究竟女人外遇现状该如何解决

 laopochuguilegaizenmeban，zheishibuguangezainagenanshengdeshenshangdouhaowuyiwenshiyigezhongbangxiaoxidingshizhadan，nvrenweishenmehuichuguiyexumeiyigenanshengdefanyingbuyiyang，danqizichuguizheijianshiqingjinanshengchanshengdexinlizhuangtaichongjixingshiyiyangcunyoude。zuoweinansheng，zuidanxindemoguobeidailvmao，danruoneiyangdeshierqueshifashengle，nvrenwaiyuyezhiyouquyingduita。womenyiqilaikanyixiahunlianjiaoyouxinlizixunshiyouguanlaopochuguilegaizenmebandechudeyixietiyi。

最先，考虑到自身的心里可否均衡。

 zaizuofufuzixundeanlizhong，yibancunyouneiyangyigeguilvxing。jiarubicimeiyou“yuanzewentidenanti”，tongchanghuimoheqihao、huifuhao。erjiaruyifangchuxianle“yuanzewentidenanti”zezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuojiangzaoyuyanjunxingshi。waiyuhehunhouchugui，xianeryijianshi“yuanzewentidenanti”。youyu，xifuchuguineiyangdeshier，duobanhuidaozhilaogongxinlijidadebupinghengli。jiuruxiaogushizhongnanzhurenwengxinlidejidabiequ、zenghendengbupinghengli。jiaruyaoxianghunyinshenghuojianchixiaqu，neimayidingshiyaokeyijunhengxinlizheileitongchuhebupinghengli。jiarujunhengbushang，neimazhihouzairichangshenghuoheyingduixianghushi，bicideguanlianbianhuichuzaiyizhongshidiaozhong，wufachijiufazhanqushi。youshi，yushijingzishuaihuailejiuqueshisuilewufazaihaiyuan。fuqizhijianyongyouhunhouchuguihuowaiyuhoudesunhaitongchangbianshizheiban。

次之，刚开始自我反省。

 “wenchongbudingwufengpinjiededan”huacaolibucao。yidingqixiandajiadehunyinshenghuochuxianlenanti，suihoucaihuishihunyinshenghuozhongdeyigerenxunzhaohunneichuguijiyu。yinci ，qidaipengdaoxifuchuguinanrenkeyijingxialaixiangyixiang，zishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongshifouhaozhangshijianhushilelaopodetihui，huoshijinjinyiweideyizhaozishendejuedequaita，nvrenwaiyudanzishenjidebingbingbushilaoposuoyaoxiangde。neiyangxiangyixiang，henyoukenenghuijiangdiyixieduichuguiqizidenaonuhezenghen。lingwaiyehuiranglaopoganjuelaogongkeyiduitayixielejie，duihuifuliangrendeqingganshiyouxiezhude。

qizichuguizhangfugaizenmeban-qizichuguigaizenmeban

第三，再次思考大家中间的情感。

 jiarushuolaogongailaopobilaopoailaogongyaoduoyixie，huoshiduohenduo。laogongbixusisuoyixiazishenjiyutadeai，zhendeshitasuobixudeaima?yaobushi，niyebixujingxiaxinyongxindelaixiangyixiang，nimenshibushiqueshiheshizaiyiqi。

第四，看老婆对婚姻生活是不是有确立的心态。

 yaowoduizhishanghunyinshenghuobukailangdeshixifuchuguizaibeifajuehoudexintai，tadexintaimeiyouxianzhudegaijin。rangwohaizaiyixietichuzhiyitashibushihaishenaizhezishendelaogong，yetichuzhiyitakandairujinhunyinshenghuodexintai。huoxuliangrenbixuwanquandehaohaoditanyitan。laogongruxiangzaicihunyinshenghuo，zuixianyaojiandaolaopoduihunyinshenghuozhihoudeyigequelidexintai，tadexinshibushiyiranzaizheigehunyinshenghuozhong?huozuishaoxiangyaozaicifanhuizheiyihunyinshenghuozhong?zheihenzhongyao。buran，laogongdekuanrongjinjinweizijizaiyicifushangdejiyubale。

 yigenanrenxiangyaokuanrongzishenqizichugui，yidingshizheigenanrenhenhenaizhezheiyinvxing。keshizhiyouyigerendeaishibunengweichihunyinshenghuode，yinci aiyoushihouyehuichanshengsunhai，qingnanrenmenshensishulvkaoliangshangbiansidian，nvrenweishenmehuichuguisuihoujinidehunyinshenghuozuochuzishendejuece。