丈夫发现妻子出轨后，老婆出轨要如何处理呢？

renherenzhijian，bicizhijiandouyingdangzhongshi，shehuifazhancaihuihemuxingfu，laogongbuzaijiachuguilezenmeban？eryidanyifangdexingweisunhailelingyifang，neilingyifangbidinghuicaiquyouxiaodefangfajiyufanji，yishixianzishendexinlipingheng，zheijiushirenherenzhijianchanshengjiufendezhijieyuanyin。laopochuguiyaoruhechulini？

ruguoshifuqijianni？yifangpanbianlelingyifang，ruguobeitarenzhixiaohou，tachukaizhiqianchengrencuowuwai，weilegenghaodihuodetarendeyuanliang，tahaishihuiyouzuochuzenyangdehuodonglaiwanjiuma？tangruoxifuchuguibeilaogonglejiehou，weilegenghaodihuodelaogongdeyuanliang，laopoyujiangzaizishendehaoguimixiangxijieshaojizhangfu“dizui”，neiyangdegerenxingweinimenzenmekan？

陈先生，36岁：

laogongbuzaijiachuguilezenmeban？wohexifushidaxuetongxue，biyezhihoudajiaxiangjuyitongzizhuchuangye，lijingshuniandepijingzhanji，gongzuozongsuantarulezhenggui。gongzuopingwenzhihou，jibenshangsuoyoudebixuchumenbenmangdeshierquanshiwohaizaizuo，xifujiuzaijialixiezhejiukeyile。rujindegongzuoquanshixianshangyuxianxiajinmijiehele，xifuzaijialidoubuchedihunhunee，zhishiyongshoujihejisuanjicaozuohulianwangpingtai，xiangduieryan，tadeshijiansuiyibingqieqingqingsongsong。

womeirizaiwaimianbenmang，zishendequeshuyuduitazhaoliaoheguanzhu。zheixienianlai，woneixinxiangdequanshijiarujianggongzuofazhanzhuangda，yagenmeiyousixukaolvdaoqita，jiashangwohexifucongxuexiaozhujian，lianggerenqingganyizhifeichanghao，woyagenmeixiangguoyouyitiantahuichuguiwo，congneixin，womeiyouliyouxinlaita。

kexiangbudao，xifukongxialaihou，xiaohaiyejiaodaobabamamadailehou，taquezhangchulezaodongbuandesixu。tachangchanggongzuozhiyuchumenhepengyoujucan、huijiayishenjiuwei，youshihouhaihuijixuchenzhejiujingbangwotongdianhuashualai。keshiwomeiribenmangguoneigedi，yinweiwofeichanglei，naozhongmeiridouhuixiangxiayibugairuhezou，hetongshunaerhaibixujianquan，zenmecainenghuodehezuofangderenkedengshiyi。yemeiyouzaiyidaoxifudetihui，doumeiyouliushijianchuqupeitaxianliao，zijuedezheixieniandeqingganhefuqixingshenghuo，tayingdangkeyilejiewodeburongyi。

shubuzhi，jiuzaiyicijuhuihuodongzhong，youyigehunwaiqingrenjijiaijinleta，weitadangjiu，peitaxianliao，songtahuijiale，duitadezhaoliaokeyishuotitieruwei，congxifuzuizhonghuozhi，neibianshiyigeshizudenanshen，taxunsushixianzaiqizhong。benlaizhixiaotarenyoujiazhong，xifubianshiannaibuzhuyigerendegudu，zailaogongdejijijingongxia，taliangshenbeiwozuohaolexunqie。

neigerenshiyigefuerdai，babamamajitamenkaiguo2geshangchang，tashibeihoulaozong，yinweishangchangdoushiyougudingbudongdegaoguan，maimaiyexiangduixingpingwen，tayongyouyidabadeshijian。yinci，tajiuchangchanglianluowodelaopochulaiquwan，peitaxiantansansanxin。neiyiduanshijian，wochedibuzhidao，tamenyufanggongzuozhongzuodefeichanghao，meiyicihuiqubaxifuyouduiyuwojiqingyuji，chedikanbuchuyounaxiezhuanbian，yinweiwoyagenmeichaobiduanquxiangguota，gengburongyidanxintahuiduiyuwochuguixingwei。

