老婆出轨了，我到底该不该原谅，首先该做什么？

 zaixianrujinzheiyishifengrixiadedangdaishehuifazhanzhizhong，dachengshidezhongguolihunlvyizhizhanxianchupingxingxianshenggaodefazhanqushi，erjubuchedishujuxinxidiaoyanshujuxianshi，zaizhuduodelihunanlizhizhong，waiyushizaochengliyidezuiguanjianyuangu，zaiqizhongbulunshinanrenhuanshinvxingchangyoujianghuihuichuxianwaiyudegailv。neixifuchuguizhihougaizenmeban?jiejuefanganshishenme?xiabianwomenyiqilaishenrufenxiyixia!

nvrenchuguizhihougaizenmeban?

(1)最先一定要平稳好自身的心态 qinggannantihenxinlei？10skuaisushenqingqingganzhenduan！

 zhenduinvrenchuguineiyangdezhuangkuangjianxinmeiyouyigenanrenkeyijiena，zhenduinanreneryanzuibihuidemoguo“dailvmao”le。zheiyiqingkuangxiaxuduo nanrenshenganwuru，jianghuihuiduilaopozemananxiuzuizhonggaoshanglihunle。shishishangzaixifuchuguizhihouzuixianyaorangzishendexintaijingxiaxinlai，youyurendaoyuwangdeqingkuangxiazuochuqudejuecetongchanghuihouhuimoji，zhinenglizhicaikeyirangzishenjinkuaijiejuejiexiaqudenanti。

(2)从彼此中间去找缘故

 renmenchangchangshuoyigebazhangpaibuxiang，jinguannvrenchuguishiyigedanfangdegerenxingwei，keshijiarushiyouyufuqijianzhangqixingguanlianbuhe，neimashuomingerzhexianghuguanxiqueshicunyouyidingdenanti，zuixianyidingyaorenqingbicizhijianshifoucunzaidewenti，kanyixiazheizhongnantijiujingshinenggouchulidehuanshijiejuebulede，zuizhongzaishuozaicisikaozheiyiduanguanlian。

(3)离异并非唯一的解决方案

 zhenduixifuchuguizhihougaizenmebanzheiyinanti，xuduo nanrendaonvrenchuguizhihougaizenmebanzuixianxiangqidejiushishuoliyi，keshijiarumingquefuqijianyeyouqinggan，erqiexifuchuguijinjinyishihulihutudaozhide，nenggourangbicidouzuozhelai，suihoupingxinjingqiditanyitanjiexiaqudejiejuefangan，haikeyishizhejilingyifangyicijihui，yexunengmairuxindejushi。

 zhishangjiushishuoyouguannvrenchuguizhihougaizenmebandeyouguanxinxixiangxijieshao，laopoweiziji“dailvmao”jinguanmeibanfalingrenjiena，keshishierzaoyichanshenghou，wubiyaolizhicaikeyijiejuehaoneiyangdenanti。