对于老婆出轨这个不幸怎么应对

 dajiachangshuonanrenhuaxin，shijishanghuaxindenvrenyexuduo。lanqingbingbukeyibangwochanshengtongzhendeganqing，youyuzheileixiangchushichuangjianzaipanbiandejibenshang。chuguinvrenrulunnishibushiwanhun，doujianghuodexuyoudeeguo，laopochuguizenmebanhuonanpengyoupaoxiani，huozhangfuyuniduibogongtang。zonglancongguzhijin，waiyudenvrenjihuyemeiyounaxiehaojieguo，laopochuguiyinciwulunshiweilegenghaodijia，youhuoshijinjinweilegenghaodiwomenzijidouyingdangdiyuwaiyudeyouhuo，xiezhudahuoerwanhuihunyinni?xialiejiuweidahuoergongxianghaoduogediyuyinyoudexiaoqiaomen。

一、不必压抑感自身，有要求就尽量的考虑自身。

 shibenrendoushiyouyaoqiu，bukeyiyouyuyoumubiaolejiuyazhizishendeyaoqiu。ruguonifajuemuqianderichangshenghuoshizishenguodefeichanglei，neimejiuxiangyaonirenqingxiankuangle，youyunideyaoqiuwufadedaokaolv。guodefeichangleideyuanguyouhenduo，lirugongzuozhonghenlei，lirujiatingsuoshitaiduole，youhuoshizishenhenxiangyaomouwuerquehaipaxiaofeizheixie。meiyigerenbuyiyang，danbulunshijingshenxuqiuhuanshihuaxuewuzhiyaoqiudouyingdangjinliangdequrenqingta，erbushitiaoxuantaobiheduobi。jiaruyaoqiuguogao，neimawomenkeyizhidingyigezhangqixingdededao fangan，zhishaodajiayekeyilejiezishenyijingqinfen，zhongyouyitianshikeyihuodede。

二、提高自身的经验，不必让物质欲望和所操纵。

 dajiachangshuonanhaieryaoqiongyang，nvhaieryaofuyang，zaiqizhongdemudibianshirangnvshengtigaozishendeyanjie，laopochuguijinerburongyibianchengyigeshaojianduoguaideren。neiyangzuodeyichujiuqujueyuburongyiweiyixiekanqilaishehua，kanqilaihenxingfudexuweisuomohuan。youyuyidiandiantaojinhu，yijianyexuyoujiazhidelipinjiuluhuolezishendexin，tashimeijianguoshimiandezhuyaobiaoxian。nijuedehenjiageangguidelipin，zaitarenlaikandayueyejinjinpingshiwu，youyudajiabingbushilizaiyigejiazhiguannianshang。nvxingtishengzijideyanjiehefengfuduocaizishendejingyan，keyifeichanghaodejianbiexuwei，buhuirangzishenlunluotarenjiemendewanju。

三、擅于沟通交流，让自身越来越更为以诚相待。

 xuduo nvxingmingbiaomiangennanpengyouhuoshizhangfuguanlianfeichanghao，shishishangxinquebuzaiyiqi。biaocengshangyuefaketao，yuefamiantiandefuqiganqing，qishifuqiguanxiyufabutaihao，zheibuguoshiyizhongjiduanhuadezhuyaobiaoxian。xuduo nvxingbenlaiyouhenduohuayaoxianggenzhangfushuo，youhenduoyouyisideshiyaoxianggenzhangfugongxiang，danbianshishuobuchukou，yuangufeichangjiandan，dajiajinjinfufu，wobuxiangxinaiqing。zheileiguanlianxiadeliangren，youqishinvxinggenghuiganshoudaogudan，xinlihenkumen。yinci nvrenyaoxiangdiyuzhuwaiyudeyouhuo，jiuyingdangxianbazijidejianuanqilai，erbushishizhongneimabingleng。younaxieniantoujiugongxiangrangnideairen，younaxiexianggandejiuyaoyuetayiqi，buyaohaipahuijue，gengbubiganjueguoyibuqu。dajiashibiyihangxingdeniao，nimeiduitashuo，taruhepanduanniyaoxiangfeidaonaer?

 nvxingdiyuwaiyudeyouhuozhibuguobianshigenjusangecengmian，yigenjuzishenhelianrendeqinfenqukaolvzishengaiyoudeyaoqiu，ertigaozishendeyanjie，rangzishenbuyishoupianshangdang，sanbianshijiaqiangfuqiganqing，rangzheigeyulaiyuwenrou，laopochuguizenmebanbaozhengzheisandianniyejiukeyifeichanghaodeezhizhuwaiyudeyouhuo。