精神出轨是啥意思：“我爱你时想着另一个人”

yiduixirideqinglv，tamenyifenbiechengjialiye，danbicizhijianhaiqiangualingyifang。jingshenchuguishishayisi？yincinvhaizaishengengbanyebodaletadedianhua。tandaoyitongdemeihaojiyishi，tamendouhenkaixin。nvrenchuguihoufuhehaihuixingfuma？

danzuihoutamenpobudeyiwanbizheidadianhua，youyu……tamenzaoyifenbieyouairen。

xuduoqingganbixuzhangwofencun，qiahaoshizhangwofencuncaituxianqixingfu。

01、老公精神出轨的费用在缩小

jingshenchuguishishayisi？qianjiri，jiedaowangminsiliao，tawenleneiyangyigenanti：

“tanlianai5nian，tacengshiwoyaohuanduyishengderen。kexianrujinlianaijuedebuhuizai，youshihounaizhihuiyanfanzheiyiduanguanlian。rujinlaogongjingshenchuguiyigenvsheng，wogaizenmezuo？”

zheimingwangminwanyouxishijieshileyigeshengyinhendongtingdepiaoliangxiaojiejie，dayouxishitahuihanta“zhangfu”，meiyicibeilingyifangzhuizhedashi，doushihuihetamaimengqiubaobao。

 tazhiyanjinguanxiangyouzheileixinxianyouqudejuede，danbingbuxiwangheneiyigenvhaifazhanqushichengqinglv。tayizhidezhuzishendegerenxingwei，buhuirangrentipanbiannvpengyou。

penyouppengdaoyiyangdenanti，tazaibangzhangfushoujidianchichongdianshi，bujingyijiankandaotajibiedenvxingfadeshoujiweixin，“xiangwolema？”beizhizedelaogong，budanbuganjuezishenyoucuo，haiyiweishilaopoxiaotidazuo。

youyuzishenzhibuguodamanzuipaohuoche，zuihouhuoshi“lixingdiguanhaolexiashen”。

yigeburonghushidezhenxiangshi，shejiaomeitidefasheng，cushilaogongjingshenchuguidegailvkuoda。

zaiwangluoshangheqitarenyixingliaotian，suishisuidinengchoushen，fengxianxingchengbenfeizuishao，danzhaoxunxinxian、cijixing、suiyidechongdongquenengsuibianqianyidaoyigeanquanxingmubiaodeshenshang。

tamenjuedeyouxizhong、weixinliyixingliaotianmanzuipaohuoche，rengweiyuejing，keshishishangzaoyizaidaodedixianbianyancailaicailaidao。

laogongjingshenchuguideyifang，xinliannaibuzhu，xianggejianjixingshidemengshou，jiangchenairenbuzhuyi，yikouyaodiaoyiqianzhenxideqinggan，zheijiushizuiherendediqu。

02、为何老公精神出轨

heroutichuguiyiyangbukeyuanliang

yiqianyouyigesheyouyunanpengyouwaidi，hezishendeyixingpengyouhuyouhaogan，jiugennanpengyoufenleshou，heyixingpengyouzaiyiqile。

tingqilaihaoxiangmeishenmewenti，xianmianqianrenfenkaicaijinxingletaren，taziyiyejuedeneiyangsuanbushangwaiyu。

danzhihouxuduorenwenta，nishizenmexiaishangzheiyiyixingpengyoude。tajiangzishengangjiarushi，lianggerenmeiyitiandouliaoshoujiweixindaohenwan，bansuizheshenrulejiefajueyouhenduoxiangtongdegerenaihao，jianjiandijiuaishanglingyifangle。

keyigeyounanpengyoudenvhai，cheyehelingyigenanshengliaoshoujiweixin，liaogerenaihaorenshengmubiao，naizhiaimeiguanxidaojiaobicizhijian“shangpin”，neiyangqueshiwentuoma？

weihexuduorenjuede，laogongjingshenchuguiheroutichuguiyiyangbijiaoyanzhong，bukeyuanliang，shiyouyulaogongjingshenchugui，tongchangshiroutichuguidezhengzhao。

erlaogongjingshenchuguizuibeishangdeweizhiqujueyu，“nibuaiwo，meiyoudonglexin。”

yingpian《hunwaiqingmi》zhong，qiaoannaheyiqianjiuqingrenailikesixianghuzhijianqinmu。

tawangbudiaojiuqingren，bingyizhiliuchutadexiangpian。bicizhijianyushanghou，tayizhijinbuzhuxiaorong，yongcanyouhuishiyehuichuxianlianrenjiancaiyoudemuguanghexinyoulingxi。

