女生梦到自己出轨了怎么办？挽回还是经营婚姻要怎么做呢

renshengdaoludexingfujiushigegefangmiande，hunyinshenghuoyudaolepanbian，nvrenzuomengmengdaozijichuguishishenmeyuzhao？bingbudengyuniderenshengdaolujiumeiyoulexingfukuaile。nvshengmengdaozijichuguilezenmeban？

huoxuhunyinshenghuorangnitigongdexingfujiushiyizhongchenjinshitiyandetihui，shirenshengdaolulidegaoguangshike，danqishizheileixingfukuailefeichangrongyibeishouzou。

dajiajingchanglingwudaomouyishishikekefeichangxingfu，yincidajiarenweixingfujiushiyizhongqingkuang，yizhongtihui，danzhunquedieryan，xingfujiushiyizhonggongzuonengli。

jinyoudajiaxuehuilezheileigongzuonengli，caikeyishouweizhudajiayaoxiangdexingfukuaile。

nvrenzuomengmengdaozijichuguishishenmeyuzhao？womingbaiyijingkanbenwendeni，huoxuzhenglijingzheqinggandaolushangneiyangzheiyangdeburuyi，yincirujingenpengyoumentanxingfukuaile，dahuoeryexuganjuejiuhaoxiangzaishuizhonglaoyue。

queshi，lijingpanbianhuirangrendaoyishizhijianqueshixiwang，queshixingfukuailedetihui，naizhiyouyixiezimeihenyoukenenglianzixinxindoushizaihuozhilingyifanghunhouchuguideneiyikeshiqu。

yincidahuoerhuoxuhuiganjuerujingennimentanxingfukuailehaitaimanzhang，cike，nimenbixudeshitingguozheiyiduannanshoudesuiyue。

danshijishangnizaixiangyixiang，wogennishuoxingfukuaile，shuozenyangyouzhexingfukuailedegongzuonengli，buyeshizaijiaonizenmeduguozheiyiduannanshoudejieduanma？

bajiejuewentidiao，batongchuxianjiediao，bujiumairulexingfukuaile？

一、学习培训怎样处理问题的工作能力

baxianzaidetongchuchulidiao，nixuyaogaoqingchuweihetadehunhouchuguihuilingnineiyangtongchu，jiqiquelitachuguinidexinlidongyin。

niweishenmetongchu，yuanguwuwaihujiusange：

1、shouhairendexinlizhuangtaizaochengnimeifabaituoduitazaishehuidaodefangmiandekonggao，qushenrufenxitachuguidexinlizhuangtaituidongli，fandaoshenxianlefenqixinlizhuangtai，yimianjianghunhouchuguidebuzhengqueguizuijilenansheng，yimianyoujiangzishenfangzhishouhaizhebuwei，bingshenshouqihai。。

2、tachuguidezhenxiangshinizaodaolemingxiandexinliyinying，zaizheiliduanqingganli，nishiquguishugan，erqiebingbuxiangguoquneibanxinlaita。

 3、beipanbiandaibiaozhenimendelihunzaoyiyaoyaoyuzhui，daibiaozhenihenkenenghuisangshita，daibiaozhetahenkenengbuzjiushinidezhuxingu，zheishinitihuidaosangshitadejiaolv，youyuqianqueduldegongzuonengli，nihaoxiangtihuidaomoridelailin。

ertazenmehuihunhouchugui？

meiyouyigenanrenhuimomingqimiaocuihuizishendehunyinshenghuo，hunhouchuguishiyouyuanyoude，bingbushiyouyutaxuyaodewufadedaobianshiyouyutabenshendikyinyoudezikongnenglibuzuqda。

yinci，hunhouchuguizheijianshiqing，wulunzenyangshuo，bukeyijiandandipandingweiyifangdenanti，ninengshizhehuanyigeshijiaoqupouxibicizhijiandiguoshi，fangzhiyiweidibashehuidaodezheidingzheyangmaowangtatoudingkou，gengbubcaiyizishen。

jiaruninenglizhidipouxitachuguinideyuangu，nixinlibeitongdeyuangu，neimanidenanshouhuijiandiaoyidaban。

xuehaokeguandifenxiwenti，shijiejuekunnandegenbensuozai。

dajiadeyishengzongshihuilijingjihuijiannanxianzu，weilegenghaodibubeicuozdajin，dajiabixuzaimeiyicicuozzhong，genjupouxihexiqujingyan，xuehaofangzhizaiyicifancuowuhechuliwentidegongzuonengli。

