishendelianrenpanbian，lingyifangwaiyuzheileigerenxingwei，huiduizanmendeqingxudaozhihenyanzhongdesunhai，naizhizaochengyiduanhunyinguanxidewanbi，yigejiazhongdefensui。

 eryiyangyingduiwaiyu，ruguoshichuguinanren，dabufennvxingyexuhuixuanyongkuanrong，neimaruguoshinvrendehua，nanshengyouhuishishenmeyangdetiaoxuan？

xifuchugui，laogonghuixuanyongkuanrongma？

01.刘先生：不容易宽容

 qizichuguikeyiyuanliangma？woshizaiwanhundedisannian，chuxianyiwaifajuedexifuchuguile，zhujianwohaibuxiangxinzheigeshiqueshi，danquanbudezhijiezhengjudoushizaigaozhiwoxifuchuguile。

 womeixiangdaolaopogenlewozheixienianhuiwaiyu，yehengaobudonglaopozenmehuiwaiyu。zaiwotichuzhiyilaopodeqingkuangxia，laopotiaomingdirentonglezigedexingwei。

 tajiangwobuhuilejietabumingbaita，kewojuedegaobudong，neitaheshilejieguowo？tayemeiyouyichengxiangdaihewojiangguotaxinzhongdezhenzhengniantou，lijijiuchuguile，tabawodangshenme？

 yincikuanrongbutaikeneng，burongyikuanrongyezuobudaokuanrong。jibiantaheshiwangzangouleburongyiyouxiayici，yinweiwohuihetaliyi，youyuwoyanzhongwaiyuzhixulingciheyicici。tazaoyiwaiyuyicile，woshibuhuixintanengqueshigaile。

02.王先生：能够宽容

xifushizaiyuwowanhun18niandeqingkuangxiachuguile。

 tachangchangchulaiguangchangwu，yinciheyiqitiaowudenagenandefashengleqinggan。yihouliangrenchangchangsidixiayouhui。shijishangneinandeyeshiyoujiashideren，zhihoubeitaxifukandaole，taxifuzhaodaowomenjia。

 huozhiwoqizichuguideneiyike，woshifenchayiyoubeitong，chedibuxiaodegaizuoxienaxie，yishiyejinxingbudaozheiyikeguanshishi。neinandexifushuotazhixiangyaorangtazhangfuhuijiale，woxianglexiangyinweiwozhixiangyaorangwolaopohuijiale。

 womenjiehunlehenduonian，jinguanmeiyoulehuobaodeganqing，danzhongjiugongchuhenduonian、tonggangongku，zhenqingnonghou。wohexifutanlehaozhangshijian，tayegaoqingchuzishenbudui，tongyiwoyuneigerenyidaoliangduan。

 wocengyebuyuanyirangzheiyigejiazhongposan，zhongjiuwomenzaiyiqihuandufengchuiyudazheixienian。yinweiwozaoyixiguanyoutapeizhewoderizi，renwuyuanlv，shunengwucuoban，sheidouhuiyouzuocuoshideqingkuangxia，suoyiwokuanrongleta。

03.孙先生：不值宽容

 woyuwodelaoposhigaoxiaolejiede，neishihoutashenpangyouhenduoyixingpengyou，dandaozuizhong，tabianshixuanyonglezheiyikanshangqupingpingchangchangdewo。

 suoyiwoneishihoujiuzaixinzhonganzilishi，yidingbukeyikuidaitaduiwodesinian，buguanzenyangzishendoushihuifeijinxinsiyiqiebanfa，rangtaguoshanghaorizixingfudeshenghuo。laopochuguidebiaoxianyounaxie？

 yinciwomenjiehunlehou，woyizhiqinfenyangjiahukou。wogaosuta，woquleta，tabianshiwodelaopo，bingbuxuyaotachulaijianxingongzuo，zhixujiandaotameirizaijialiguodewenwendangdangde，shiwozuigaodeyuanwang。

 meiyouyuliaodaowolaiweizheiyijiapinleminggongzuozhong，shengengbanyehuoshilingchendoushizaiqiyehuibaogongzuo、tanmaimai，wodelaopoqueshenbeiwohaizaiwaibianyongyouqingren，bangwodailvmaozi，xiangyixiangjiurenweihenhanxin，suoyiwoneishihoumashanghetalihunle。

 danshimeiduojiutayouhuijiaqiuwole，tajiangtaxiaodebudui，tadeqingrenjinjinhetawanxia，zhiyouwozijishizhenxinshiyiaitade，tahaixiangdaijiuzaiwoshenbian。

 woxinlishijishangyoudianeryuxinheren，jinguanwolianglilehun，dantayejiushiwoshenaizheguodenvxing。shubuzhiwodelixingyougenwoshuo，wojianxinweizheiyijiatouru，huandedejiushitadepanbian，tashibuzhiwokuanrongde。laopochuguidebiaoxianyounaxie？

 shijishang，worenweinanshengduiziyinvxingdewaiyu，meiyouhaoduogenengbaozhengzhenxinshiyikuanrongde，youyunanshengdouyoudianerdananrenzhuyizhe，doushiyoujiqiangdegerenduzhanyu，zishendeduxiangwujiandoubeiqinfanle，weishenmehuikuanrongni？

 xuduobiaocengshuokuanrongdenansheng，yingdangneixinhuoshiyougehede，xifuchuguizheijianshiqingyizhihuibiancheng，nanshengwanbiyiduanhunyinshenghuodekongbudaohuoxian，huoxushashihoujiufashengbaozha，duibicidaozhihendadesunhai。

 qizichuguikeyiyuanliangma？yiner，nvxingzuihaoshihuanshibunengsuibianwaiyu，chengbuxiaqujiulijiliyi，neiyangduibicizhijiangengqiang。