shiwozheileimeiyouliyoudexinlai，rangtagengweimingmuzhangdan。youyici，youyugukelinshixingbixuyifencailiao，woyunbeifendiushi，bijibenqiahaoyoumeidianle，worangxifuzhaozhaodiannaodebeifenshujucailiaofasongjiwojilingyifang。xiangbudao，qiahaoshicicijinjishijian，rangwomingbaitameizaijiali。taneishiyijingyewai，woshiqianwentamanghenxian，shifouyouzaijiali，tarenweiwoshizaiguanzhuta，bianshuobumang，shizijiazhongde。jiezhewobianshuobixucailiao，rangtabangzhujiejueyixia，jieguotayixiamengdiaoshuobuchuhualai，tuntuntutuyaowodengtasanshifenzhong，woshihuozaijialiweihehaidengsanshifenzhong？

tajianghuiguotouzaibangwobiaoshu，suihoucongcongmangmangguadiaodianhua，jiezheworuhedatadoubujie。womingbaitahaowuyiwenbuzaijia，dantaweiheyaomeinaqianni？chuziyunanshengdexiayishi，womingbaixifuhaowuyiwenzaiwaimianyongyouzhuangkuang。danshi，shijishenmeshiqing，wozhishixinliyouyigebutaihaodechajuedao，bingmeiyoupanduantajiuyongyoubaoqianwodeshi，woxuyaotayigekexuehelidebiaoshu。

 benlaiyizhoudexingchenganpai，wojiasulejinzhan，zaidiwutianjiuhuidaolejiazhong，woxiangwentajiujingweishenmemeinaqian。jirizhijin，tameiyoujijilianxiwo，doumeiyouxiangwobiaoshupianyanzhiyu，duifaledeshujudoubuhui，tongdianhuayebujie。yaowoneixinhenji，xiangnaopiqi，xiangzhengchaodouzhaobuzheren。huidaojiaqiahaotianheile，xifuyigerenzaijia，jianhuiquba，lianbuyouyixiebudangran，lveweijinghuangxintai。

zuozhehao，wobianyiliannuhuodiwentaweihebujiedianhua？jiujingweishenmemengpianwo？shifouzuoguonaxiewochuodeshi？yingduiwoyilianpaochuqudehaoduogenanti，jiandaowohenshengqi，xifuyouyixieyouyu，bingmeiyoulijihuiyingwo，rutongxinlizaizhengtuogaizenmehuidawo，keshiwojiushizheiyangjingjingdidengdaitabangwohuida。

dagaiguoquleliangsanfenzhong，xifucaiyixiaguizaiwoyanqian，qiuzhewojiangtabudui，tashiyishizhimibuhui，naibuzhujimo，ganlebaoqianwodeshi。taqiuwoyuanliang，shuodajiaxiaohaineimetinghua，xueyechengjiyouhenhao，qianwanbiehetaliyiweihaidaoxiaohai。zongsuan，tahuoshijijirenkelezigedebuzhengque，jidewoyishiheyihuifu。

jianwomeijianghua，xifuyoushuo：“dajiacongyiwusuoyoulaidaojinri，tarendoutebieyanxiandajia，ruguolihunle，xiaohaihuishouyingxiang，gongpoyehuihenxinhan，ruguotamenzaibeiqibingle，wojuedeneijiushiwomenlianggeyebuxiangyaojiandaode。”wozhizetajiranqingchuzheizhong，weishenmehaixuyaowaiyu，nandaoshuowaiyuyaotourudechengbenzishenbuqingchuma？wonenglijirangtayiwusuoyoulihunbulijia。