danyingduiroutideyouhuo，tadanxinhenjiuhoujujuele。tajiangzishenbukeyiaishangyoufuzhifu，yincihexirilianrenmeirenbibeilaxiashougongchuyishiheyishuileyiwan。

lianggerenxiangyongermianyihou，tafanhuijiali，zuozhewoshipiaochuangdebuweishangxinluolei。

qiaoannakanqilaizhongchengyuhunyinshenghuo，meiyoudapozuizhongdejihui，dantazaoyichuguileganqing。

laogongjingshenchugui，daibiaozhezaitadexinli，laogongzaoyimeiyoutaxinliaideneiren。

jiuqingrenailikesishitaneixindebaiyueguang，zhushazhi，naxiedepiaobaiyenengxiqubaiyueguang，miediaozhushazhi？

liangrenzaiyiqinengfashengdezuidamanzuganheshijiyiyi，qujueyulianggerenjingshenshijiexianghuzhijianxiai，xianghuzhijianyilai。jiaruqingyibuhuizai，yiduanguanlianyejiujijikewei，yaoyaoyuzhuile。

yiweizhihuwendawangminshuo，zishenhenanpengyoudeqingganyizhihenpingwen，zaoyidaotaolunjiehundeshuiping。

zhizhitabujingyizhongfanyuelenanpengyouderiji，caifajuetasannianqianxiaishanglingyigenvsheng，lianggerenyizhidoushiyoulianluo。weilegenghaodiheneiyigenvhaizuotongyihuoche，takeyichepiaogaiqianhuochepiao，rujinrengzaiweibierentiqianzhunbeikaoyanmianshicailiao。

congrijizhongnenggoukandechu，nanhaizizaipinlemingkezhizijideganqing，heneiyigenvhaiyebucengzaishijizhongyuejing。

dantayecengxiangguo，yaoshimeiyoudaitixiangfaguobabamamajiuhaole，yanwaizhiyishi——jiarujianglaiairenshilingyigenvshenggaiduomehao。

fabiaopinglunyouxierenquanzheimingzhihuwendawangminxiangyaokaigeyixie，yuanyinshi：

“nikeyiquebaozishenshimouyishishikekedeno.1，nihaishinengquebaoyibeizidoubianchengno.1？quqishengziyuanbenbianshino.1deyizhongfangshia。“

dantabudong，weihetizhuhuizheibanzaihunanpengyoudelaogongjingshenchugui。

youyurangaiyuelaiyuebaoguide，bingbushiwoxihuanni，wozhiaini。

zhishibenlaiyouneimeduotiaoxuanheyinyou，wohaishijiandingbuyiditiaoxuanleni。

nengdailaiairendejiaohaodebiaotaiheguishugan，shiduyiwuerdekandai，shizhongai，shiruoshuisanqian，zhiquyipiaoyin。

shiwonengpengdaoyiwangehewocaochuhuomiaoderen，danwozhixiangyaoheyigerenyouguanxi。

shitiesheng《linghundeshi》youneiyangyiduanwenzi：

“tawen：‘naxienengzhengshiganqing？’yirujiwangdeguanzhu、tiexin、aixi、xiezhu……zheizhongbianshiganqingdezhengshime？kezheiyeshimuqindeai、fuqindeai、youhao、xiongmeizhiaihaikeyishixiandeya？keshiganqing，bixuzhengshi，bixuzaizhuduozhongduoyangaideqingxuzhongdushuyizhishuomingneibushiqitaneiqiahaoshiganqing！”

laogongjingshenchugui，shijishangyejiushifourenleairendewufadaitixing，meiyoulezheiyibuketidai、weiyi、chongfenbiyaotiaojian，ganqingdejishiyejiudangranwucun。

laogongjingshenchuguiyoubieyuyouyushengai，yidandapolixing，tabianhuishi“youqingshengyu，yushangzengqing”dechixubiaoshengfangshi。

