女人“偷吃”以后会及时收手吗？梦见自己出轨了是什么意思

 nijuedeyiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，jinyounanxingcaihuiaishangyoufuzhifuma？mengjiannvyouchuguizenmeban？shijishangyoushi，nvrenbinanshenggenghuiyinzangziji。bingqieyidan“toushi”guoyiciyihou，jiuyufayifabukeshoushi。mengjianzijichuguileshishenmeyisi？nvrenchuguilenanrenyaoruhezuocaihaoni？zenmezuocaishizhengquedeni？zenyangduifuchuguidenvren？

来源于王女士的自述：

 woxingchen，2021nian45sui，xianjieduanshiyimingjiatingzhufu。zhangfushikaidianzuoshengyide，yiniannengzhuangebaibashiwan。taquandouhao，danbianshibuanshishi，shiyigechetoucheweidenvqiangren。yitian24zhongtou，chukaiwanshangshuijuede6gezhongtouzhiwai，tadouzhixiaodegongzuozhong。

 woliangshishangxuedeqingkuangxiajiulejiede，neigeshihoudajiadouhainianqing，zhenduiganqingdelijieshiruoyinruoxiande。dangshidoumeiyouxianrujinneimefanhuashijie，dajiazhenduiganqingdelejiequeshihendanchunxing。

 mengjiannvyouchuguizenmeban？danshiyouyushijiandebianhua，dajiazhenduiaiqingzheijianshiqingdeyijianjiuduoleqilai，naizhizairichangshenghuozhonggezhonggeyangfudandejiyaxia，wozhenduiganqingzishenzaoyikantoulexuduo，naizhikeyishuozaoyifamale。

完婚前后左右的念头

 wanhunyiqian，woxiangxiangzhezishenzhihouyidinghuiyouyujiajilezheigenanrenerjuedexingfukuaile。wocengxiangguozhihouwomenderichangshenghuoshichongchizhereqinghelangmande。youyuwohenaini，yinciwocongweixiangguoziyirihouhuizuochunaxieduibuzhutadeshier。

 keshishizeshi，wanhunyiqianwoxiangxiangdeyouduomedetianmeixingfukuaile，jiehunhouderichangshenghuojiuyouduomedekuzaofawei。naizhihelaogongzhongjiandeyingxiangyeyulaiyupingpingdandan，zaimoshengrenyanqianwomendoushifufu，kezaijialideqingkuangxia，wogengganjuedajiahaoxiangpenyou。

 zheiyibanyejiushiwozhihoutiaoxuanpanbianta，zaiwaimiantoushideshouyaoyinsuba。zhongjiu，zhangfuzairichangshenghuozhongbangwode，jinyouqiancai。

我为什么会叛变丈夫的首要缘故

 shijishangwolaogonggelingyudouhaibucuo，shiyigeyouqixiangshoushenghuo，gongzuofangmianjindenansheng。kebianshiyouyidianbutaihao，taihuochuqu！

 wanhunyiqiantazaigongzuoshangjiuyouqipin，zhenduigongzuofangmiandeshieryouqijinzhijinze。zhihouzheiyijianzuomaimaizhihou，yeshimeiridoubahuolitoujindaogongzuoshang。

 dangshiwowangwanghetawanhun，yeshikanzhonglezheiyidian。worenweijiajileneiyangyigenanren，zhihoutayidingburongyiyaowochikunailao。danshijiehunyihou.wofajue，jiajileneiyangdenansheng，caisuanshiqueshiku。

 youyutameirijiulejiegongzuozhong！gongzuozhong！gongzuozhong！jibenshangchukaigongzuozhong，tameiyouguoduodeshijianpeizhewo。yikaishideqingkuangxia，womingbaitashixiangduozhengdianqian，weilegenghaodibangwoxingfudeshenghuo。danshijianjiandi，wobianganjueneiyangderizishiyizhongnanao。

 chukaigonggongpopoxinjihuaihaizideneiyiduanshijian，tapingchangfeichangshaogenwopapa。meitianzaoshangchiguozaofanzhihoubianqudianneile，eryelihuijiayouyouqi，huijiazhihouwojijigentapapa，taqueyibalakaiwojiangtafeichanglei，yaowotingzhiyihuier，suihouzishendaochuangjiushui。

 yihoudajiazairichangshenghuozhongdegoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuedi，shiwoxiangguogentayiqiqudiannei，xiangbanfatishengyixiebicizhijiandeyouhaodu。ketajiushuowoshenmedoubudong，haishuoyaowoguanlifangfahexiejiatinghouqinguanlijiukeyile，waibiandeshieryoutalaichengdan。

 tarendouyanxianwoyouyigerenhedongxidoubuxuwoqugan，zhiyaowozaijialidaizhedianqiandehaozhangfu。kezijiquezaixiang，neiyangdezhangfuyagenbingbushiwoxuyaode。

 xiwangtakeyigenggaiyixiazishenzhenduigongzuozhongdexintai，yuwoduoyixiegoutongjiaoliu，ketajiushuowoshizaimanbujiangli。woyaodeshitadeshouhou，ketaqueganjuenanshengjiuyingdangyangjiahukou。

