当你被冷暴力的时候，怎样回击最有杀伤力？反击冷暴力的绝招有哪些

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一、把握主导权

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二、沒有他你也可以过的非常好

chukaiyiqirenzhidao，haizhiqirenzhishen，talengmoniyejiubitagenglengmozhiwai，dajiahaixuyaozhuyaobiaoxianchuyou，youtaniyekeyiguodegengqiangdezheizhongganjue。gesanchawudezaiweixinpengyouquanshaiyixienitongguozixuedecaiyibiaoyan，huoshishifayixieniyuyixingmenyiqiwandezhaopian，bubitaijingchangdefa，yigexingqiyicijiukeyile。bingqieyaobaozhengtanengkandaocaixing，jiuyidingyaorangtajiandaonideliangdian。faxianlaopochuguigaizenmeban？

三、展示自身的道德底线

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fanjilengbaolidejuezhaoyounaxie？shijishang，yongzheileiyigeerguangyigezaodefangfagaozhilingyifang，yeshiweilegenghaodigaozhilingyifang，zishenshiyigeyoudaodedixianderen，meiyouta，niyekeyiguodefeichanghao，yuefasatuo，yuefazide，neiyigejiatinglengbaoliderenjiuyueburongyishunxinruyi，zhongjiurenhuiyoudeqingkuangxiatianxingbianshizheiban。