怎么对付有家暴的男人？这样反击前任冷暴力，他会后悔冷落你

 jiabaolihun，ganqingzhongzuipubiandeyizhongjieguobianshi，nanshengyizhihuiyingyonglengbaolibilingyifangtichufenshou，fuqidajiayujiabaodequbieshishenme？fangfoyijuwobuxihuannilebuhaoshuochurukou。nijuedetashiyouyufahuobuhenijianghua，shijishanghenyoukenengtaneixinzaoyizaoyiyongyoubiededeganqingjiyu，zenmeduifuyoujiabaodenanren？duinimeilexiaiyihoulianzhongshidoushihuituoli。

 duinanshengeryan，lengbaolishiyongfeichangjiandandefangfa，zhaixialehuaxinnandezheyangmao，duinvxingeryan，genghaoxiangzishenpanxinglesizui，yeyaoqinziqushixing。

neimadangnanrenlengbaolifenshoushi，qingshanggaodenvrenyingdangruhehaijini?

第一，先接纳随后解决心态

xuduo nvhaifenshouzhihou，zongshiyiweidekonggao：“nizhiqianbushizheiyangde。”“niweiheneimeyijianshi”。

jiangzhiqiantaduinidexintaiyurujinqingkuangbizhao，huizaochenglingyifangdemingxiandichu，guanlianhuiyulaiyulainingzhi。

danxiangwanliu，diyibubianshijiena。

第二，弄清楚他冷暴力的根本原因是啥

 zai“lengbaoli”deguanlianzhong，nibingbingbushiweiyideshouhairen，zuoweishibaozhetayiyangzaoshoulesunhai。fazhanqushidaozheiyijushi，kenengshidajialiangrenyitongdaozhide。

kenengshidajiadeqingganfashenglenanti，jiarunizaoqijilelingyifangtaiduodejingshenyali，jiqiletamingxiandepaichixinlizhuangtai。

 zaizheileipaichixinlizhuangtaidequdongqixia，tajiandaonidexinxineirong，zenmeduifuyoujiabaodenanren？tingjiannideshengyu，naizhitingjiannidemingzi.，doushihuiyounanshoudexintai，bianhuixuanyonglengbaoli。

 fuqidajiayujiabaodequbieshishenme？yehenyoukenengtashihuibixingrengetezhi，yingduitiaozhanduocaiyongtaobixintaihuowonangshiying。liangrenjiaowangdequanguochengli，zaisuonanmianyoushenmewentifasheng。

nixiaimeirizhanzheta，taquexiaigenpenyouchulaijuhuihuodong。

zheileishenghuoxiguanhuoshihexinliniandebuhexie，doushihuifashengzhengzhi，tahuiganjuezheigewentishifenda，dadaozishenmeifachuli。

jiranmeifachuli，neinengtaoyihuishiyihuiba。

yinci，yuanbenhenpingshideqingganwenti，jiuhuoshengshengdebianchenglesanguanbuhe，huijuegoutongjiaoliu。

jutifenxiyixia，daodishizishendenanti，huanshilingyifangdenanti，zaochenglengbaolideyuangujiujingshishenme?

第三、寻找机会，深层次沟通交流

dangnongqingwenti、zhangwoyuanguhou，nenggoutiaoxuanshihedejihuigenlingyifangkaizhanyicishencenggoutongjiaoliu。

 yifangmianbaxianjieduanqingganzhongcunzaidebuzu，yimeiyouxintaidefangfahelingyifangpingjingxialaihaohaodigoutongjiaoliu，lingwaiyezhengqueyindaolingyifangbiaoshuxinlideniantouhebumanyi。

ruguoshibenshendenantizaocheng lingyifangdexintaihewuhui，nenggoushidutonglixin，bingxianglingyifangzhiqian。

 chucizhiwai，hainenggouxianglingyifangbiaoshuzishenxinlidetihuihexuqiu，zhengqueyindaolingyifangbaituolengdanheshuyuan，biciyiqishangyiruhejiejuedefangfa。

 “lengbaoli”dezaochengshilaiyuanyudajiarichangshenghuofenqideleiji，cike，jiubixuyigerenxianbaituoyibu，gaibianxianzhuangdefangfa，jianjiandituidonglingyifang，baituolengbaolidexunhuanxitong。

jiabaolihun，qidainikeyizuoshenmexianren，yongzishendexingdonglingzhetabaituolengbaoli，wanliudajiazhongjiandeganqing!