03、赏析是一种本能反应，忠实是一种挑选

zaixianshili，rendeqingganzishizhizhongshifanzabingqiezaigaibianzhongde。

jiusuanshizuienaideliangren，yehuichuxianguoyixiecheditaoyanlingyifangdeyishunjian，yixiehuailianqibierendeyishunjian。

sheiyewufaquebaowanhunyihou，yibeiziburongyimishangtaren。

kechengrendequanqiushiyouguiding，yiwuhehongxiande。

yingduiyinyou，fahuqing，zhihuli，caikeyizhenzhenzhengzhengshouhaoduilingyibandefuwuchengnuo。

shuobailede“fahuqing，zhiyuli”，shishijieshangneimeduomeihaoshiwu，shiwozhongaizhiqing；pengdaozhiquxiangtouderen，shiwojingyangzhiqing；yushanglinghunqihederen，shiwoguoyihuierdongxin。

danyiqieyezhiyouzhihushangxibale。

 wodeyigepenyou，yijingjiehun，zaigongzuoshangyushangtashifenxihuandehezuofang。liangrendegexing、xingzipinxing、banshifangfa，jiazhiguanniandougaokuanbiqiehe，gongtonghuatidangranxuduo。

taduihezuofangyoujingyang，naizhihuichuxianyisidongxin。

dantameiyourangzheileiganqingsiwujidanfazhanqushi，guoduanbuyueleichiyueleichi。

 pengdaoyigeren，yishunjianganjuehenxihuan，henshuodeshanghua，zheiyeshihenchangguide。keshilixingkeyibazishenlashanglaicaisuanshizuizhongyaode。

shangxishiyizhongbennengfanying，zhongshishiyizhongtiaoxuan。

lingyifangmian，yuqitarendejiexiangan、fencun，yezhanxianleniduiyiduanguanliandezhenshiyugaoduzhongshi。

duheguizailanmuzhongwanxintiaoyouxishi，guishuodadushuosheishudiaojiuxuyaoqinlingyifangyixia。dangguikaojindushi，tadediyifanyingshidaotuibikai，youyutazaoyiyongyouhuo。

zhushang《kuailedabenying》shi，heshuoyaobuxutaqiangwenyixiawu，dantamashangjujuele。hewanxiaoshuoyouyuwuguozhonglemeiyou？tashuodao，bingbushide，youyuzishenjijingjielehun。

zailiangrendeyingxiangli，qingganyuzhizeshijinmilianxi，yiwuxiacaihuifashengqinggan，yehuiyinqinggansuizhechanshengyiwu。

manmanrenshenglu，ninengyudaoxuduobizishenairenchenggongderen。nvrenchuguihoufuhehaihuixingfuma？

bitahaokanderen。bitayoumoderen。bitafuyouderen。bitashanjierenyideren。

naizhiduofangwei“zhanya”taderen。

danruguonijingliguoyixieshi，ninenggaoqingchuhunyinshenghuohuoshiganqing，bujinshireqingdongxinyihoudeyuyun，daliangshiyiqidexingmingjiyilideninggu，shijianyuewanghouzou，jiuyuenanbaituo。

neiyige“gengqiang”derenyexuhuifasheng，dannixiangxiangqingxi，tashifouqueshigengweimanzunixinli“zuiaixi”deguifan。

ergengqiangzheigecishixiongxiande，youyushizhonghuichuxiangengqiangderenfasheng，nijiangmituzairenxingdetanlangudizhong。

zheishishangbingmeiyoushuobailegengqiangde，nitouruguoshijianhezhenxinshiyiquaihudeneiyiduomeiguihua，jibianzaiyiban，yehuishenaishouyuguangmangsishe。

laogongjingshenchuguiheroutichuguishijishangshimeishizhishangdechabiede，guigenjiediquanshiruguobuaile，genghekuangjingshenshizhichuzhechuzhe，dangranroushenyejiugensuichule，jinjinshijianwenti。

nixiangyixiang，tayouneimeduowenwan，bianshibuyuanyirangni，tayouneimeduoshijian，bianshibukenhuazainideshenshang，tayouneimaaini，bianshibukennachulai。nijuedeshizijizuodetaishao，bupei，huoshitajuyoudetaishao，jibule，shijishangbingbushi，tazhibuguobaneixiedoudaijiletarenbale。neima，zongyouyitian，talianrentiyebujiaojini。nvrenchuguihoufuhehaihuixingfuma？

qinaidede，biejiangnidezhenxinshiyiweilegou。hekudanxinlingyifangshiroutichuguihuoshilaogongjingshenchugui，zhixushiwaiyu，jiumeiyoukuanrongdekongjian。nihenhaodeyigeren，hekuxiaohaozaiyigebuaitadenanshengdeshenshang。jinzaofangkaishou，caikeyirangziyigengkuaishouqianshoudongnideren。

jingshenchuguishishayisi？dandangnizuobudaoyixinyiyishouzheyigeren，yaoxiangyongxindecijixing，neiqingdanshishangyiduanyiwu，suihouhulvenideairen，rangtazhaoxunxindexingfukuaile。