出轨的女人想要丈夫原谅自己，首先你得这么做

 hunyinshenghuozhongchuxianpanbianshirenmenzuzhibuledeyizhongbuxing，naizhizheiyibuxinghaiyaodazhanbideshenggaozhe。danshibingbushirenherenpengdaolehunhouchuguidoushitiaoxuanliyi，yiranyouxuduo renxiangyaojilingyifangyicijihui，yeshixuduo renwaiyuyihoubingbuxianglihun，huiqidaozishendeairenkuanrong。-ruhe wanhui

 ziranwomendoushiquanhebuquanzude，yaoshixiangyaohaohaodideyishizhuxingzaiyiqi，fuqijianchangyouzheiyixianghudezongtimubiao，neibianshiqiadangdetiaoxuan。jinjin gaizenyangbaneixinzheidaokanduguo，rangzishenkeyijienaairenwaiyudeshijini?

 jiarupengdaoleairenwaiyu，shijishangdiyigeyaoxiangdenanti，jiushishuojiujinglingyifangweihemeifakeshouduihunyinshenghuodezhongshi，shifouzishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongyeshizuodebuzuhaodediqu。suihoububidianjizhequzhuigenjiudidebalingyifangneixindecankaodaanzhaochuqu，neiyangzongshijinisangshidedaliang。chongzudefansheng，chongzudezhangwolingyifang，caisuanshinigaizuodeshier。

 zhenduiwaiyudereneryan，ziranshiyaohuaizheyigezhenchenghuigaidexintaizhuangtai，mianduizishendebuzhengque。dangnidouhaipafanmiandejiejuekunnan，neimaniyizhiyekuadanshizheiyikan。

yinci，jinrijiuyongzheisandianlaiduinishuo，chuguinvrenxiangranglaogongkuanrongzishen，gaijiangchuquanbudeshiqingma?

1、要有负责任的心态状态，讲出实情是一种承认错误的个人行为

 xuduo renjuedebukeyiduizishendeairenjiangchuzishenwaiyudejutiqingkuang，danyouzheizhongjiushihuishanglelingyifangdexin，huihuailezishenzaiairenxinlideyingxiangli，rangliangrenmeifahehaoruchu。

 neiyangdeniantoushijishangshibuzhengquede，niyuefahaipajiangchuzishendezhixinhua，jiuyuefayiweizhenihaipadanfuzishenwaiyudeyiwu。laidaozheiyineishihou，nijiuhuifaxiannibenzhijiumeiyoufangfawanliulingyifang，huanjuhuashuojiushinibenzhijiumeiyoukuanrongzishen。

jiushishuoyouyuneiyangdeyizhongxintaizhuangtai，jiniyizhimeiyoufangfamaikaigenggaiyiwangdediyibu。

2、挑明外遇的历经，能够让另一方更为在乎你

 waiyuyihou，jiranbuyuandaobiezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo，neimanihaiyaoyichengxiangdaizishendewaiyuqinshenjingli，rangzhenzhengainiderengaoqingchunijiujingyouyunaxieyibuaita，yibuzongsuanzheiyiduanhunyinshenghuo。

 zhinengranglingyifangzhangwoni，caikeyigenggairujindetanpanjiangju。yexuruguonijiangchuleyiqie，tameifajiena，jianchibuxieyuniliyi。keshiyuanbinimanzhetakeguanshishideshiqingyaohaohenduo。

zhongsuozhouzhifuqijianbixuchongzudelejiehezhongshi，dangniduanjuelelingyifanglejienidejiyu，neimajiuduanjuelehehaodejiyu。

yinci，banideailakaiyingduizishendeairen，zaicitahuiquzourunideaiba。

3、积极以诚相待应对外遇，才可以复建夫妇的信赖

 fuqijiandexinlaiganchuangjiandoushibixuyichengxiangdaizuoweiqiantitiaojiande，xuduo renjiushishuoshashadede，haipajiangchukeguanshishideshiqing，yizhizaifanfuzhe：“jiubukeyixinwoyici。”

danshipingzheneiyangdekongkoubaiyajiuyaolingyifangxinlaini，nijuedeshijima?

 ruguonihaibazishendeyinsibaohuzangzaixinlingshenchu，nijuedesheihuizhenshidekuanrongneiwo?nimeixiangyaokaiqizishendexin，tadoubuxiangyaoduorangniyicijihui，zheijiushishuoyizhongwuxianxunhuan，sheiyewufadedaoxuyoudexingfukuaile。

 nanshengshiaimianzide，keshitadoushiqiwangzishenyoumeihaodeshenghuo，dangniqueshizuigaitakuanrong，tadangranyeburongyisuibianfangkaishou。

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 jiusuanshizuizhongdexiachangyiranburongyirenke，nihuanshibixuyingdui，zhongjiuzheijiushinidebuzhengque，duobinanyijiejueyiqienanti。bunengyongduobidexintaizhuangtaiyingduiyishizhuxing，neibanninengsangshidedaliang。