男人出轨可以原谅，女人出轨为什么不能原谅？梦见女朋友出轨了

“shangnianjinricimenli，taohuarenmianxiangyinghong。renlianbuzhihechuqu，taohuayunyijiuxiaochunfeng。”junsaochuguilvyouduogao？zheishijiandabufendeshidoutaobuchuyigeshiguojingqian。mengjiannvpengyouchuguileyoushenmeyuzhaoni？

doushuojiazhongshixingfudegangwan，danyoushizheiyixingfudegangwanhuibeiwaiyuzheiyidafenglanglijinongfan。jinguanshuohunyinshenghuodechengnuoquanshibuqibuli，baishoubuxiangli。danquanshijiedeshiquanshiyishide，zuilingrenzhuomobudingderendeneixinyeshizhuanbianzuidade。

zaijizhidechengnuodoudangbuzhu，chuguideren。danjiusuanqingganfensui，yeshiyouhenduorenbuyuanyisheqizheiyizaoyiloushuidehaigang。tamenqidaikeyiwanliuwaiyudelingyibanxiufuhaozaoyifensuidejiazhong，kedaduoshuyushiwubu。

weihechuguinvrennanyihuiguotouni？tamendeneixindaodishizenmexiangdeni？daodishishenmeyangzideyinsurangtamennanhuiguotouni？jinridajiajiuyiqilaikanyixia，yidanwaiyujiunanhuiguotoudesandianyuangu。

一、容易得到的快乐

junsaochuguilvyouduogao？xiangduixingyuhunhoushenghuo，tanlianaitongchanggengjianyiyixie。erzheiyeshizaochengyixierenwaiyuhebuyuanhuitoudeyuangu，hunyinshenghuozhongyizhiyouyixiegeshigeyangdefenqi。poxizhijiande，fufude，wenhuajiaoyuhaizide，shenghuoyalide。zaihunyinshenghuozhongzheileijiezhongerzhidefenqibujiqishu。erfenqidezengjia，haowuyiwenhuiyingxiangdaoqinggandehexie。yehuirangyixierenyaoxiangtaochuhunyinshenghuo，erwaiyubianchengtamendediyitiaoxuan。

waiyuxiangduixingyuhunyinshenghuo，meiyouneimeduodeyouyanjiangcu。naizhibuyongjiyu，buyongchengdanzeren。zaihenduorenyanzhong，waiyubianchengyijianhenrongyidedaokuaile，youwuxutouruxuduodeshier。xiangduixingyuhunyinshenghuozhongdetouru，tamengengshanyudedaojianyijianduandekuaile，jiusuanlejiehuiyiyuchengchensunrenbuliji，yerengranshierbujian，yuangubianshitamenyagendoumeiyoukaolvdaobiede，jinjinchenniyutaochuhunyinshenghuodekuaile。

二、自取其辱后的深信不疑

jinguanhunyinshenghuozhongyouhenduofenqi，danshijishangbuhuitainanchuli，huishiyinweineiyangdeyuanguwaiyushijishangyebuguoshiyigebuyuanyitouruderen，zaiduobiyinggaiyoudeyiwueryi。

keshizaitamenzishendexinlizhuangtai，tamenyidinghuiweizijizhaoyigetuoci，bingqieshicuozaiqitarendetuoci。liru“doushiyouyulaogongbupeizhewo，wotaijimole。”“doushiyouyuxifutaipangle，.wowaiyude。”“shengwanbaobaohou，xifuyanzhongjinyouxiaohai。”“doushiyouyuwolaogongtaiwonangfeile，zhuanbudaoyixieqian。”shifoutingqilaishifendelejie。

zheixierenbudanyaowaiyu，haixuyaoyoujiekoudewaiyu。tamenhuibawentidoutuidaoairendeshenshang，bingzhangqixingdishuojizijiting。shijianzhangletamenzishenbianhuishenxinbuyi，tamenrenweiziyibianshimeiyoucuo，waiyuquanshibeibide。jiushiyinweizheizhongzhangqideziquqiru，tamennanyihuiyishidaowaiyushibuzhengquedeshier，zaiyumoguitongxinglibuzhengquedeshizhongshitaren。mengjiannvpengyouchuguileyoushenmeyuzhaoni？

三、道德底线急剧下降

chuguiderenzaochizaowanhuijiemubeifajue，danyoushitamenhuibeifajueyeshitamenwufahuiguotoudeyuangu，youyutamendedaodedixianjijuxiajiang。

congqiaoqiaodewaiyu，daodaihuiquwaiyu，zaidaowaiyudeguochengzhongxiedaixiaohai。waiyuhouderenlianchixinhuiyuelaiyuejijuxiajiang，henyoukenengyikaishihaihuijixupabierenfajue，zhihoubianhuiyuelaiyuemingmuzhangdan。budanbuhaipabeikandaole，jishibeikandaoleyewufazulantamenwaiyu。

yiqianyeyouxinwenbaodaoguo，nvzichuguibinguanjianmianlianren，wusuidexiaohaizaipangbianchuangbianshuishu。chuguiderendehongxianhuijijuxiajiang，eryuanbentamenhaihuijixuzaihuzishendepinpaixingxiang，keshishijianzhangletamenbianhuimingmuzhangdan。zheizhongshitamennanhuiguotoudeyuangu，meiyoulianchixinderen，beikandaolewaiyuyebuhuidanxin，tongchangzhicuobugai，poguanposhuai。

zongtilaishuo，weihechuguinvrenwufahuiguotou？diyigeyuangu，youyuwaiyutongchangbipingpingdandandehunyinshenghuogengnengjitamenkuaile，bingqiewuxuchengdanzeren。diergeyuangu，youyutamenziquqiru，yanjinglishizhongyekanbudaozishendebudangzhichu，tamenrenweizishenwaiyushiduide。disangeyuangu，tamendelianchixinhendi，wufarangtamenguizhengzishendegerenxingwei。mengjiannvpengyouchuguileyoushenmeyuzhaoni？

yiyang，yigenanrendewaiyu，yuanguyeshihenduozhongduoyang，danzhengtieryannanshengdaduoshushi“xiabanshensikao”dexiaodongwu，tamenchuguiyihou，jiarubeikandaohekuanrong，keyilikegaibianxianzhuang，erqiekandaizishendexifuhuiyuebianyuehao，zheiyejiushichuguinanrenhechuguinvrendechabie！

junsaochuguilvyouduogao？yincidangnidelingyibanchuguile，wufamibudehuajiufangshouba，genneiyangyigetaobizeren，taobizeren，ziquqiru，gualianxianchiderenzaiyiqi，sunhaidezhinengjiushinizishen。