情场失意了妻子出轨后自己应该咋办

nijingliguopanbianma?neishihoudenishiruhedeyizhongzuowei，shixinhuiyilenghoudeyirankuanrong，huanshidafaleitinghoudeqianchuangbaikong?danwulunzenyang，jianxinneishihoudenidouzaoyuzhezuitengde，zuinannengkeguitiaoxuan，wulunshifuhexing，fuqizhijianruhexiangchuhuanshifenlichulai。keshiyouxiuderenyidinghuicongquanjuxingquxiashou，jinyouyudundeyouxiurencaihuibumingbaiyizhi，qingchangshiyizuizhongrangjieguoyifabukeshoushi。danshijiujingqizichuguishibushikeyikuanrongde?daodiyingdangzenmezuocaisuanshizuiqiadangdexuanze

zhenduiqizichuguinengbeikuanrongdehenyoukenengguanjianyouxialiehaoduogecengmian：

倍感内疚，想要悔过自新。

xuduo chuguinvrenshishouwaibuyaosuheganxingsiweiweihai，yidanchanshengwaiyu，tamenhuishifendekuijiu，huiconggezhonggeyangcengmianpeichangzishenyujiating。jiaruzheigeshihouzishenduixifuhuanshishifenshenaizhe，neimahebuzhuangzuoweicengchanshengguozheijianshiqing，rangshijianjianjiandidehuifuzishendewaishang，suihouyijiarenhehemeimeiderichangshenghuo。

经济发展不单独，离不了另一方。

muqianshehuifazhan，bansuizhenvshideyingxianglichixutigao，nvxingbianchengzhicichangqiangduren，ernanshengzebianchenglejiatingfunv，xueqiletaorenxihuandenaigou。wulunshisixiangguannian，huanshiqiancaishangmianlibulezishendenvxing，jiaruzishenshineiyangdeyigezhangfu，neimayaoxiangguozheneijishengderichangshenghuo，jiububibaoyuanlingyifang，yaotiaoxuankuanronglingyifang，zhongjiuzishengerensuodedeyiqiedoushitoujiquqiao，youyounaxieyuanyinquzhizelingyifangni?

为了更好地儿女，委曲求全。

doushuonvrensishuizuode，youqishiganlemamadenvxing，tamenbujinyouzheshuiyibanderouqingsishui，qingchangshiyiyeyouzhegangyibandeyingshi。jiarufufubicizaoyiwanhunhenduonian，qielaopozhenduizheiyijiazhong，youqishixiaohaitourudeyouqiduo，yeyouqishenaizhezheiyixiaohai。neimazheigeshihouzishenyingdangzuoyigeshidangdexuanze，bubitaiguojiroujiangying，bazijihelingyifangbilaidaosilushang，zhongjiuquanshiweilebaobao，sheideyishengmeiyoufanguoshi。ziran，zheiyeshigenjuzishenduilaopodeaiheduixiaohaideaiyouduoshen，laiduofangmianxuanzede。

zhenduiqizichuguibubeikuanrongdegailvguanjianyouxialie2gecengmian：

以自我为中心，没什么悔改之意。

dangzishenfajueqizichuguiyihou，helingyifangdangzhongzhiwen。zheigeshihouxifuyixinzhidianjizhezishen，conglaibukaolvdaozheiyijiazhonghezheixieniandeqinggan，yegengburongyiyaoxianghuiguozixin，yizhijiangwaiyudeyuanguqiangjiayuzishenyigerendeshenshang，shuozishenmeishenmigan，meikongpeizishenzheixie，congbucengsikaoguozishen。lingwai，jiangzishendeguoshiwujinbianda，juedetawaiyuyeshilisuodangrandezuowei，zheigeshihouniyejiunenggoumingzhengyanshundexiuleta，neiyangdenvrenyuhunyinshenghuobubiyehao。

另一方外遇，自身亦变心。

ruguoshifufubiciduizheishidezheiyiduanqingganyebukanzhong，bingqiezishenyeshixiaizhaohuarecao。fuqizhijianruhexiangchuzheigeshihouchedinenggoukaolvdaolilehun。hunyinshenghuoshichuangjianxianghenizaiyiqiyuxinrenganyishangde，jiarulianjibendeaidoumeiyou，gengbietixinrengan，yebietichijiule;huanshihenzaohepingfenshou，haixianghuyigesuiyizhishen，rangxianghuhaoguo。