女人有外遇如何拯救婚姻的呢

 renzheiyibeizi，dajiadouqidaizishenyouyigewennuandejia，meiriquanshigekuailederen。danzairichangshenghuozhong，laopochuguizenmebanbingbushiyiqiedoujinrenyuan，meiridajiadoushihuipengdaogeshigeyangdekunaohejiannan。dangxifuchugui，jiatinghunyinzaoyuweiji，niyinggaizenmeban，xifuchuguigaizenmeban?niyougaizenmezuo?ganshenme，nvrenyouwaiyucaikeyirangzishenbaituoqingxudexiaokanni?

一、思索该怎么办

 renhuoyibeizi，huizaoshoushiduoshaowanbanwunaideshi，ouyushiduoshaoenyuanqingchouderen。zhenduiyigenvreneryan，taruhunyinshenghuocaisuanshiwanshandeqishidian。nvxingdaduoshushilixinghuade，jirandangshitiaoxuanjiageileni，neiyidingshibanikankandegaoyuyiqie。keshihunyinshenghuozhongjiubuyiyangganqing，bingbushimeitiandaqingmaqiao，meitianlanmande，zhishipingpingdandanzhongdexiangzhixiangxi。dangnvxingjuededaofuqijiandezhuangkuangbingbushiruzishensuoyugudeneiban。rujiazhongjingjifazhanqingkuangbutaihao、fuqizhijiansanguanbuhe、poxizhijianbuhe、jiazhongneiwaiziranhuanjingbutaihaodengyaosu，daozhifuqiganqingyulaiyujiaolvbuan，duihunyinaiqingjuedeshifenxinhan，shichuguinvrendetuidonglizhiyi，youyuzishenbukeyihuodezishenyaoxiangdeshenglixuejiqixinlizhuangtaishangdeguanxin。

 dangxifuchuguidenantichulai，yizhiyaoquyingduide，neijiangzenyangyingduixifuchugui。dajiashibushiyaokuanronglingyifangni?yifangmian，ruguowomenzhuyaobiaoxianchujuebujinjinjijiao，henqingqingsongsongdikuanronglingyifang，neidaibiaozhedajiaduilingyifangkandebingbushihenzhongyao，youyutadehaobuzaiyidouhaimeijinijuededaozaoshousunhai。zheiduichuguidelaopoeryan，nvrenyouwaiyunvrenyouwaiyuhenyoukenengyeshiyizhongfangren，tahuiganjueniyagenjiubuzaiyita。zheiduibeikuanrongdeyifangfandaohuichanshengyizhonggengbijiaoyanzhongdebuliangyingxiang。lingyifangmian，dajiaguidinglingyifangduizheishikaizhanbiaoshuhuoshizhiqian。niwangwangneiyangmingquetichu，zuishaobiaoming，nijilingyifangyigejiyu，ranglaopolejienideguandian。jiarulingyifangzhiqian，fandaoduixianghudeganqingshiyizhongshifangchulai，rangxianghudounenggengweizhenzhengkandaolingyifangzhenzhengrendebenxingdeyimian，baituoxiaohaimenghuanbandexiangxiang，rangxianghunenggougengweitiejinzhenshidelingyifang。

二、应当干什么

 shidaidebianqian，rangnvxingxiangnanshengyiyangzonghengchichengyuchuruzhichang，xiangnanshengyiyangyaochulaizhuanqianzhuanqianyangjia。zaizhirenyuanchangzhongmeiyigerendoubuyi，weilegenghaodigongzuozhongshafeikuxin。tamenzaigongzuoshang，yiyanghuipengdaoneiyangneibandemafanshi。keshinvxingzaiwaimianzailei，zaifanhuijialeyeyaozhufan，xiyifu，shoushiwuzi。yinci nvxinghuodeyulaiyujianxin。erzuoweizhangfu，yidingyaoyoutichalaopojianxindexin，yaojijididanfuqiyibufenjiawuhuo，yishentilixingganshoulaopodejianxin。youfantongchi，youhuotonggan，huannanyugong，huxiangzhaogu。zheizaiyidingshuipingshangnenggouhuanjielaopodejianxin，haikeyisuzaoliangrendeqinggan。

 wanhunshiniyunidelaopobuguanshuoqinaxie，dounengyoulaiyouqu，yongyuefayan，huojianjieyizhi，lejietongyang，bingqiebuguanrenhedouxiangyaohelingyifangshangyi。bansuizheshijiandejiaobu，dajiahainengzheibangoutongjiaoliuwujin，nidehunyinshenghuoyidingburongyiyoushenmewenti。zenyangbaozhengzheiyidian?bubikaolvyuxiankuang。zuoweizhangfu，nixuyaobuduankuozhangnidezhishicengmian。rangzishenbianchengyigebaikecidian，keyihuiyingchulaopopengdaodenanti，neiyanglaopobianhuiduinilingyanxiangkan。niduidangjinshehuidedongtaixingzhangwodeyueda，jiuyuenenggentarenkaiqihuatitaolun。rangzishenbianchengyigefengquyoumoderen。danghelaopoxianliaoshi，nikendingbuhuijinjinzuoxialaidiandiantoufuhe，nikeyijiyiduanjiaotantishengxindehuatitaolun，nikeyigongxiangquweidekeguanshishi。nidezhishicengmianyuekuankuo，niyejiuyuenengbawojiaotandemaixiang。

 yaoxuezhezhongshilingyifang，shangxilingyifang。duiweiwandewomenzhongguoreneryan，qingmianshishifenguanjiande，tebieshizaizaipangren。yiner，qianwanbuyaozaibierenyanqianzhizenideairen，jibian tashuolebuzushidangdehua，jiarujianzhineiyang，niyaoxiangwanliuta，laopochuguizenmebanneizenmerangxifuhehaoruchuyeshiyizhongfangfa，yinci nixuyaojitamenchongzudezhongshi。ciwai，yiqiebixuyongxinqingtinglingyifangdejianyi，jiusuanjinjinquchaoshimaiyigecaipan。youqishihaizijiaoyunanti，bicijianyiyaojinkenengbaochiyizhi。xianghushangxi：shangxilingyifang，baohanta/tadequexian。bubiwangturanghunyinshenghuohuozhezishendeaigenggailingyifang，jinyouxuehaojieshoubingshangxi，caikeyirangguanliangenghemu。