老婆出轨怎么办 要把这几点考虑清楚

laopochuguigaizenmeban？shijieshangbingmeiyoujueduijizhidehunyin，yinciyicidewaiyuyebingbushibukeraoshu，danyebunengsuibiankuanrong。 laopochugui legaizenmeban？yaobazheijidiankaolvdaoqingxi。

老婆出轨该怎么办？要把这幾點考虑到清晰

一、考虑到自身的心里可否均衡

yibanlaishuojiarufufubicimeiyou“yuanzexingdenanti”，tongchanghuixiubuhao。erjiaruyifangchuxianle“yuanzexingdenanti”zezheiyiduanhunyinjiangzaoyuyanjunkaoyan。waiyuxianeryijianshi“yuanzexingdenanti”。laopochuguishierduobanhuidaozhizhangfuxinlijidadebupinghengli。shiyizhici，jiaruxiangyaohunyinjianchixiaqu，zheileixintaidiaojieshizhuyaochulidenanti。jiarujunhengbushang，yidingmeibanfazhangqi。

二、再次思考大家中间的情感

yingduiqiziwaiyu，youdenanshengrengranduilaopoaizhe，jiusuantazuochuneiyangdesunhaitadeshier，yiranxiangyaozaici，shubuzhilaoposhibushiyetongyangdeaizhangfushizuigaisisuode。zhangfuailaopobilaopoaizhangfuduoyixie，zhangfubixusisuoyixiazishenjiyutadeai，queshishitasuobixudeaima?yaobushi，niyebixuchenxialaixinyongxindelaixiangyixiang，niliangshibushiqueshiheshizaiyiqi。

三、自我反省

laopochuguilezenmeban，zhangfuyaodongdeziwofansheng。wenchongbudingwufengpinjiededan，huacaolibucao。yidingqixiandajiadehunyinchuxianlenanti，suihoucaihuishihunyinzhongdeyigerenxunzhaohunwaiqingdejiyu。yinci，qidaipengdaolaopochuguinanrennengjingxialaixiangyixiang，zishenzaihunyinzhongshifouhaozhangshijianhushilelaopodetihui，huoshijinjinyiweideyizhaozishendejuedequaita，danzishenjidebingfeilaoposuoxiangyaode。neiyangxiangyixiang，jianghuihuijiangdiyixieduiwaiyulaopodenaonuheyuanqi。lingwaiyehuiranglaopoganjuezhangfukeyiduitayixielejie，duixiubuliangrendeqingganshiyouxiezhude。

四、看老婆对婚姻是不是有确立的心态

qizichuguizaibeifajuehoudexintaijiushinikaolvdaowanhuilaogongdezhongyao。tashibushihaiaini，shibushixiangzaiciyunyingzheiyiduanhunyin，huoxuliangrenbixuwanquandehaohaoditanyitan。zhangfuxiangyaozaicihunyin，zuixianyaojiandaolaopoduihunyindequelidexintai，tadexinshibushiyiranzaizheiyihunyinzhonghuoshizuishaoxiangyaozaicifanhuizheiyihunyinzhong?zheihenguanjian。buran，zhangfudekuanrongjinjinweizijizaiyicipengshangdejiyubale。