之后我遇上了他

 wanhunyiqiantatongyiguowo，zhihoumeiyinianhuipeizhewoyiqichuqulvyouyici，kexianzaiwozaoyixiangbuqilai，zhiqianwomenyiqichuqulvyouderizile。

 chukaigangwanhundeneijinian，houbianmeiyiniandoujinjinzijiduziyirenyigerenqulvxing，womeiyiciguidingzhangfupeizhewoyiqiqu，zhangfudoushuotazaimang，shuowohaizaiwaibianzishenwangaoxingjiuhao，yiqikaixiaotazheilichu。

 yinciwojiujiujianjiandixiguanyigerenwaichuyouwanle，jinjinzhihouyouyicidujialvyoudehuanjiezhong，wobujingyizhonglejieleneiyigebangwochanshengreqingyurexuedenansheng。

 taxingzhang，biwolebuqiduoshaosui。neiyicizhendeshibujingyixiangfeng，haikeyishuochengyunshidexiangfeng。neishihoudajiazhibuguozaitongyigelvyoutuanjiebanerxingdelvyou。dajiayikaishiyemeiruhechupeng，jinjinzhihouzaiyicilvyousheanpaideyouxilimian，dajiaqiahaogouchengleyiduibale。

 taneishihoucunzheyixiaochahuxu，youqideshenshi。womenzaidayouxidehuanjiezhong，youyixieqinmiwujiandexingwei。neishihouwoxindoushizaizhizhiluantiao。youyukaizhanyouxishi，dajiabicizhijiandouyouhaogan，yincijiuxianghuzhijianliuyoulelianxidianhua。

 zhihouzaiyutadechupengzhong，fajuedajiajuranshizaitongyigedachengshide。bingqietamenjialiwojiameiduoyuan，yihoumeiyicidujialvyoushi，dajiadoushihuijiebanerxing。youjihui，tahaihuijixubangwotiqianzhunbeiyixiexiaolipin，xiaojingxi。eryinweiwoduitadezheizhongxiaohuayang，juedeyouyixiedongxin。

 zhihouyouyicidujialvyoudehuanjiezhong，tahuranxiangwogaobai，erwobuzhidaoneishihouzenmela，zhenduitadegaobaiquebingmeiyouzuochuhuijue，bingqiejiuzaineitianwanshang，womenzaiyiqile。

大家变成了恋人

 neiyicizhihou，dajiayifayifabukeshoushi。womingbaizishenshiyigeyouhunyinshenghuodenvxing，neimezuodoubuduide。kewoshikongzhibuzhuzigedechongdong。

 wojingchangbeizhelaogongqulianrenjiazhongtouqing，neiyangdeyingxiangyizhiweichidaorujin。zheimeduonianwobingbushimeiyouxiangguohezhangfuliyi，hefakerzaiyiqi。danshifakerzhongjiushiyigelilehundenansheng，bingqietadoumeiyouhaodegongzuo。genwolaogongbiqilai，tachaleguoduo，wolaogongjinguanbuanshishi，danshibiedelingyuquedoutebiechuse。

 womingbaineimezuobudui，yemingbaizheileiguanlianhaowuyiwenbaochibushanghenjiu，yeshifendanxinbeilaogonglejie。youshihouyehuiyuanyihefakerduanjueguanxi，zaicizhongguizigederichangshenghuo。

 danshizheizhongjuedeshangqudeqingkuangxia，jiuhaoxiangkafeijianyiyangfeichangrongyishirenchengyin。rujinyinweiwogubushangneimeduole，zhixiangyaobahefakerdezheixieguanlianzangdezaishenyixie。zouyibusuanyibu，nengzangduozhangshijianjiuzangduozhangshijianba。jiaruwolaogongnengzairichangshenghuozhongduoaiwoyidian，woqueshiburongyizuochubaoqiantadeshier，meiyoucuo，yiqiedoushitadecuo！mengjianzijichuguileshishenmeyisi？nvrenchuguilenanrenyaoruhezuocaihaoni？zenmezuocaishizhengquedeni？zenyangduifuchuguidenvren？

从王女士自述的剧情中，我们可以看得出，王女士实际上或是一个较为保持清醒的女性。她清晰自个愿意的是啥，只不过便是期盼获得一个男人对她的那些温婉。

 tabingmeiyouyouyuneileiyouqudejuedeshangbian，buwenbuwenjiuxuanyongheneigerenzaiyiqirichangshenghuo，zhishijianchibuxiezhiyutarenweichihunwaiqingren。zailianrenyuzhangfuzhongjian，keyiqingxidipouxichulianggerenzhongjiandeliyubi。

 danshizheileiguanlianzhongguiyezhinengshilinshide，hunwailianzheileishier，wulunshinanshenghuanshinvxing，buwaihubianshiyaoxiangshizheyixiajingshenshizhishangdecijixing。zhangqixialai，zhongguishizhibaobuzhuhuode。zhiqidaiwangnvshikeyilijijuewu，jiuxianzaishierhaibushimingxiandeqingkuangxiazaicihuidaojiazhong。

mengjiannvyouchuguizenmeban？zuizhongwoquanjiexiaohuobanmenyiju，bubifangxiaowangnvshi。zheileishier，zhongguibushiduide。