二、学好见好就收

是的，他叛变了你。

zheizaoyishiwufwanliudekeguanshishi，neimazheishihounikeyiganshenmeni？

nimeifachuanyuedaoyiwangzulantadehunhouchugui，yebunengzaitaaishangyoufuzhifuhoudangneijianshierbingmeiyouchansheng，keshikeyizaishierdouhaimeiebiandaowufawanhuidechengduqianlijicaizhuchachetaban。

zaicaizhuchachetabanqiannixuyaozuoyigetiaoxuan，shiliyihuoshibuliyi。

ruguobuliyi，neijiuxuyaoduiyunimengongchuzhongcunzaiwentilijizuochugenggai，hetayuechuqutanyitan，batahunhouchuguizheijianshiqingdailainideweihai，dailaihunyinshenghuo，xiaohaideweihairenzhendifenxiyifan，duitashuo，ruguobuqidaibicizhijianyuelaiyuegengzaogao，zzhongmaixiangyipailiangsandejushi，neishuangfangdoubixugaiyigai。

jiaruxianglihun，neijiuxuyaoquebaohaozishendequanyi，erqiejizijidezhengtiguihuayitiaokandeqing、haisuankailangdelu。jiusuanbuyuanliyi，dajiabenshenyingdanggaizhengdenanti，huoshidegaizheng，zheiyeshiweinizishen，bingbushiyinweitaren。

xuehaojianhaojiushou，nenggoushiyizhongzhengquerenshixingshidekeguanguanlijuece，danwogengjuede，zheiyeshiyizhongshengcunnengli，rutongyangzhangbiduanshizanmendeshengcunbenneng。

三、学习培训或提s自我价值

aiqingshiyizhonggongzuonengli，dajiameiyigerendeyishenglaijiuhuiyou，jinjinyoushiwomenbumingbairuhequyingyongzheileigongzuonengli。

dajiamingbaiduiqinren、penyoubiaoshuguanzhu，keshiquebumingbaizenyangdongxiangairenbiaoshuguanzhuheqingyi。

这是为什么呢？

huoxushiyouyunimenzhongjiandeguanliancunyoujiedi，yixienandiaoheerqieleijiyijiudefenqibanimenyiqianjileichulaideqinggandongjiele，yincinimenzhujianyuelaiyueshuyuan，yuelaiyuebudangbiaoshu，yuelaiyueshengseershengshu；

huoxushiyouyuzainimendejiaowangzhongmeiyouzaochengyizhongtonglixin，youyuqianquehuxiangdezhangwo，yincinimenmeifalejiebicizhijian，meifaduilingyifangdezaoshou、qingxushenyoutihui，meifalizaibierendeshijiaoduidaishier，meifajiyulingyifangtayaoxiangdeai。nvshengmengdaozijichuguilezenmeban？

huoxujiushiniyouxiaodaodajieshouheganshoudaoderenyurenxiangchudefangfameifashiyonghunyinshenghuozhong。niyaoxiangjitamendebushitasuoyuanyide；

huoxushidajiaxiguanshenai，beiguanzhu，danqueshenshaoduibierenbiaoshuguanzhu，yinerqianquelezheileibiaoshuziwojiazhi。

aiqingshiyizhonggongzuonengli，bulunshisheidounenggoutongguoxuexilaidedaohuoshitiszheileigongzuonengli。

有四个提议：

1、shandaiziji，guanxinzishendetihui，xuehaodiaojiezishendexintai；

2、baozhengtonglixin，bubilizaizishendeshijiaoqukaoliangbieren，zhishichangshiqulingtinglingyifang，tihuitarendexintai，yongyizhonggongping、rouhedexintaizuochuhuifu；

3、duowenyiwenlingyifangyaoxiangnaxie，zaizishendeshilifanchounei，jitamentaxuyaode，erbushizishenxiangjide；nvshengmengdaozijichuguilezenmeban？

4、genjuyixieganqing、liangxinglingyudezhuanyezhishilaifengfuduocaizigedezhuanyezhishichuzangliang，zheihuishinideluojisiweinengligengqiang，jinquxingengguang，gengkeyigenjuluojiziqiadefangfalaishizishenduiyixiezishenmeifazhangwodeshierbaozhengxuehuifangxia，bingzhengquelijiebieren。

zairenmendeyishengshihuihehenduorenxiangchu，xuehaobiaoshushiyimenbixuquxuexidekecheng，youqzaihunyinguanxizhong，xuehaoqingchu、quelidibiaodaaiyi，biaoshuyaoqiu，nenggouqiadaohaocdibuduantuidongqinggandekuaisufazhanhetisheng。

nvrenzuomengmengdaozijichuguishishenmeyuzhao？henduorenjingchangzaizaoshoubeijuhouhuoyuantianyouren，huopoguanposhuai，shidudeqingxuxuanxieziranshibixude，danzaogaodeshibeifumianqingxusuokongzhi，biandazhuduofumianqingxu，bazijitunmei。yincidajiabixuquxuexizhishangchangshuodezheisanzhonggongzuonengli，fangzhirangzishenbeikun、lunluoyucuozdangzhong。