那老婆出轨了该怎么处理才算是

 zheiquanshijiebingbushijinyounanshengcaihuiwaiyu，xianrujinxuduo nvxingyezhujiantianjiawaiyujingbing。laopochuguilezenmeban neima，haomianzidenanrenmen，yingduiqizichuguiyinggaizenmebancaisuanshishideni?laopochuguilijiliyi?huoshibaxifuhuoneigerentongdayidun?

neilaopochuguilegaizenmechulicaisuanshishideni?rangnisangetiyi：

1、先保持冷静，避免暴力行为过激行为

 xuduo nanshengdangfajueqizichuguideneiyike，doujuedezaoshouqichidaru，nanrendexinshengzaoyujidadetiaozhan，neixinhenshoushang。zaifumianqingxudeweihaixia，dabufennanshengdoushihuibulizhibuji，shiqulixing，yagenwufapingjingxialai。keshizheigeshihoutongchangshizuizhongyaode，yidanziluanzhenjiao，neimajiumeifajiejuehaoxifuchuguizheiyishier。

 ciwai，youdenanshengnaizhihaihuijixucaiyongjiduanhuafangshi，liruduilaopokaizhanbaolixingweishibao，duilaopokaizhanguyishanghaizheixie，zheizhongquanshibulixingde，yeshiweifanguidingdegerenxingwei，yagenbukeyichuliyiqienanti。weiheyaoyongtadebuzhengquelaihailezishenni?nanrenyaozaidiyishijianneizhendingchulai，qianwanbunengchuxianguojixingwei。

2、剖析妻子出轨的真正缘故

 nvxinghunneichuguideyuanguxuduo ，gudujimo、fuqixingshenghuobuhexie、xunzhaoshenglixuecijixing，laopochuguihuoshijinjinzaiduifulaogongdeng。zheizhongdoushihuizaocheng jihunchuguinvren，erqiehuichengyin。yinci ，zailejieqizichuguihou，jinliangyaoxianzhaodaoqizichuguidezhenzhengyuangu，neiyangcaikeyicongyuantoushangjiejuekunnan。

3、反省自己的身上存有什么问题或不正确

 zuoweiyigenanren，beilaopodailedailvmao，nanguonaonuwukebimian。danshi，laopochuguilezenmebannibunengsuoyouzhizelaopoyigeren，nishibeigaofangzhiyi，haiyaofanshengzijideshenshangcunyoushenmewentihuobuzhengque。