如果老婆出轨这个不幸怎么解决

 qizichuguiyingbuyinggaibeikuanrongzheigewenti，xuduo qingkuangxiawomenbunengyigaierlun，zhishibixushijinantishenrufenxi。laopochuguizenmebanqizichuguideyuangushiduofangmiande，henkenengshizijizuodebuzuhao，laopochuguihulvelexifudetihui;huoshishiwaibuhuanjingyaosudeweihaihenda，womenbunengjiyuxifugengqiangdexiangyou;yihuoshishifufubicidejiazhiguannianbuyiyangzheixie，zheizhongquanshizaocheng fuqiguanxiweiji，qizichuguideguanjianyaosu。

 keshidangbeiwenqiqizichuguigaibugaikuanrong，xuduo nanshengdediyifanyingkendingshi“bukuanrong”，keshizaizheilijiandingbuyidexuanzeshenhou，daliangdeshiyouyubuding。youyuqinggan、xiaohai、zichanzheixiegegelingyudeyuangu，huirangrendaoxuanzeshibukeyibaozhengneimajianjue，youyubuding。

 shijishangzaiwendaojiaruqizichuguiyingbuyinggaibeikuanrongshi，zishenxinlizaoyiyongyouyigehenquelidehuida，zaiwenxuntarendequanguochengzhong，jinjinweilegenghaodiweizijidaliangdenenggouzuozheiyitiaoxuandeyuanyineryi。huasuineiyangshuo，keshizhenduiqizichuguishibushibeikuanrongzheigewenti，zaililunshangyeshiyoukefoubeikuanrongdeyuanyinhejiexian，shijishangnenggoufenxiabianhaoduogequkaizhandingyi。

一、两人的价值观念是不是彻底更改

 wulunshitanlianaihuanshiwanhun，zaiyiqideyuanyinbujinshiyouyuenai，laopochuguidaliangshiyouyuliangrensanguanjiaoweixiangtongyi，xingquaihao、xihaoyejiaoweileisi。yinci ，jiaruzaihunyinshenghuozhong，jiaru2gerendesanguanzaoyiwanquanfashenggaibianle，neimaneiyangdehunyinshenghuoyezaoyichedideweifanledangshizaiyiqidechuxinle。

 zheigeshihouzishenjiubixushensishulvshibushibeikuanrong，qianwanbiebeiqianbanerganleyouweifanzishenxinliniantoudexuanze，yaoxunmizishenzuixinlideniantou，qukaizhan。jiazhiguannianfashengbianhua，liangrenzaiyiqiyehuiyouqideguaiguaide，huigesanchawudezhengchao，qingganrengranhuichuxianbiedegecengmiandeweiji。yinci ，liangzhezhijianneiyang，haibibushangtiaoxuanbukuanrong，xiaoxiaosasadeliyi，fanglingyifangzou。

二、外遇的原因是不是可被宽容

 waiyudeyuangushiyouhenduozhongduoyangde，youjijiwaiyu，yeshiyouchuyubeidongwaiyu。shuobailejijiwaiyujiushiyiqiedewaiyuyuanguquanshibenshende，zishenduizheiyiduanhunhoushenghuobumanyi，keshilingyifangmeiyouyiqiedebuzhengque，erzishenzuochulezheiyiduanwaiyudegerenxingwei，ruguoshineiyang，neimaneiyangdexifushibukeyibeikuanrongde，wulunyiqiantaduizishenyouduomehao，nanrenmenyeyingdangtiaoxuanliyi。

 jiaruyigenvrenxinzaoyimeiyounideshenshangle，neimatajirannengzuodiyici，jiuhuiyoushihoudedinci。shenmeshichuyubeidongwaiyu?bianshishuangfangdouyoushenmewenti，huoshishinanxingxianwaiyu，zaocheng nvxingweilegenghaodixunzhaojunhengerwaiyu。

 ruguoshineiyangdeyizhongfangshi，neimaneiyangdewaiyujiarushuangfangdouhaizaihuxianghu，yeshinenggouzaicilaidaoyiqi，shinenggoubeikuanrongde。guigenjiedi，shijishangbianshikanfenshoudeyuanyindaodishibenshen，huanshilingyifang，yihuoshishibicidoushiyou，suihouzaizuohenglianghejuece。

三、是不是也有情感寄予

 disandian，yeshigengweiguanjiandeyidian，liangrenzaiyiqishiyouyuganqing，jiaruhaizaiyixianghu，haiaizhelingyifang，jiububibeizheiyijianshisuojidao，yaorenzhenquyingxiangtamen，rangtamenzaicifanhuizishendeshenpang。jiarutiaoxuankuanrong，jiuluoluodafangdequkuanrong，bubiyizhinazheijianshiqingshuoshier，yizhidanxinzhe，jiaruzhangqixingneiyang，yehuizaocheng qingganzaidumaixiangliekai，laopochuguizenmebanjibian hehao，erneiyangdekuanronghaibibushangbukuanrong。