到底男人能如何对待出轨的爱人

 henduonvxinghunneichugui,daduoshuyouyuzishendezhangfuduizishenbutaihao,huoshizhangfubuzuchuse。chuguideairenhuoshiyouyupoxizhijianjiejuebutaihao，xiaochulexianghujiandeqinggan，yekenengshizhangfuzuolesunhaizishendeshier。ruzhangfuzemaxifu，fuqizhijianruhexiangchuduixifuxintailengmo，mengpianxifu，shenzhiyoushizhangfuzaiwaimianxiangaideren。

 yongyouzheizhongsunhaizhihou，xifujiuburongyibafuqiguanxikandefeichangzhong，pengdaowaimianduizishenhaodenansheng，huoxudadongxiabianhuihongxingchuqiang，maixiangwaiyu。neimaqizichuguiyingbuyinggaikuanrongni?dajiahuanshiyaoxiangxiqingkuangshenrufenxi。

一、反省自己，知彼知己。

 qizichugui，weizijidailedailvmao，shikeshabukeru!shurenkeren?zuoweiyiqieyigenanrenneixinyidinghenzaoxin，zhenhenbunengbaxifujisuishiwanduan。bulihunba，xinlidudehuang。yuanliangba，youdanyouchuguinvrenyici，shifouhuichengyin，zhihoushifouhuizaicifasheng。shifouhuidierci，disancideyuanliang。rangzishenyuelaiyuemeilejichudeweirenchushidaodedixian。buyuanliangba，xiangyixiangweilaideluyeshizhongzhongkunnan，youyuzishendeneixinzaoshoudesunhaibingbushisuibianjiunengyonghuanbierenlaiwanliude。

 keshinixuyaoxiangxianglihunledehua，zishenkefoujienalihunlededanshenyuxiaohaizi，huanshigengnengjienayigezishenrongrenxiawanliulaidekanqilaixiangxidejiani?nayigegengqiangni?nayigeduinichanshengdesunhaigengxiaoni?shiyiruci，dajiajuede，niyebixupingjingxialaitishengsikaozishen，yiqiebiyouyin。nishibushijiehunhouyuelaiyuebulangmanle，meiyoujiehunqiandeqinqinwowole，meiyoujixifuhuashijianyongxinle，duixifubuguanxintitiele，yinci tacaigudujimo，queshichulaixunkaixinxuncijixing。ruguoshizheileizhuangkuang，dajiajuedeneibianshinizuoweilaogongdenantile，ruguoyigenvrentianshengbianshiqidaibeichongnizhede，tayeshiyoushenaihezhuiqiuwanmeiaidezhipeiquan。zheileizhuangkuangxia，tanenggoukuanrong，feichangzhidekuanrong。

 ruguoshinidelaopoxingqingjiuxihuannianhuarecao，taoyanpingpingchangchangderichangshenghuo，chuguideairenjiuqidainanshengjinjinweiraozhezishenerhuo，xiaiganhuangdanpingdanwuqideshier，neimatajiubuzhinidekuanrong。quangaonihuanshiquannijinzaotingshou，jinzaobaituokunjing，zhaoxunnidedierchunba!zhongjiurenshengkuduan，meibiyaoyouyujiehunqianmeiyoutigaojingti，zhaobuduirenerweihaizishenyishengdehunyinshenghuoxingfukuaile。

二、看妻子出轨后的心态。

 suhuashuodehao：“renwuwanren，jinwuzuchi”。qizichuguiyidingyouyidingdeyuangu，yaobushijingshenkongxu，naibuzhujimo，zhuiqiuwanmeicijixing，yaobushimeiyouzhujian，jingbuzhuyinyou。keshijiehunhouqizichugui，yehuibianchengliangrenzhongjianshizhongdejiedi。jiarubicizhongjianyongyouxiaohai，liyidehuayehuiduixiaohaidesunhaigenggao。zuoweixifu，xiaohaidemama，renxingwangwei，hunneichugui，duiquanbujiazhongdesunhaiquanshifeichangdade。jiranbicidangshiwanhun，jiuxuyaodanfuqijiazhongdeyiwu，duijiazhongzhongshi。chuziyuduijiatinghemudezhangjiukaolvdao，nihuanshiyaoheqizijingxialaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliuxia。kanyixiaxifuduizishenwaiyudexintaihelejie，kanyixiayoumuyoujiejuekunnandefangshi，bushangpobudeyi，huanshibubisuibianliyi。yaolejiebaochiyigejiazishenquanshibuyide。jiarutajinjinlveweiduinayigenanshengyoudianeryisi，keshitahuanshishenaizheni，youhuiguozhiyi，neimanijiuxuyaojitajietixia，jitayicihuiguozixindejiyu，suihougaohaogecengmian，zhangwoyixieqizichuguigaizenyangwanhuihunyindefangshi，jianxindajiahuibidangshigengxingfu。zhongjiufufuhuanshizhengshidehao。ziranninanguoshimianbulede，jiaruxifutianxingbulan，jinjinbulizhiwaiyu，erqiezhenxinshiyihuigai。zuoweinansheng，weilegenghaodijiazhongdeyizhixing，duliangbiandayidian，yuanliangyicimeishenmelebuqide。

 liangrenkefouguohao，zhongyaoyeyaokaoliangrenzishenyunying。nanshengkeyidajuweizhongbianshihaolaogong。yaolejiexingxingfenshidongwuherenleidequedian，jiaruninengxuehuifangxia，feichangaifeichangaita，jiububizhemozijile。zaizhihouderichangshenghuojianjiandiquxiufuzheiyitongdianba!keshiyuyanzhongjian，yidingyaorangtagaoqingchunideweirenchushidaodedixian，yujiatingduitashouyudeyiwuheqidai，rangtaxiaobianjiazhongxiaohaidexuexipeixun，jiazhongderichangshenghuofenpei，jiecijihuitishenglaopodejiatingzerengan。

 ziran，jiaruxifudewaiyuzishenbianshiyouxinde，shiyigeguannianganqingfengfuduocaideren。ergennimeifagoutongjiaoliu，bingqieduizheiyijiazaoyimeishenmelianlianbusheketan，doubujuedezishenyoucuo，meishenmeneijiudexin，jiarubicidoumeiyouxiaohaidehua，neimaniyejiumeiyoubixuyuanlianghuoshizaichangshiwanliushenmele。zhongjiu，tadexinzaoyizaijialile，nicunzhetaderenyoumeiyoushenmeyongni?bingqieyidannvxingruguobuaile，duoshuowuyi。nvxingtongchangshibijiaominganyouchiqing，aiyigerenyuanyinnenggouchengqianshangwan,buaiyigerendeqingkuangxiayuanyinzhiyouyige:ganqingmeiyoule!nibeidailedailvmao，zaizheileizhuangkuangxia，niyejiunenggoubadailvmaofangchulai，yazhidegaozhixifu，wohenaini，jiarunixuyaozhuiqiunishuobailedexingfukuaile，woyefangniquwan，bingzhufutaxingfukuaile。fuqizhijianruhexiangchujibian buzuofufu，yebubizuochoudi。yaokuankuozishendexionghuai，zuonanrenyaonadeqifangdexiabaidexia，zhongjiuxiuenaisidekuai，zhangtongbibushangduantong，rujinliangrenzaiyiqihaibibushangfenlidehao。jiarujuedeshangxin，jiutaitouwangwangtiankongba，taneimedayidingnenggoukuanrongnidequanbubiequ。