为什么女人出轨后，再想回头就很难？出轨后复合还会幸福吗

aishangyoufuzhifuzheileishier，bingbingbushiyigenanrendezhuanliquan，chuguihoufuhehaihuixingfuma？zaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiarulaogongduilaopoqianqueguanhuaizhaoliao，huizhishinvxingyouhunwaiqingdeniantou。mengjiannvpengyouchuguishishenmeyuzhao？

“我跟老公完婚13年，一个人在家带娃，他在外面养家糊口。我明白他的艰辛，日常日常生活，他对我跟小孩的守候，害怕奢望过多。

gangwanhundeqianliangnian，tachumengongzuozhong，meiridoushihuidagedianhualejiewoyuxiaohaidexianshizhuangkuang，zaixianshijianbingbujiu，dankeyikandechulaitaduiwogenxiaohaideguanzhu。

zuijinjinian，tazhiguanxinyuzishendegongzuozhong，feichangshaoguanxindaowo。jiuliandajiashengertai，tayeshichoushijianhuijiayixiagenwoxiangxiaohai，tadezheixiegerenxingwei，rangworenweiwoshigeshenghaizishebei。

 chuguihoufuhehaihuixingfuma？wogentachaojiahaoshucijia，woshitahuijiafazhanqushi，youqianqianshaobuguanjian，zuishaoyijiasikoukeyizaiyiqirichangshenghuo，tabutongyi，shuowofurenzhijian，meiyouqiannanaxiezhonghuoyijiazi？

bawotaduidewuyanyidui，suoxingbishangzui。

感情上的缺口，我期待可以有些人了解我。我还在周边的朋友上结识了一个男人，一开始就仅仅打发时间闲谈，他对我们的关注，要我逐渐深陷在其中。他约我碰面，我居然很希望，把两个孩子安装好，穿着打扮得十分精美地跟他见面。

takanqilaihenkushuai，wobuganzhushitadeshuangyan，zhixusimuxiangdui，wobianjuedelianfatang，henxiuse。chupengjihuihou，tayiqiqutazhudediqu，wojuranmeihuijue，zaiyihou，dajiafashenglebuyinggaichanshengdeshier。

‘haoshibuchumen，cuoshichuanwanli’，zheijianshiqingxunsubeilaogonglejiele。tajidecongwaishenghuijia，yaodaneigeren，lingyifangyikanqushibutaidui，paole。

wozheicaiyishidaoyijianshideyanzhonghouguo，kuzhegenwolaogongqiuyuanliang。tajideyaoxiangdawo，shouyangshanglaijihui，meiyouluoxialai，zuizhong，jideshanziyibazhang。wofeichangdekuijiu，zhiyoubuduandezhiqian，laishitajieqi。

zhihoulaogongbawaibiandegongzuozhongcile，huijialezhaoleyigedianmian，yongzheimeduoniandecunkuan，ganleyixiexiaomaimai。tazuilishuoqingyuanliangwo，richangshenghuoquebuzailiwo，yebuhuizaigenwoxingfang。

那一天，他去一个朋友家吃宴席，回家的过程中喝得醉醺醺，送他的人一走，他就逐渐耍酒疯，说我对不住他，瞧不起他，给他们戴绿帽，使他丢脸……讲完，他失声痛哭。

tabawojiangdelianhongerchi，xiangzhaogefengxizuanru，taku，yinweiwogensuiku，wobuzhidaogaishuoxienaxie。xianrujin，tongzhuyigewuyan，liangrenjiaowangfeichangganga，wulunwoshuoshenmeganshenme，taduiwomendekanfadouhenlengdan。

wotexiangwomendehunyinfanhuiyuanxian，kewoyougaizenyangzuo，caikeyishitaxuehuifangxiagehe，zaicijieshouwoya？”

