梦见老婆出轨是什么意思？出轨的代价太大了，我后悔莫及

 chuguidedaijiataida，jiaruxiaohaizibianda，nihaishiwaiyu，neimaxiaohaizigenshei？mengjianlaopochuguishishenmeyisi？wuxuwendahuoeryidinglejie。lihunbulijia，youyuzenyangyingduinidenanren？zenyangyingduinidehaizi？chengbenxianeryijian，cihougudusuiyingzoudeshiguodumuqiao，kanjiantarenyijiasankoujianbingjianshineimehemu，nilei？dumubuchenglin。nvfangchuguiyaoshenmezhengju？nvrenchuguilenanrenyaozenmebanni？yaoruhechulicaihaoni？miaozugunianghuichuguima？

 xiabianqinglailaiyuanyujiangsushengnantongshidezhaonvxing，jiangxiataderenshengjingli，yijinghouhuimoji，qidaitaderenshengdaoluzhuanxingjidajiabaochijingti，xushuyixia。

我来自江苏省南通市的赵女性，我今年三十五岁，有一闺女2021年十岁了。

xianzaiwozaoyiliyijinianle，xiaogushiyaocongsannianqiantanqi：

 mengjianlaopochuguishishenmeyisi？neijiushiyigedongji，zhangfuneishikaiguoyijia“kongdiaoweixiujianxiumenmiandian”，congyekongdiaoweixiujianxiu。kongdiaoweixiudejiaohaodeshijianduanbianshixiaji。daidaoxiachuyoudianerredeqingkuangxiazuzhuangdekongdiaoxitongdehuojiuduoleqilai，juedaduoshuquanshilaogukexiangxijieshaodehuo。

 zhuangkongdiaozheileihuoyoushihenweixian，bixutebiezhuyideshidandaxixin，sulvyaokuai。anzhuangdeshumujuecelenidedaizi，yincixiajizhixuyouhuojiujie，youhuojiugan。yelideshijianjiushiweixiukongdiao，dabaitiananzhuangweizhudao，yelijianxiufuzhu。

yitiandaowanmangdelecibupi！

jinguanshijianzhangshifenjianxin，dankanzaiqiandefenshangwubifutangdaohuo。

 mangleyigexiatian，nijuedezhuanlepenmanboyingrenmeiyoufuhedeqingkuangxia。jindaoqiujizhihouhuozhujiandeshaole，neixiamianganshani？kaishitidianfeichangrongyi，shoudiangengnan。meirizhaochangshangbanxiabanle，meirijibendoushizheiban，danshizuozhedianneimeigongzuohaosizuolaofangbanjingdizhiwa。jiushizheiyangmeirishoudianyongyongliuliu，denghoushinanaode。

 qiujineixiamianbianshidongji。meirixiabanlehuijiachoumeibuzhanwokanlebushufu，wojiang：“zhangfuya，nibuyaozuozheifangmianla！nikaishitidianbuyihaixuyaojizujin，yinianchulaizhengbushangyixieqian，rujinganderenyulaiyuduo，chufeishiyoujiaodaderenjiguanxi，nineiyangganxialai，zuolelianggejijieyoulianggejijiebumang，nijuederuhexingni？kanzhenibushufuyinweiwobushufu，nidangshixuegejishuxingjindaogongsizheiduohaoa？neiyangkaishitidianshidenghuolaia！”

 “nijuededemeiyoucuo，yinweiwolejie，neiyaowozenmebanni？xianzaiyouzheimedanianlingle，womingbailejishuxingneiwojiaoshenme？nigaosuwo？”

 woshitawenlemeiyouhuashuole，danwoyixiangxunwendao：“nishijiazhongdezhuxingu，niyigedalaoyemenzhuanqianyangjiahukoushilisuodangrandeshi，ruhezhuanqianneimenizishendexiangbanfaya？yaowoyigenvrenjinichuxiangfa，nishizenmexiangde。”

 “ruhexiangdejiushizheiyangxiangde，mangdeqingkuangxianiyijuhuabuyongshuo，rujinbumangleyitiandaowandeshuo，nishichengxinzhaomafanduiba？feichanghao，kaishitidianburongyishoudiangengburongyizheisheidoulejie，mangleyigexiatianyeyaowomanmanya？nijiangwodangniulaya？”

youshiganjuetashuodaodehuayoudianerdadaoli，keshiwobiankanbushunyanmeirihenxiandeqingkuangxiayitiandaowandechoumeikuliande。

