什么程度算精神出轨，精神出轨，就不算是出轨吗？

xianrujinshidaidehunyinshenghuo，chongchizhezhegezhonggeyangdeqingkuangheyinyou。chuguidenvrennenghuitouma？yigeyibuxiaoxin，bianhuizaochenghunyinshenghuofensui。naizhi10liangniandefuqiguanxilijixiaotui。youxierenshikanbushangbicizhijianderichangshenghuohegerenxingwei，tiaoxuanliyiquzhaolingyigerenlaiguorizi。yeyouxierenshiyouyutarenjilezishenlianrenjibushangdewupin，tiaoxuanlikai。shenmechengdusuanjingshenchugui？

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dajialaitingyitingyiweiwanhun10niandenvrendexinshenghesuku：

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jinqi，wofaxianzhangfudebutaidui，meitianyelihuijialelezizidi，duiyuwodekanfayefeichanghaolexuduo。wojinguancaiyinaxie，keshikanjiantazheizhongmoyang，woshigaoxing，yejiumeiyouduowenshenme。danshizaitachongliangdeqingkuangxia，jiandaotadeshoujishangyizhixianggebuduan，buqingchudaodishisheifaxiaoxi。

woqiguaidikanguoyixia，yishunjianlengzailenaer。shoujiduanxinshangdexinxishifenlougu，aimeiguanxi，naizhidoutijilefashengguanxidengdeciju。wonazheshoujishangxianchangzhiyita，jieguotayixiaolezhidijiangleju“anxin，yemeiyouwaiyu，doumeiyoulianren，zheiyijiushiwoshejiaoruanjianshangjieshideyigenvde，woshidanchunxinghetashuoshuohuashadoumeiyouchuxianguo。”

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meiwanrushui，zishendezhenbianrenbianshizishendelaopo，quehuaizheshoujishanghelingyigenvrenxianliao，huizuishangshuozhemeishier。wozhendeshishiwangzhiji。keshiwoneixinhuoshiyizhishenaizhewodelaoban，woyaozulantadegerenxingwei，keshitazeshijuedezheileishiermeiyoushenmelebuqi，buyingxiangdaofuqijiandeqinggan。

wozhendeshiduitajuedebengkuile，nandaoshuoshenjingxitongwaiyujiusuanbushangshiwaiyuma？wogentajielehun10nian，10niandeqingganqueburuyigelianmiandoumeijianguodehulianwangshangdenvxing。

huizong：chuguidenvrennenghuitouma？fuqijianderichangshenghuo，tongchanghuilijingyiduanpijuanyanjuanqi。zaizheiqijian，huxianglijie，bubiqusheqiulingyifangjizijizuoshenmeshiqing。lejieshouhoubicizhijiancaisuanshizuiguanjiandeshiqing。