咨询顾问觉得：

zaijuedabufenrenderenshili，aishangyoufuzhifuzheijianshiqing，nanhaihenvhaishiyouqita。chuguinanren，zhixutazhenchengchengrencuowu，zhongguijiazhong，nvrenshihuitiaoxuanjiwangbujiu，yuanliang。erchuguinvrenjiubuyiyangle，nanyibeikuanrong，daozuizhonglaidaoliyidechengdu。

ziran，chuguinvrendejieguo，bingmeiyoujinyouliyi，shijizhong，yeshiyouchuguinvrenbeikuanrongde。jinjindabufennanshengkuanronghou，kandainvxingdexintai，rangtamenzhuomobutou，shenganbenkui。

rutongzheimingnvyueduzhe，waidiliangdifenju，ganqingshangdequekou，tashezulehunwailian，lejiedaozishendewentihou，tabuduantianbu，qidaikeyihuodelaogongdekuanrong，laogongdexinlijinglileyifanzhengtuo，tiaoxuanyuanliang，danquejingshenshijiebuduandiroulinta，rangtakanbujianhunyinshenghuoyihoudeqidai，tabumingbaizheishiweishenme？

congshijianshijiaoshangpouxi，guoqu，nanshengnenggouyifuduoqizhi，yizhiyunanhaihenvhaiminzhuziyouzhihou，dabufenrenjuede，chuguinanrenshipindenanti，douquantazhongguijiazhong。erchuguinvrenzehuibeidingzaichiruzhushang，nanyihuodekuanrong，jiusuanshinvxingchengrencuowule，yaoxiangzhongguijiazhong，nanshengduitawaiyudegerenxingwei，dabufenchuzailingrongren。mengjiannvpengyouchuguishishenmeyuzhao？

zheileiqingxingxia，ruguobubaituokunjing，hunyinshenghuoshimeifajianchixiaqude。

对于此事，咨询顾问提议：

其一：诚挚致歉。

bulunshishei，zuochupanbianzhishi，bidingshiyaoyongyumianlinhedanfu。duishouhairenchengzhidezhiqian，biaoshunideaohui，banimenzhongjiandeqingkuangshuoqingxi，qidaitanengrangnijiyukuanrong，jinjizaitaeyuxiangxiang，bubigentakaizhanzhenglun，youyuniyuefagentazhenglun，tayuehuixingfen，fahuo。

qier：renshoulingyifangshidudixuanxie，baohuhaoziji。

ziguyilai，nanshengkandaichuguinvrendejieshoushuipingjidi，tadekuanronghenyoukenengshiyouyuxiaohaijiqijiazhongyaosu，kuanrongni，bingbuyiweizhetaneixinneizheiyiguanjiuguoqu，yinci，tahuibiaoshuchunvxingdebuxieyigu，bumanyi，naizhilengdanyichengxiangdai。

duanqineinei，tazheileixuanxienenggourenshou，danzhangjiuyiwang，kendingshishoubulede。yinci，jiarulingyifangzuochuguojixingwei，lirujiatingbaoli、weixie、hehu、‘xing’wuru、xiandingrenshenziyouquanzheixie，yidingyaolijigaohaoziwofangfan，baohuhaoziji。mengjiannvpengyouchuguishishenmeyuzhao？

qisan：diaojiezishendexintai，yaoyongshijixingdongbiaomingzishen，zaicigoujianxinlai。

chuguinvren，nanshengkandainvxingdexintaiburongyitaiyoushan，zheishinvxingdexinqingkendinghuiqifufeichangda，wulunshihouhuimojihuoshidanxin，yaoxiangweihuhunyinshenghuo，yaolizhikezhizijidexintai。

bukeyiyouyunanshengkandaizishenbuhexiedexintai，erzibaoziqi。weichiyikefenfaxiangshangdexin，yongshijixingdongzhengshijilaogong，shitakanjiannidegenggai，zaicigentachuangjianxinlaigan。

chuguihoufuhehaihuixingfuma？zongeryanzhi，buguannanhaihenvhai，yidingyaoweichihunyinshenghuolidezhongshi，bubisuibianwaiyu，buran，yaotouruguoduoshijianquxiufuganqing。