 “neimeniyitiandaowandedaizaidiannei，huijiajiuchoumeibuzhan，choumeikuliande，womingbainizaixiangshenme，keshinibuyaomeirizheiyangzi，nirucizuojisheikanya！？nidekunnanzongyaoxiangbanfa，erbushiyitiandaowandechoumeikuliande。zheiyeshizishenqingkuangle，zishendexiangqingxidangchuniweishenmefeidekaishitidian？xiangyixiangzanmendejingyu，yaojizujinhaixuyaojimendianfangzuzishenhaixuyaoyinshiqiju，cheliangyexuyaohuafei，neishengyulaiyeyoushiduoshao？”

“niyaowozenmebanni？yinweiwozaixiang，gaobudongfangfa？”

 zhihoumeirigenwochao，kanbushunyanwo，wobenshenxiangjitamentigetiyi：neihenxiande2geshijieninengxiangbanfazuoxieqitanaxie？nenggouzuodianxiaoshengyi，nenggoubangzhubierenzuodianshenme？zongbukeyizuodabannianxiedabannianba？meirishouzhedianshishenmea？

 wojiangdeyeshishuoshihua，tabuting，tashuodao：“ninyoubenlingnilaizuoya？dangshizuowodexinniangganshani？rujinzhidaowobianzheimedadekenai，nihaoziweizhiba，genwoguodekuguodebuxingfukuaileneimeninenggouxuanzelikaiya！kanbudao，xinbufan。”

yitingzheijuhuawobianlaiqi，zishenmeichuxihaiganjueyanzhiyoulile，meigongzuoquzhaogongzuoya？meitianzaijialidaizheganshani？

woyifahuowobianchulaijianzhile，xiaohaiyebuguanle，chulaihaisuiyi。

 buyuanmeirikanjianzhangfuneiyangmeiyouwangshangdexinlizhuangtai，moshouchengui，yiyidailao。zheileisixiangbingbuduide。yeyoudabanniannizongshiyaoxiangbanfaya？

yingduirichangshenghuobuhelidangshicaimiyanyou，yeyougelingyudekaizhiya？richangshenghuomeiyouzheimejiandan。

 yinweiwodeqinglvwochuqule，zhangfudexingziyebiandeyuelaiyueda，shuonichuqulejiubuyaohuijiale，xiaohaiyebuguanleruhedangniangde。

干脆我不回家了。

yichulaibianshihenduoyue，yemeihuijiale。tadoumeiyouyigedianhuabangwo，zheiyeyaowochedisixin。

 yinweizhangshijiandeyayiganqingxufantou，fanmendehen，jiuzaicikeyiweiyixingpengyouzourulewodexinli：guanxintitie，titieruwei，rouqingmiyi，nannanxiyu，gezhonggeyangfengkuanggouwu，yaowoxingfenshifenganjuewohaizairenshengdaoludiguqiqingkuangxiayouyushangleyigeaiwodenanren。

cihouquanshenxindeaita，yixinyiyiduitadehao，jiazaoyimeiyouneimazhuyaole。

 zhangqixingzaiwaimian，lianggerenzhujiandegoutongyeshaole，qingganhuaweiwuyou，dabufenshiwuxingdehunyinle，haixingwoyushangleta，yerangwomenzaicitianranqileduiaideqipan，cihouaideshensui，aidesixintadi，aidezheibanbuzhangyangguzhi。

aideyuezhongshangdeyuezhong，shangdebiantilinshangdehuoshinvxing。wotoufanglesuoyoudeganqing，bahoubanshengyejiyuzaitadedeshenshang。

 zhihoutadeshierbailu，laopoxiangyaohetaliyi，dantaguoduandewuqinghewozhongguidaojiazhongdangzhong。nvfangchuguiyaoshenmezhengju？nvrenchuguilenanrenyaozenmebanni？yaoruhechulicaihaoni？miaozugunianghuichuguima？

wochengshenmele？naxieyemeihuode？

 zhangfuyexiangfatingtiqisusong，xunsupanjuejiuchulaile：youyurenmenzaoyifenlidabannianduoshijian，meiyouganqinglaijiang，meiyoufuqixingshenghuo，zheijigejiukeyipanduanlilehun。

xiaohaiguita，wolihunbulijia。

zhuihuimojiya！chengbentaida，houhuimojiganletarendelianren，houhuimojizishenneimazijintouru。kezishenwunengweili。

 mengjianlaopochuguishishenmeyisi？jiazhongjiuhaosiyiguozhou，yifangwaiyuneiquanbujiazhongjiubukeqishen，weihaijiazhong，weihailexiaohaiyibeizi，yehailezishen，xiangzaiduxunzhaokuailenanyinanyi，youyuerhunyouhenduodeduoyuanxingheqianchebuqing。jianbuduanlihailuan，lihailuan。