发现妻子出轨以后，丈夫应该怎么处理？发现老婆出轨该怎么办

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1.面对现实，理智应对，不传扬不对付

zuixian，zaiyingduixifuchuguizheiyijianshiershang，yidannifajueshiyishizhen，nizuixianyingzuodebingbushixiangxifuzhengshi，zhishijienazheiyikeguanshishi，huifuzigedeqingxu。faxianlaopochuguigaizenmeban？suhuashuodehao，jiachoubukewaiyang，youkuyounaozhinengjiajutarenkanrenaodexinlizhuangtai，bingqiefuqijian，yiyanbuheyefeichangrongyizhengchao，naizhihuinongshang，neishihouyouyujiatingbaolierjiangzishensongzhigonganju，yeyinxiaoshida。

2.细心考虑到，剖析缘故

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3.拷問心里，慎重决策

laopozaoyiwaiyu，neimaduiyushibushichuochuantadexianjuetiaojianbianshi，nihaishixiangbuxiangbaochiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。hunyinshenghuoshi2gejiazhongdeshi，jiarunimenyouernv，zuixianyaokaolvdaoernvdejianglai，jiarushejixuduoqiancaihuoshibiededeenyuan，yexuyaoxianxiangmingbainiliyiyaoxiangshixiandemudi。

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wulunnimenzhongjiandejieguoruhe，zaichajuezijiqizichuguideqingkuangxia，zuoweinansheng，yidingyaogaohaoshizudetiqianzhunbei。tawaiyu，yidingjiushinizaishijianshangjiyubushangtashouhou，zaiqingxushang，tameiyoujuededaoguishuganle，huoshishitadanchunxingshiyinweiduifu。dankaigongnanyouhuiguotoujian，qinggandequcong，zuizhongyaodehuoshiyigenanrenshibushirangnvxingxinlaita，xiangyaojiangzishendexiabanshengjiaodaota，jiarutachuguile，niyidingyaojianxin，zaitabaoqiannimenlianaidemouyigeyuangu，yidingyoulenizuikaishiweifanlefuwuchengnuo。

faxianlaopochuguigaizenmeban？yirifufubairien，jiaruliqu，neimajiuduitajianjueyidian；jiarutiaoxuanzhongxinzailai，neimabaoronghehuoda，kendinghuijiushinirujinzuihaoshidexinlijianshezhiyi。rendeqingganquanshihuxiangde，xiangxinnidegenggai，tayehuikanzaiyanzhong，jizaixinzhongde。