tayoushuodao：“shide，womingbaizishendecuo，wobuyuanyipianni，hetazaiyiqijinjinyishihulihutu，rujinzaoyihetaduandiao。niqingyuanliangwoba，weilebaobaoyujiating，woyigehaoguimijiazhongguodebuxingfukuaile，tazhangfumeifajitaxingfukuaile，wonengbataxiangxijieshaorangni。”

tingletazheijuhua，wojideyixiabengleqilai，shenchushoujiuxiangdataliangbazhang，keshoudaobantuyoutinglechulai，wohaijidezishenzaihetachuduixiangshifuwuchengnuoguota，weilaiwulunneiyang，wohaiburongyidongshounenglidata。wojiang，nizheiyeshiyiyiguxing，zijizuobuduishi，haixuyaorangtarengenniyiyangqufancuowuma？tayoushuojiushixiangcongsixiangshangpeichangyixiawo，neiyangwobianhenyoukenengyuanliang。

yemeiyoudata，yemeijienatadetiyi，pingxinjingqiditanfenkai。yinweitashishouhaifang，woyuanlaixiangrangtalihunbulijia，danchongfenkaolvzheimeduoniantayegenzhechiguoku，bingqiedangshiwomenzaiyiqishiyouzhenqinggande，yinweiwoyizhishenaizheta。zaihuijiayiqiandejirili，woxinzhongjingliyiwanzhongniantou，danmeiyizhongdoubingbushiwoxuyaodejieguo。laopochuguiyaoruhechulini？

woneixinhentongchu，weihedangshinenggougongku，rujinrichangshenghuobiaozhunhaola，riziguodezhengzhengrishangle，fandaohaizuochupanbiandajiahunyinshenghuodeshi。yingduizigedebuzhengque，haijingranhaimingquetichuhuangdandetiyi，yaoyaowoyiwaiyuyicilaixiangditawaiyudebuzhengque，tanandaoshuobuqingchuyouyixiecuoshinanyishihuaihexiangdidema？

weilebaobaohebabamama，worangtalinshiwuxubeijinglixiang，zongzhiyinweiwojingchangzaiwaimian，tanenggoulinshizhuzaijiali。xiaohaishimomingqimiaode，babamamayeshimeiyoucuo，cuodoushizaidajianianqingrendeshenshang。yemeiyoujiejuehaofuqijiandeqingganwenti，duitadequeyoubuzuguanzhuhezhaoliaodeqingkuangxia，tamishifangxiang，cuokendingshita，danwoyebubixuzuodeguoyuwuqing，zhongjiuyiqianzhenxinshiyicengjingaiguo。liutazaijiali，bingmeiyouwojuedeyouhetafuhexingdehenyoukeneng，zhishiwobuyuanyibianchengboqingguayizhibei。tanenggouduiyuwoboqingguayi，danwohaishiyaobaozhengyouliangzhi。laopochuguiyaoruhechulini？

chenxianshenghenlixing，meiyoubeiqingmihuosiwei，meiyouhelaopolangbeiweijian，lihunzhihoudoumeiyoujiangtanianchujiazhong，dequeshiyigezhongqingyidechunyemen，yingduichuguidelaopo，nengbaozhengzheiyibu，zheigenanrenzaoyigourenzhiyijinle。nvxingmingzhidaozishenbudui，haichangshijianglaogongyetuodaobuzhengquedeshilizhong，jianzhigezhimibuhuidenvxing，buqingchunaozhongyitiandaowandouxiangxienaxie？

laogongbuzaijiachuguilezenmeban？aishangyoufuzhifuquanshidiurende，meiyourenhejiekoushinenggoulingrenxinfude，hunyinshenghuozhong，bubichangshicaitatarendezizun，yiqiehonggangdoububiqupengchu。renyaochendezhuqi，renshoudelegudan，renshigaodengdongwu，youguannian，youpinxing，bubiyimenxinsianyuxianzhuang、xiangshou，chukaiyongsudeshoujiyouxi，dajiahaiyingdangyougengjiachonggaodezhuiqiuwanmei，bukeyijiangzishenhedidengshengwuhuashangdengyuhao。