自己遇到老婆爱情出轨怎么应对

 ganqingzhizhong，fenqinanyibimian，zhengzhibucengxiaotui。youshihou，lingyifangmingquetichuletichufenshou，fuqizhijianruhegoutonghuizhizishenjuedeshouzuwucuo。lijiyaoqiuyeba，gankuaifuwuchengnuoyehao，aiqingchuguifangfoshijixiaoguobingbulixianghua。zenmewanhuishuangxinglianxifu?qudechenggongwanhuilaopodesangefangfa。

方法一：积极关注另一方的内心深处。

 lianrenzaijiaowangquanguochengzhizhong，youshihouweilegenghaodikeyidedao guanxin，huicaiyongyixiefangfa。lirusamaimeng、dawanshua，xianluchulaiyidianxiaoqingxuzheixie。xuduo zhuangkuangxia，dajiabingmeiyouyinqizhongshi，fandaojianglingyifanggaileigerenxingweifenleiweimanbujiangli。quebuzhidao，zheileizuofaqueshiqinglv。shijishang，zheijinjinlingyifangbiaoluchudeyigeshujuxinhao，suizhezhemouleixinlixuqiumeiyoudedao kaolvxinxineirong。

 wanliushi，yaoxixinsisuo，yiqianlingyifangzheibanzuofadeyidianyidi。yibanlaishuo，gerenxingweidoushihuisuizhemouleiyuyanyitongchuxian，jianxinxunzhaoshuangxinglianxifudexinlixuqiubingbuhuitainan。ranhou，zaicaiyongyidingduicejiukeyi。ruguoshiyouxiaodehuaxuewuzhiyaoqiu，nenggouweilingyifangsongshangyifenliwu，shuoshangjijurencuodehua，biaoshuyixiaqingyi;ruguoshimouleiwuxingzhongyaoqiu，nenggouzishengenjuxingdong，laishijianhuodonglingyifangsuoxusuoganjiukeyi。

方法二：说话之道，寻找畅顺的沟通渠道

 henduorenyingduiwanliushuangxinglianxifu，yikaishidouhuixixintitieruwei，zheiyexingneiyexing，aiqingchuguiyaoshishinenghehao，ruhezuodoukeyi。danyoushihouwanliubingbuchenggong，zheiyifenxixinbianmanmanjiandi，qudaitadedeshijizaoqingxu，qijibaihuai。zhijieyuanyin，shizaiqianyishizhongyiranjuede，woyijingjilenijietixia，niweishenmeyizhiduanzhe?cicinixuyaogaoshangheshi?zheixie。ruozheiban，beixiaojiqingxusuoshangxia，jibian lingyifangyuanyihehao，henyoukenengyehuibeicifuqierzou。

 wanliuquanguochengzhizhong，yaoshuohuazhidao，shuoshihua，shuohaotingdehua。jiaruhaicunzaixianghudelianxidianhua，lirudianhua、duanxiaoxi、shoujiweixin、xinlangweibozheixiejiaoyouruanjian，neimaqingyidingaixi，zheishuomingyiqiejushiyeyouwanliudekongjian。jiaruzaoyizaochengfenshouzhuangkuang，haiyaojiejiaojiezao，rangfenqizhilengchulai，dailingyifangnaonuxintaixiaoshi，zaigenjushitanjiukeyi。

方法三：得失之间，不忘自身

 henduirendaosangshishuangxinglianxifuyihou，meifabaozhengdandingcongrong，yizhixinfanyiluan，zaochengxuduo duoyudedanyou。shijishang，youweibiyoude，youdeyebiyouwei，deshizhijianquanshinenggouhuxiangzhuanhuande，qiejiyouyulingyifangyishimingquetichutichufenshou，erwangjizishen，wangjilebenlaiderichangshenghuo，wangjilebenlaidefangwei。

 qingxuxuanxie，nenggou;jilingyifangfaxiaoxibiaoshuqingyi，yeke。danyiqiegerenxingwei，qingzaiyouxiaodefanchouyinei。lingwai，zhenduizishenderichangshenghuo，yidingyaojianchibuxiedaliangshunxiangde、jijizhudongdecengmian。quebuzhidao，meiyigerendouxiaixiangshoushenghuo、xiaishenxinjiankangdeairen。wanliulingyifanglingwai，qingzaicibaochiwendingshenghuozuoxi，buwangzishen，jianchibuxiexiangchusefangweixiangqian。

 zhishang，bianshiqudechenggongwanliushuangxinglianxifudesangefangfa。fenshouzhihou，huozhilingyifangsuogan，bianyoujukeyi;fuqizhijianruhegoutongweichigoutongjiaoliugongluqiaoliang，jishuohuazhidao;richangshenghuobuwangzishen，kebaochichuse。zuihou，zishenzhongjiangzaiyipianzhenxinshiyizhizhongyingdeyiqianlianren。