精神上的出轨和身体上的劈腿，哪种更难接受？劈腿和出轨有什么区别

 pituihechuguiyoushenmequbie？jingshenshizhishangde”waiyu“heshenzishangde”chugui“，nayizhonggengnanjiena？zhangfubunengyuanliangchuguidewozenmeban？

 zairichangshenghuozhong，xuduoqingkuangxiahuichanshengdajiabuyuanyijiandaodeshier，hunyinshenghuojiranshirichangshenghuodeyibufen，dangranyeshiyiyang。waiyuzheigeshi，cunyoujingshenshizhiheshenzishangerzhongdingyi。

 youderenshuotamennanyirenshoujingshenshizhishangdewaiyu，youderenshuotamennanyirenshourentidechugui。shijishang，buguannayizhong，zaihunyinshenghuozhongpengdaodounanyilingrenjiena。douweifanleerrencengjingdeyueding。jiarushiwomendehua，erzhongdoubunengjiena。neima，duidabufenreneryanzhuangkuangzenmeni？

林茹：完婚10年，2021年35岁

 pituihechuguiyoushenmequbie？worenweizhenzhenzhengzhengdedezhenzhengdeaiqingjingshenshizhishangde，errentizhenduiwolaishuobingbuneimaguanjian。wobunengjienajingshenshizhishangdechugui。jiarurentichugui，nanshenghenyoukenengxiangxunzhaoyixiecijixinghuoyoushenglixuqiu，danzuishaoxinrengzaiwoshenshang。

 wohaipazishenzailaogongxinlidebuwei，zhixutaxinzhongyouwo，wonengyuanliangrenti“chugui”yiliangci。dousuomeiyoubutouhuandemao，nanshengdoushiyouwumisandao，zhixutamenhaixiaodenajiashizhenzhenzhengzhengdejiajiukeyile。rujinbingbushiyouhuashuo，yaoxiangrichangshenghuocouhe，toudingwubiyoudianerlvma？

雅杰：完婚18年，41岁

 wobunengjienarentidechugui。wowufaxiangxiangwodeairenhebiedenvxingshuizaiyiqihuichuxianduo“exinxiangtu”，jiarudeairenhebiedenvxingyiqishuijue，woyidinghuihetaliyi，youyumeiyicikandaota，wohaihaijidetayubiedenvxingjinglineizhongshi，jibianwomingbaitayiranaiwo，rentiwaiyuqueshihenexinxiangtu。jiarujingshenshizhichugui，zhixuwobushuo，dahuoerjiubukenenglejie。jingshenshizhishangdewaiyunanyijieding，jibiantazaoshouqitarendeyinyou，duitarenyouyixiexindong，danmeiyouxuanzelikaiyinci，woshihaikeyijinxingde。zhangfubunengyuanliangchuguidewozenmeban？

小燕子：完婚10年，38岁

 erzhequanshibunengjinxingde，chuguishichugui，jingshenshizhishangdewaiyuherentichuguiyiyangrangrenjuedeexinxiangtu。wokendingwufajieshouwodeairenduiwomenyousuoyoudechuguixingwei，youyiqiechugui。woduiaiqingyuhunyinyoujiepizheng，jiarutayao“touchi”，kaolvdaobiedenvxing，zhiyouliyi。nvshiyingdangrenshouling，youyujuedaduoshurenquanshitandewuyande。zhangfubunengyuanliangchuguidewozenmeban？

卢春：完婚20年，45岁

 woyijingwanhun20nianle，daowozheigenianling，qingganzaoyibuzhongyao，jibiantawaiyu，yinweiwozhiyoubishangyizhiyanjing。neimenianjidale，nandaoshuonenggouliyima？buhaiparenxiaopodupi？buguanzenyang，jiarudelaogongzaiwan，wozhishiqidaitabuxuwomingbai。jiarurangnilejie，woneixinbianhuiyouyihan，bulunshisixiangshanghuoshishenzishang，douyiyangzhishang。

 pituihechuguiyoushenmequbie？duihunwaiqingdekanfadaduoshudouhenguoduan，shijishangyouguanwaiyu，wulunshenmedifangfashengnanti，dounenggoutiaoxuankuanrong，dannimeiyingdangjilingyifangguoduojiyu，jiarulingyifangyibianyouyibian，neimejiuguoduanliqu。